Bree Giffen Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 (edited) There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? Edited February 15, 2022 by Bree Giffen 2 2 17 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddy Vortex Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 9 minutes ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? Their business, not mine. Don't care. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ (Hey look, I made a 6 word memoir!) 20 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathlen Onyx Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 17 minutes ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? I call it none of anyone's business. I don't ask this in RL of people why in the world would I care what sexual activities random strangers partake in? I view them as people. Who cares? 19 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gwin LeShelle Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 (edited) Why do you need a label for this? I am always surprised how often we humans seek for labels or drawers to put other people in but are so offended if other humans put us in dusty drawers or put a label on our forehead x3 People are people. Period I am also not asking my RL neighbors about their bedroom activities so why should I care in SL x3 Edited February 15, 2022 by Gwin LeShelle 14 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 4 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Syo Emerald Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 Now thats a random collection of words. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Annalise Evergarden Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 If they're choosing to do it in public, then I hope they don't mind if I watch with a bowl of popcorn and running commentary. "No no, You're doing it all wrong! Do you know nothing of women's anatomy?!" 1 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dafadilia Wayfarer Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 It isn't any of my business in either world. People who actually put their nose in the romantic lives of others have way too much time on their hands. They need to find a more productive hobby that doesn't involve sticking their nose where it doesn't belong. Just my take on it... 12 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alwin Alcott Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 55 minutes ago, Bree Giffen said: How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? what status? .. theirs or the one you try to stick to them? 14 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Theresa Tennyson Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. Are you sure the correct term in Second Life would be "incels"? I think it would be closer to "doesntknowhowtomakeanaltcels." 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaithLynnSayes Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 48 minutes ago, Dafadilia Wayfarer said: They need to find a more productive hobby that doesn't involve sticking their nose where it doesn't belong. Just my take on it... Exactly... Because it just might... 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sukubia Scarmon Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 I view them as I would any other person because I could absolutely not care less about whether or not a person had sex. It doesn't make them better, it doesn't make them lesser, that's just a random thing that's not my buisness nor of interest to me. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Silent Mistwalker Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 1 hour ago, Dafadilia Wayfarer said: It isn't any of my business in either world. People who actually put their nose in the romantic lives of others have way too much time on their hands. They need to find a more productive hobby that doesn't involve sticking their nose where it doesn't belong. Just my take on it... Better not let Michaleen Flynn hear you say that. 🤭 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coffee Pancake Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 2 hours ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? I think you need to cut to the point here Bree, that word salad of similar yet entirely different (and sometimes conflicting) terms is just leaving everyone confused. 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarlanderGoods Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 woohoo! here we goooo ! What I REALLY wonder is, what is their RL gender, and, do they want crypto in-game? /me swats all the crosshairs from their forehead. 10/10 would post in this thread again. 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blaise Glendevon Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 I approach this subject by staying hydrated and minding my business. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 2 hours ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? I could not give a flying fig what anyone else chooses to have as their "status". If, however, they try to "convert" me to their belief, they will, as in real life, get a door shoved firmly in their face. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bree Giffen Posted February 15, 2022 Author Share Posted February 15, 2022 6 minutes ago, Coffee Pancake said: I think you need to cut to the point here Bree, that word salad of similar yet entirely different (and sometimes conflicting) terms is just leaving everyone confused. I thought I was clear. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Orwar Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 (edited) I don't really call such people anything specific. Unless they drone on about what good people they are 'cause they don't do that sort of thing (usually with a tone of spite towards people that do). At which point I call them 'annoying'. Edited February 15, 2022 by Orwar 12 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 2 minutes ago, Bree Giffen said: I thought I was clear. No not really. It's like something is playing in your head, a particular situation or experience or person who may have bamboozled you in some way, or done something to question your own beliefs. I've encountered quite a few different "lifestylers" in my time in Second Life (and in Real come to that), but "incel" isn't one of them. I never even heard this term until a young man went on a killing spree last year in Plymouth, UK, last year. Rejected by women apparently turned him into a hate-filled killing machine. Tragic what makes someone turn out like that. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 2 hours ago, Bree Giffen said: There is this particular horizontal activity in SL which residents can choose to partake, refrain from, or perhaps seek but are denied. Those who choose do not to participate would be called, or call themselves, chaste, virgins, aces, asexual, or even incels. How do you view others who have this particular status within SL? I don't partake, but I also do not call myself "chaste, virgin, aces, asexual". I don't call myself anything related to sexual conduct in SL because I really just don't even think about it. Since I don't think about it for myself, why would I concern myself with others regarding such activities in SL, whether or not they partake? The only time I care about anything sexual in SL is when someone cannot take NO for an answer from me or when they try to force me into their RP. 8 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Claireschen Hesten Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 If people choose to refrain from the horizontal tango for whatever reason that's their choice. However some people really enjoy the BDSM side of chastity, they perhaps don't choose to refrain but enjoy having their access to gratification controlled by someone else via chastity devices. Not really my thing and not my business if it's their thing 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blaise Glendevon Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 6 minutes ago, Marigold Devin said: Rejected by women apparently turned him into a hate-filled killing machine. Tragic what makes someone turn out like that. More like a culture of misogyny. 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kylie Jaxxon Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 The draw to SL is not sexual for everyone. I don't partake, but any of the words you cited is not the reason...mine is no drama needed 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 Just now, Blaise Glendevon said: More like a culture of misogyny. Something his mother drummed into him? Girls at school teasing him for not being attractive? Who knows? Bloody tragic this case was, not least because of the innocent people he killed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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