How can a woman trust her man enough to bring him to a store for women (and vice versa)

[Madelaine McMasters]

2 minutes ago, Persephone Emerald said:

That's the problem with text. Someone even thought I was serious on another thread when I said people who dress as demons in SL are being racist.  😄

To us real demons, all you humans look alike, even the ones dressed like us.

Edited January 21, 2022 by Madelaine McMasters

[Storm Clarence]

10 hours ago, Bree Giffen said:

I'm sure you've seen it. Maybe you even do it. A girl avatar bringing a boy avatar to a skin store, or a sexy clothing store, or even a shopping event. With how easy it is to be unfaithful and all the things we know about how men behave in SL it seems like a recipe for heartbreak. Is it to show how much trust they have? Is it a kind of torture? Is it to find someone for a threesome? I've only been to men's stores a few times with my alt and haven't seen something like this. I'd like to know what you think.

My, my Brea (I write Brea because you wrote (to me) many years ago you like cheese); so, Brea it is), your post is fantastic and honest from a girls perspective.  You have such a beautiful avatar, and always changing.  Boys like that.  When you ask them out shopping what is your intention?  Are you open to their preference or are you just trying to seduce?  Sexy clothing? Sure!  Do you mean latex or cotton nighties? It's all subjective. Skins?  I learned a long time ago, whenever asked, if your 'rear looked too big in these jeans', to always say NO.  But thanks for asking. BTW Boys will always be boys.  Re: Cheating.  How men behave in SL is the same as how women behave in SL, no?  I think both genders have been heartbroken - it's the risk we take as humans who operate avatars - and the same is applicable in RL.  The boys I know, and men, love to take gals shopping. And to dinner and dancing, but not one that I know is 'unfaithful', were you projecting?  Rhetorical.  Boys don't want to know.  Re: Threesomes.  Most boys just want to get laid and/or find one gal who appreciates him going shopping or to events with her. 

[MrsSeren]

Sneak; my wife and I share a Dom fine (we both poly as he is); he loves and adores to shop with us as way he sees it... he gets the fashion show at end as a result sees his two submissive kittens in what they brought and even occasionally he will spoil us with an outfit or something.  

Neither of us have the trust issues you are displaying, maybe actually communicate how you feel with your partner and try resolve those issues before the lack of trust hurts you and your partner.. just my thoughts.

Whether it vanilla or D/s relationship, always have to be honest and communicate openly if something bothers you or you just don't like!

 

[Kalegthepsionicist]

I m not trust female SL , Lol so actually, what you think = what male think

[Rowan Amore]

39 minutes ago, Persephone Emerald said:

That's the problem with text. Someone even thought I was serious on another thread when I said people who dress as demons in SL are being racist.  😄

We definitely need a sarcasm font.

[Rowan Amore]

6 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

I m not trust female SL , Lol so actually, what you think = what male think

Do you trust men?

Edited January 21, 2022 by Rowan Amore

[Kalegthepsionicist]

7 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

Do you trust men?

I trust payment info used

[Rowan Amore]

2 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

I trust payment info used

All my avatars have that so I guess you can trust me.  🤔🙄

[LilNosferatu]

Better stop taking my bf with me to Walmart, he might see one of those models on a lingerie ad and lose all control of his body to go aggressively have sex with the first female he sees. 😳

But, in all seriousness, like countless others in here have said -- if you cannot trust your partner not to cheat on you simply because he sees women around him, it's probably not the healthiest of relationships to begin with. In both SL and RL, marketing loves to use conventionally attractive people to sell their products. If it was really that hard for people to contain themselves, shopping at stores would probably be a very different experience... 🤣 but luckily, I think even the horndoggiest of folks can control themselves.

And like many others also said, if the dude is the type to cheat, then going shopping with him won't make a lick of difference. If you go shopping without him, he could just go to some escort club or meet up with someone while you're gone. But I do think it's a bit gross to assume men are all like that, or even all women or all people in general. I have full trust in my partner, both online and in RL, whether he's right at my side or we're off doing our own things separately. If I didn't, that would be something we'd need to work on together, or perhaps an insecurity I'd need to work on myself about.

[Orfeu Miles]

35 minutes ago, Storm Clarence said:

My, my Brea (I write Brea because you wrote (to me) many years ago you like cheese); so, Brea it is), your post is fantastic and honest from a girls perspective.  You have such a beautiful avatar, and always changing.  Boys like that.  When you ask them out shopping what is your intention?  Are you open to their preference or are you just trying to seduce?  Sexy clothing? Sure!  Do you mean latex or cotton nighties? It's all subjective. Skins?  I learned a long time ago, whenever asked, if your 'rear looked too big in these jeans', to always say NO.  But thanks for asking. BTW Boys will always be boys.  Re: Cheating.  How men behave in SL is the same as how women behave in SL, no?  I think both genders have been heartbroken - it's the risk we take as humans who operate avatars - and the same is applicable in RL.  The boys I know, and men, love to take gals shopping. And to dinner and dancing, but not one that I know is 'unfaithful', were you projecting?  Rhetorical.  Boys don't want to know.  Re: Threesomes.  Most boys just want to get laid and/or find one gal who appreciates him going shopping or to events with her. 

