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  1. to be honest, i prefer it when people type "you must be mesh to contact me" in their profile. it's the same to me as "i hate drama". it makes it SO much easier for me to avoid these people. i generally find the same type of people to be the ones in SL that keep complaining about people not being reliable and lying to them. honestly, i read profiles before messaging people because sometimes there are subtle clues that you may not mesh with that person. i honestly don't care if someone is mesh/non-mesh. i don't care if someone is in freebies or in expensive clothes. the only thing i care about is the personality of the person. if someone has nothing but negativity in their profile, it would generally be a miracle for that person to be positive when they talk to you normally. do i find people that only talk to others that are mesh shallow, of course i do. do i think it's racist, no. it think it's more of a caste system they have cut out in SL for themselves to make themselves feel better or superior to others. whatever, it's their SL, i do not need to associate with them. they can live their SL however they want. it's good in one way if we can confine most of these people to a certain part of SL where i never need to run into them oh well. i can dream
  2. What is a master supposed to do?

    ok, let me put this simply. ANY 'Master' or 'Dom' that does not understand you have obligations and a life and is trying to distance you from everything would most likely be one step away from abusing you. isolating someone is one of the things that bad 'masters' do to maintain control. your submission to him is a GIFT. if he can't understand that, he does not deserve you. a Dom/Sub and a Master/Slave have an EQUAL relationship. one does not exist without the other. he is welcome to be a master but he will be the master of nothing if YOU are not there. read the key words above in red. ANYONE that says that is usually a horrible master/dom that knows zilch. honestly not sure how come you are still in a relationship with someone who is actually abusing you emotionally. it's classic signs of emotional abuse. as a Dom, it's hard for me to read the above without gagging. what use is a Master/Dom that is not even listening to you. are you getting ANYTHING out of this relationship at all apart from pain and suffering? if you are having to deal with this all the time, why are you even in it? if he can't understand the difference between GOR and bdsm, then he shouldn't be calling himself a master of anything. honestly, anyone that does not understand that you had obligations BEFORE you began with him, and now thinks you should only belong to him and wait on him hand and foot is an ass. seriously get yourself someone who knows what a Dom/Sub relationship is. it's insane you would let yourself be treated like this. it's a partnership. it can be rough at times and painful but even that is done with your NEEDS in mind. the needs of BOTH sides. did you have a contract set up with this person when you started or any rules about how much time you would be spending together? if not, then it's about time you sat HIM down and set out YOUR rules. as in, how much time you need to spend on YOUR second life with other people. if he wants a SLAVE he should have got one. And he should have said to the slave at the beginning they would be tied to his hip at all times. he should not be getting a sub and then changing rules on them or making rules whenever they feel like it. seriously. if you want to keep your mental state from being worst, ditch him and get an actual Dom who understands boundaries and listens to you. there are a number of great Doms out there that will treat you much better and who will treat your submission like the gift it is.
  3. Looking for an Enemy

    perhaps they died out from too many hugs? too many Huggles?
  4. Looking for an Enemy

    no linda no! you need an enemy. enemies don't group up to be large cats. as an enemy, i'll take care of myself so that i never am a health risk to you. i'll only be a risk to your emotional health. not your physical health. kittens group to be fat cats. so get an enemy instead. *inserts visual of linda carrying the 'kitten' in 2 years from now*
  5. Looking for an Enemy

    *Iooks high and low for his fan(s). seeing the empty horizon, he sadly goes back to his little plot* * wonders how much he'll have to pay in lindens to get his own fan club. maybe there are escorts that will be 'followers'. wonders if that would be creepy to pay them to dress up and just follow him instead of doing naughty things*
  6. Looking for an Enemy

    i personally love it when the fans post....it makes is SO much easier for me to go and pre-block people so i don't end up talking to them by mistake in SL. that way i can save time and energy. nothing worst than spending hours becoming friends with someone and then having them say a pro/for comment that makes me gag. this way, it's easier think of it as a social service LOL
  7. Starting a new dance Club? You should read this.

