Sim Myoo Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 Simple answer is yes you cheated on your SL partner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quinn Lysette Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 On 6/3/2015 at 1:25 PM, ZoeTick said: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? since sl is a cartoon world and its a cartoon marriage the answer is yes but yr cheating on yr real life wife with yr sl wife cuz in yr mind in the cartoon world you can do anything behind yr real wifes back cuz its just a cartoon and you believe that even those yes yr cheating on yr rl wife Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 If I read a book, about a girl with a lover, and as I do I immerse myself in the book so I imagine that I am her, is that cheating on my RL partner? If not then why would doing the same thing in SL be cheating? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChinRey Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 It's an interesting topic but I doubt the OP will see the recent replies- He/she seems to have left more than two years ago. Don't blame poor Amanda for nekroing the thread though. It was bumped by somebody who sued the thread to advertise their sim. With that post removed by the moderators, suddenly Amanda's looks like the first recent one. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Nova Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 This is just the 'is RolePlay real' debate. We make a big thing about SL avatars being real people (caveat Bots and AniMesh) with real feelings. You can hurt the ones you love here, just as easily as you can in RL. But you can lie better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 8 hours ago, ChinRey said: It's an interesting topic but I doubt the OP will see the recent replies- He/she seems to have left more than two years ago. Hey, that's right around the time they made this thread.. hehehehe Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max Nova Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 My wife says it's cheating and she knows everything 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BilliJo Aldrin Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 Is it cheating if you show your partner the pictures afterwards? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Klytyna Posted December 5, 2017 Share Posted December 5, 2017 19 hours ago, BilliJo Aldrin said: Is it cheating if you show your partner the pictures afterwards? Only if you KNOW they will respond by calling their divorce lawyer... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeta Vandyke Posted December 6, 2017 Share Posted December 6, 2017 On 4-12-2017 at 1:43 AM, Talligurl said: If I read a book, about a girl with a lover, and as I do I immerse myself in the book so I imagine that I am her, is that cheating on my RL partner? If not then why would doing the same thing in SL be cheating? Because with a book its just you and there is no other person involved. That's where i would draw the line. Otherwise you could also go next step, when my partner uses a chat & webcam and have sex with someone else. Or have phone sex with someone else. Is all still not real sex, but I would consider it cheating since she shares those intimate interactions with another person. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted December 6, 2017 Share Posted December 6, 2017 I figure if someone has to ask..They aren't really trying to find out if something is cheating or not..They know good and well.. They're just trying to see if someone may have a good argument for what they are doing. Some little technical loophole will never beat out trust lost. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted December 6, 2017 Share Posted December 6, 2017 1 hour ago, Zeta Vandyke said: Because with a book its just you and there is no other person involved. That's where i would draw the line. Otherwise you could also go next step, when my partner uses a chat & webcam and have sex with someone else. Or have phone sex with someone else. Is all still not real sex, but I would consider it cheating since she shares those intimate interactions with another person. Perhaps a better analogy would be actors in a movie, are they cheating if they are in a love scene together while playing other characters? In SL some people use there Avis as extensions of themselves, while others are playing a character. I am not convinced the answer is the same for both groups. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeta Vandyke Posted December 6, 2017 Share Posted December 6, 2017 7 minutes ago, Talligurl said: Perhaps a better analogy would be actors in a movie, are they cheating if they are in a love scene together while playing other characters? In SL some people use there Avis as extensions of themselves, while others are playing a character. I am not convinced the answer is the same for both groups. I agree, its mostly the mindset and intent that counts. And also the mindset of the RL partner. Like Ceka said, if you have on to ask on a forum you probably know you are wrong. You have to ask your RL partner AND you SL partner both. If they agree and see no harm done, go ahead. If one or either do not agree, don't. Or do it anyway and be cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul2017 Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 On 6/4/2015 at 5:12 PM, Bree Giffen said: You and your wife need to drink your pina coladas in the rain and leave us out of it. Bree, that is so wrong. you can't bring up that song here. now it'll be stuck in my head for the next day. i'll go to youtube to watch it and then get stuck watching every video on the side for the next 6 hours. i love you but i hate you too right now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rhonda Huntress Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 If you like cheese enchiladas, but you don't like whole grain If you think that all yogurt should be thrown down the drain If you like eating cake at midnight while others are asleep I'm the chef you have looked for, and I work pretty cheap 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul2017 Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 On 6/3/2015 at 12:25 PM, ZoeTick said: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? is it cheating = definitely, especially if you are asking in here, you already know that hopefully you are actually going to tell the person who is your SL partner as they are emotionally invested in you and betrayal of feelings in SL is the same as in RL. the person behind the screen in SL definitely has feelings. how about you grow up and instead of asking this question in here, go and deal with the situation in real life. hoping you are not treating this as some sort of an ego game that you think people will high five you in here for playing with the emotions of two women at once. that kind of thinking needs to be relegated to the last century. treat these women as human beings with emotions and feelings. go and tell them or stop playing with them and go to some adult sim to have sex with a AFK toon as you can get your kicks and not hurt anyone. don't forget to tip. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lostsoul2017 Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 2 minutes ago, Rhonda Huntress said: If you like cheese enchiladas, but you don't like whole grain If you think that all yogurt should be thrown down the drain If you like eating cake at midnight while others are asleep I'm the chef you have looked for, and I work pretty cheap OMG Rhonda, you are hilarious! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
femhalf Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 Yes, it is cheating. Cheating doesn't have to be a physical relationship only. If you're sharing an abstract emotion, such as love, which betrays your partner, then it's cheating. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prokofy Neva Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 In my view it is, and these things never end well, as I know from seeing this happen to hundreds of customers. The only good thing I can say about it, is that it leads to two rentals where once there was one, but this is offset by people who simply leave SL abruptly in tears, never to return again. It really does hurt, when you are cheated on by a RL partner even with that seemingly ephemeral SL being. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
panatropica Posted December 9, 2017 Share Posted December 9, 2017 On 6/4/2015 at 10:15 AM, Zsigmond Alcott said: Is having sex with your alt considered masturbation? Have you been watching me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted December 11, 2017 Share Posted December 11, 2017 If you don't want this song to come on the radio,don't cheat..Because this one will and everything else you hear.. That's what happens in every cheatin movie I ever seen,that's for sure,yup yup. So juss don't dew et! \o/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted December 11, 2017 Share Posted December 11, 2017 51 minutes ago, Ceka Cianci said: If you don't want this song to come on the radio,don't cheat.. What about this song?... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Feldspar Millgrove Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 Rule of thumb, both RL and SL: Any question of this kind that you ask yourself with the words, "Is it cheating....", the answer is always "Yes." 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Phil Deakins Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 (edited) On 03/06/2015 at 7:25 PM, ZoeTick said: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? If you would not like either the RL partner, or the SL partner, or both to know what you are doing with the other, because of how they might see it or react, then it's cheating. Who it's cheating on is irrelevant. Edited December 15, 2017 by Phil Deakins 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love Zhaoying Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 It is not cheating if you are in an "open relationship" with an agreement to not tell each other about your adventures outside the relationship. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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