Rhonda Huntress Posted February 19, 2020 Share Posted February 19, 2020 So, let's start with the usual suspects. Me, the tall redhead on the left and my alt Maybie, the short blond. So here's the thing ... I can't get a dance partner when I go out alone. Well, I *can* but it never ends well if I approach the man. I won't approach a woman unless there is some obvious group or comment in her profile that would show her as wanting same sex attention. However it seems most women who would like a woman to dance with have brought their own. If I don't make the first move I may as well be a bar stool because no one IM's me. Very rarely I get "hi" from some guy and even if I say hi back, it's silence ... OK, so let's say I do IM a guy and ask him to dance with me. For some reason that means we are going out exclusively and I should put him in my profile immediately. Friend request comes before the 3rd song and him leaving in a huff calling me a tease, *****, ***** or ***** for good measure follows shorty after. I just want a dance and a chat. Is that really so much to ask? A little talking, hopefully a laugh and to spend a little time listening to music. Part 2. Maybie, on the other hand, gets offers. She also asks others to dance with no issues. If she does not say anything -- well, talking in local chat so people know she is not AFK -- she will have a dance/chat partner within 30 minutes. Men and women both approach her. Very few pressure her beyond the occasional friend request at the end of the night. Even when I let them know she is not my main. I guess I'm saying that I am jealous of my alt. But what I want to know is, why the big difference? Is Rhonda too imposing? Is it just having a partner in my profile but not Maybie's? Or is it that she looks (and acts) a bit more meek and submissive? Then again it may just be my perception since I am on Rhonda for hours often by myself but Maybie goes right to the venue and says hello to everyone. Anyway. What do you think? Which avatar would you approach if you saw them both at a club? Or am I just paranoid? 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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