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Amanda Crisp

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  1. 666/Lilith (Kidding) To quote my ex (speaking to me): “What part of Hell did you come from anyway?”
  2. The prevalence of “Insta-Dom” in SL makes it more difficult as you have to weed through the once who don’t really have experience or the gumption to learn. Just my suggestion; probably steer clear of anyone who has “Master” as part of their SL name. If someone projects the charisma for that role, you’ll know it and not all the titles or Display Names in the world can cover for the lack of it. Also be sure you *want* a Dominant. Many people just want a lover to play around with and occasionally venture into Kink. The larger and more established BDSM groups/clubs are a good place
  3. Its a backup when SL is crashtastic or (as happens frequently lately) SL group chat drops messages.
  4. I DJ and also visit a lot of other clubs, so I can speak to how *I* handle tipping. When I go somewhere to hear another DJ; -I tip when I make a song-request, about L200 because this has the DJ taking their eyes off local chat, shuffling a playlist and possibly having to DL a song. -I tip late in the set. Around L200-300 if it was an average night, “400-600” if it was amazing and around L100 if it was “meh”. A “zero-tip” is kind of a statement and I reserve that for DJ’s who are personally obnoxious to their guests. Lately, that seems to mean DJ’s who *push* RL politics during t
  5. “Hold me closer Tony Danza.......”
  6. Wait.....did your Green Lantern look like this? ‘Cause that guy has issues........
  7. Ceka, you cut right to the heart of it 🙂. Beautiful pic BTW!
  8. Coincidentally all my work stuff that accesses the web is down now too. I have no choice but to sit here, read my book and wait for things to return to Abnormal.
  9. OK, I was looking at my Flickr feed and it struck me that “many” of my older SL shots would have an entirely different context nowadays..... Please post-away but *pweese* go for funny and not depressing. RL had enough “depressing” to go around. My first shot; Caption: ”So you’re a talking Cat-Owl who gives stock tips? Big deal buddy....SIX FOOT SPACING, RIGHT NOW!”
  10. This is kind of a ramble on how my tastes/views seem to have changed and how THAT led me to see SL kink more broadly, So all told, I’ve been in SL since 2005 continuously, altho I got stalked into changing my avatar at one point. Like many others, I “matriculated” through Pixel Sex Culture and in SL, much of that is bound into BDSM. Literally, I was here like 5 minutes when someone was in my IMs asking if I’d considered Gor..... (I hadn’t; I’m no-Gor) Personally, I like structured relationships and SL-BDSM-done-responsibly isn’t freaky in my book. People are mostly sexual,
  11. I work sort of an overnight shift, so my experience has a split personality. I make it on for 2 hours un U.S. Prime Time (GMT-6) @ 6pm SL and have people around, then come back after work for a little bit at about 3pm GMT and find a “differently” populated SL 🙂 Maybe if you tailor your venue-search by RL geography? Where possible, look for Euro-run events when Europe is on Prime Time, ditto for the US and the Pacific I *really* like hanging around with Australia (GMT+15) when I can work out the times and not be at work or asleep 🙂
  12. *sigh* and I was excited about posting a pic of me and my Sub.....
  13. There are thousands of people calling themselves “Master” in Sl and about three really good ones.
  14. The great heartache of kissing girls in the club; when only one is pretending 😞
  15. Before he was Daryl and the Dead Walked.....he was a Boondock Saint...... ...OK, full disclosure. When I typed this originally I typoed an “I” Instead of the last “O” in Boondock. I caught it fast, but as you-all might find that hysterical I decided to tell on myself......
  16. IMHO 3+ in a sexual liaison is more of a geometry problem 🙂 Sometimes its nice to get lost in the crowd; unless its in the bedroom ........
  17. Paul, I agree with that statement. That would also cover the ones who are secretive in RL about their sexuality, but can live it openly in SL. They are consistent between RL and SL, just more open in SL.
  18. I’d say you’re right Rolig! Here in SL, I’m married into the Club biz (happily) so that probably defines my experiences.
  19. Thats awesome Rowan 🙂 I acknowledge that SL is a big place and hopefully experiences are mostly positive ! Still...sneaky Bias manifests itself in a myriad of ways that we normally don’t make a big deal of. ”You don’t voice so you must be cross-gendered in SL” which is really saying more about the gender preference or possibly the phobia of the speaker. But there are people whose friendship/good will is contingent on *you* very obviously fitting into *their* comfort zone. I guess if someone *is* here for sex, they might have a reasonable concern about not triggering themsel
  20. Often in club work, you encounter people who are virtually present but not participating (or watching) Local chat because they and their social group are on some version of Voice (this can be Skype, SL Voice or something else). I know this because I have a couple of friends that do this using Discord and who include me in their funny shenanigans via Discord Text People are free to do as they please, so no biggie there 🙂 That has nothing to do with the main topic; but with the prevalence of voice-communication overlaid with SL. So one does not need to be in a sex sim to encount
  21. This isn’t big-ticket discrimination, which is why it flies under the radar in SL. If you’re speech-impaired here, you’re subject to all sorts of shenanigans. Relationally and Inworld Employment-wise, you’re very much a second class citizen in the voice-centric world That is SL. Amazingly, I can still find DJ gigs - but so with any such group; you have to hustle twice as hard just to stay even. Does it stop me? No. Other people can only define or stereotype you if you play along 🙂
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