    thank you so much for the repost. it was a great read. i had to do it with 5 breaks, and highlighting the area i was going to read at a time. my eyes really do hurt now but not as much as my heart since i wasted a part of my life that i will never get back. wow, i've read things written by my 6 yr old that were less egotistical and whiny. the sense of entitlement runs strong in the OP. at least i know the name of 2 clubs i should avoid in SL. for someone that says he has a lot of EXP in SL, he really doesn't seem to understand that only a small portion of Sl'rs go to clubs. i suppose if all you do is club, then it would seem to you like everyone is doing it. i'm sure there are at least 4 people on SL that care about his rant but i am not one of them. honestly, this reads like it was written by some high school kid. i wonder if i can sue the OP to get the minutes of my life that i wasted back? i suppose that is probably the threat that made OP delete their post and paste the new and improved "i'm going to whine since you all mocked my post for not using basic English skills". thank you so much Tari for reposting. i really do hate missing out the fun long tirades that people post expecting sympathy. every time i see one of these posts start, i usually have the music from Jaws playing in my head....as i start to see the forum folks start to circle once they smell the blood in the water.
  8. SL gf lies about being a prostitute

    wow, i thought he'd last at LEAST a few more hours before returning to post. thank god we didn't take bets. i'm wondering if we should take bets on how long before he comes back to post a 'final good bye' or a 'i swear this is the last bye'.
  9. Looking for an Enemy

    *takes out his Magnify tool to try to find the carrot. for some reason, he can only find a banana. wonders if it's hiding behind all the meat* Don't worry Rhonda, i believe you *his head shaking from side to side*
  10. Looking for an Enemy

    you definitely got the Juicy part right.....as for the good for us bit......um.....*looks at the heart attack waiting to happen in the bowl* ahhh....um.....looks delicious???? *cough* i mean...looks delicious!
  11. Looking for an Enemy

    *his fingers start to twitch as he REALLY wants to put in what she had wrote but realizes he should respect her wishes to keep it out of the forum* "darn it. i really wish i didn't have ethics and respect for others some times. these awful things make me do silly things like 'respect other people's wishes'. i blame my mother for them. " *sigh* don't worry Little Jewell, it's SL forums...only 5 more minutes till someone posts something juicy and good for us to laugh at.
  12. When is catfishing really catfishing?

    no, none of that would be catfishing. it simply means that one person wanted more out of the relationship than the other was willing to provide. there are no guilty parties and no harm, it's simply that they are at different places in the relationship and one wants more than the other. this happens often. it's not malicious at all. one person falls deeply for the other. the other may have RL circumstances that do not allow the relationship to go further. very normal and not catfishing.
  13. When is catfishing really catfishing?

    when it comes to catfishing, what matters is the INTENT. if the person has no intention of moving it to a RL relationship and has no intention of being curel or trolling, then it's simply a SL relationship and not catfishing. catfishing means someone has an intent to do harm or to try to get information out of another person. so in this case, it would not be catfishing. just a normal relationship in which the person is being up front and saying what they need. having said that, it COULD turn into catfishing later if the person changes their mind and starts to try to get RL info or do harm. so always best to use caution.
  14. Looking for an Enemy

    should have left your comment in. it was funny. i was REALLY hoping to see the fun train wreck it was going to cause. oh well. i suppose i have go do some troll hunting now to make up for it. but thank you for the laugh
  15. Looking for an Enemy

    HI lindal, i would like to apply for the position of your new Frenemy. i am normally a nice person (unless burning trolls in forums). Lately though, i've realized in life i need to be a little bit more selfish and evil. so i think it would be good practice for me and you can get an enemy out of it. win/win. i envision a sort of friends with benefits kind of relationship. not in the sexual way but more of a "i build you up and then tear you down like only a friend truly can". i can commit to raining on every one of your happy days. i can make sure that every one of my compliments comes with a "but..." and something sarcastic or evil to finish that sentence to truly make you feel bad about yourself. i'll even say things so evil they will make internet trolls blush. now, if you need someone who is not as insidious and just need plain mean i suppose i COULD try to work up towards that. it's the opposite of what i am like in RL but i can do the RP if it makes you feel good. as long as it's RP, i'm more than willing to work with you to see what kind of a 'ROLE' you need me to play. i' love creative writing so it would be great to have someone to play with. let me know if you still need a enemy