Oh Hi Storm... Long time no rez

[Kalegthepsionicist]

12 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

All my avatars have that so I guess you can trust me.  🤔🙄

payment info used , is what I see first.

I am a monogamous type guy, 😜

so i hard to trust ppl.

anf I am interest to smart and talented female, than a flirter. it makes me illfeel LOL

Edited January 21, 2022 by Kalegthepsionicist

[Bree Giffen]

Too many wrong assumptions in this thread. Also @Storm Clarence, it's Bree. Not Brea. Not Brie. The last cheese I had was mozzarella on a pepperoni pizza. I made the dough in my bread machine. It was delicious. 

[Storm Clarence]

8 minutes ago, Orfeu Miles said:

Oh Hi Storm... Long time no rez

Oh my, Orfeu, it has been years since we last exchanged words.  CAC days!  Those days ending in such acrimony. I don't know why.    It brings me great joy to read your name once again (and a few others who have participated in this thread).  Peace to you, Orfeu, thanks for posting a wonderful and kind: Hi.

[Storm Clarence]

2 minutes ago, Bree Giffen said:

Too many wrong assumptions in this thread. Also @Storm Clarence, it's Bree. Not Brea. Not Brie. The last cheese I had was mozzarella on a pepperoni pizza. I made the dough in my bread machine. It was delicious. 

Did you make the mozzarella too?

[Orfeu Miles]

Just now, Storm Clarence said:

Oh my, Orfeu, it has been years since we last exchanged words.  CAC days!  Those days ending in such acrimony. I don't know why.    It brings me great joy to read your name once again (and a few others who have participated in this thread).  Peace to you, Orfeu, thanks for posting a wonderful and kind: Hi.

I am something of a cockroach it seems, and quite content with that title. Surviving difficult times is still preferable to the alternative.
I mentioned LeeHere Absent here on the forum a few days ago .. she is indeed sorely missed. But I am heartily glad to still count you among the living in these... coughs ...  challenging times.

[Kalegthepsionicist]

48 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

All my avatars have that so I guess you can trust me.  🤔🙄

hence I can understand what bree thinking.

 

[Silent Mistwalker]

1 hour ago, Persephone Emerald said:

That's the problem with text. Someone even thought I was serious on another thread when I said people who dress as demons in SL are being racist.  😄

You even had me wondering but I was smart enough to keep my fingers off the keyboard. 🤫

[Kalegthepsionicist]

9 hours ago, Bree Giffen said:

I meant to say 'we know how all men and women behave in SL'. I did acknowledge the fact that this could happen the other way around when I put 'vice versa' in the title. 

you need to know the person for months before start relationship.

it tales rime . patient

Edited January 21, 2022 by Kalegthepsionicist

[Nick0678]

Just now, Kalegthepsionicist said:

you need to lnow the person for monrhs before start relation

I usually get bored after a few weeks with the same person so knowing them for months just to have an "online" relationship seems too much for me. I will start it without even knowing/asking about their real name and end it as soon as i am (or they are) bored.

[Kalegthepsionicist]

10 hours ago, Sukubia Scarmon said:

Funnily enough, I have been hit on by far more women, then men, while I was out shopping. Hrm.

guy in real 🤪

 

[Kalegthepsionicist]

11 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

I usually get bored after a few weeks with the same person so knowing them for months just to have an "online" relationship seems too much for me. I will start it without even knowing/asking about their real name and end it as soon as i am (or they are) bored.

because you are looking ..

I dont have one this far,  lol

found somepeople address me

hey babe

me: wtf, ok lets see what she wants

[Nick0678]

13 minutes ago, Kalegthepsionicist said:

because you are looking ..

I dont have one this far,  lol

found somepeople address me

hey babe

me: wtf, ok lets see what she wants

No need to waste time..you are not starting a real family, just having some good time with a person online.

[Kalegthepsionicist]

1 minute ago, Nick0678 said:

No need to waste time..you are not starting a real family, just having some good time with a person online.

each person do different kin rp sryles 🤪 have my style also

[Sammy Huntsman]

6 minutes ago, Nick0678 said:

No need to waste time..you are not starting a real family, just having some good time with a person online.

I mean some people do meet outside of SL and have amazing relationships outside of the platform. I mean I am not saying to start a family. But I have a partner that I met in SL. That is also my RL partner.

[Paul Hexem]

I always worry about bringing women into a kitchen, in case they spontaneously start cooking.