Panteleeva Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 17 hours ago, Love Zhaoying said: 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagnu Posted November 2, 2020 Author Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) Honestly though, what is so terribly wrong about being proud of our friends and partners? I certainly am very proud of the the people close to me!!! Edited November 2, 2020 by Bagnu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dafadilia Wayfarer Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) 48 minutes ago, Bagnu said: Honestly though, what is so terribly wrong about being proud of our friends and partners? I certainly am very proud of the the people close to me!!! No one has said there is anything wrong sharing photos of loved ones. It is the content of the photo and text they were finding issue with. The last time I checked, one doesn't have to hint at their adult activities with others through photos or text to be proud of their significant other or others. Sharing photos or text that have adult undertones are questionable in forums that aren't intended for adult themes. That is what people were attempting to explain to you. There is a time and place for your themes, and the general section of these forums aren't it. Good Luck telling Linden Lab to ignore your posts if they find issue with them. I think this has been explained enough so at this point, I've said all I need to. It really isn't that hard to figure out. Edited November 2, 2020 by Dafadilia Wayfarer 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shiviex Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 5 pages in this thread in a single day and none of the posts on-topic 😀 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairreLilette Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) 2 hours ago, Bagnu said: Honestly though, what is so terribly wrong about being proud of our friends and partners? I certainly am very proud of the the people close to me!!! Do you think every escort or promiscuous person or person with a sig-other should post their photos of them in bed together and then include a comment about that sexual experience? That's not what this forum is about, Pearl. But you did that Pearl with one of your photos in another thread, and said "see we can have sex together and blah, blah, blah" which is definitely ADULT. However, I should have said when I posted what you have been saying is for the ADULT section that I would be ignored anyways. I don't think you want to strike a compromise with others Pearl what is regarded as General (audience) or Adult (for the Adult section of the forum - which is near the bottom of the page here). Edited November 2, 2020 by FairreLilette 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 On 11/1/2020 at 4:12 AM, Bagnu said: One of my oldest friends in Second Life: Catherine Palen. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) here an older one, in my home at Saratoga Springs a few years ago (2016). Edited November 2, 2020 by Caroline Takeda 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 3 hours ago, Bagnu said: Honestly though, what is so terribly wrong about being proud of our friends and partners? I certainly am very proud of the the people close to me!!! No one has suggested that there is anything wrong with posting pics of friends and partners, Pearl. There has been some very brief talk about the proper place for this thread, but even that hasn't been the main burden of the discussion here. The bulk of the criticisms here have been about the introduction of adult-themed conversation and pictures into a "general" rated thread -- and not just this one. I say this as a friend, Pearl -- I very much hope that you are paying attention to what people are saying here, because what you are hearing is the voice of a pretty representative body of people on these forums who do not want to be exposed to intimate or sexually-loaded comments and pictures. So far, to be honest, you don't seem to be really listening, and the comment I've quoted above suggests that you've entirely missed the point of what most people have said here. On the previous page of this thread, you have, in the face of what are actually mostly fairly civil pleas with you not to do this sort of thing, you have posted a picture of a "human pet," in arm restraints and on her knees, in front of a bed. That picture alone, if it is representative of what you see as appropriate content for this G-rated thread, is a reason why you will never see me posting pics of my friends here. Intentionally or not, you're making it clear that, so far as you are concerned, this thread is the place for you to post highly intimate and sexualized details about your life -- details that others have made it abundantly clear that they don't want to see or read. I'm interested in seeing pics of your friends. I am not interested in learning the details about your sexual relationship with them. You see the distinction? I'm not sure why you insist on doing this, when you know that it makes people -- not "trolls" or prudes, but reasonable, rational people like Rowan, Daf, and Lil -- uncomfortable. This isn't about censorship, nor is it about trying to shut you up. No one is likely to object to a straight-forward picture of your friends, without the sexual innuendo and context. It's instead about enabling choice in others. Because this thread is in a G-rated section of the forum, people have no way of making an informed choice -- of giving their consent -- to seeing these. There is no warning about what they are going to see or read until they see it or read it. That's why Lilette's point about using the Adult forum is relevant: people who read threads in the Adult forum know they are going to see Adult-themed material. Those opening this thread for the first time do not. Honestly, continuing to post pics and commentary that you know others in this community don't want to see looks a lot like giving everyone else here the one-fingered salute. I don't think this is your intention -- you're a genuinely good person -- but that's the effect. 1 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 1 hour ago, FairreLilette said: Do you think every escort or promiscuous person or person with a sig-other should post their photos of them in bed together and then include a comment about that sexual experience? I have yet to see a pic of adult nature in this thread. Where are those? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 3 hours ago, Dafadilia Wayfarer said: No one has said there is anything wrong sharing photos of loved ones. It is the content of the photo and text they were finding issue with. The last time I checked, one doesn't have to hint at their adult activities with others through photos or text to be proud of their significant other or others. Sharing photos or text that have adult undertones are questionable in forums that aren't intended for adult themes. That is what people were attempting to explain to you. There is a time and place for your themes, and the general section of these forums aren't it. Good Luck telling Linden Lab to ignore your posts if they find issue with them. I think this has been explained enough so at this point, I've said all I need to. It really isn't that hard to figure out. 1 hour ago, FairreLilette said: Do you think every escort or promiscuous person or person with a sig-other should post their photos of them in bed together and then include a comment about that sexual experience? That's not what this forum is about, Pearl. But you did that Pearl with one of your photos in another thread, and said "see we can have sex together and blah, blah, blah" which is definitely ADULT. However, I should have said when I posted what you have been saying is for the ADULT section that I would be ignored anyways. I don't think you want to strike a compromise with others Pearl what is regarded as General (audience) or Adult (for the Adult section of the forum - which is near the bottom of the page here). ^This exactly however... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 Just now, Caroline Takeda said: I have yet to see a pic of adult nature in this thread. Where are those? Adult content is not merely pictures of naked people going at it. As you should surely know. There's not a single thing wrong with the pics you've posted. And nothing wrong with most of the pics that Pearl has posted. People aren't complaining about those, as a close reading of what's actually been said would make clear. They are responding to commentary and suggestiveness that effectively turns this thread -- and others -- into an extension of Pearl's bedroom. 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 5 minutes ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: Honestly, continuing to post pics and commentary that you know others in this community don't want to see looks a lot like giving everyone else here the one-fingered salute. I don't think this is your intention -- you're a genuinely good person -- but that's the effect. Although, I actually think she's doing exactly that. Telling us all to **** off as I'm sure she has a few people telling her it's ok. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scylla Rhiadra Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 1 minute ago, RowanMinx said: Although, I actually think she's doing exactly that. Telling us all to **** off as I'm sure she has a few people telling her it's ok. I prefer to think not. Pearl? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eva Knoller Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 She has practically been beaten over the head with the specifics of why people find her threads annoying and/or offensive. The fact that she refuses to even acknowledge the reasons that people are giving, but instead plays wide-eyed innocence *every single time* should give you your answer. 8 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) 8 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said: Folks, if you don't like the topic or the poster, simply do not open it. It is that damn f*cking easy. There is no rule about being obliged to open and read every single thread. It is optional. It really is. You are basically telling people that they should not add their opinion to a General Discussion thread. That has been attempted many times in these forums and always fails -- as it should. Anything posted in General Discussion is open for GENERAL DISCUSSION about the topic -- and all comments have been about the topic, whether you think so or not. Edited November 2, 2020 by LittleMe Jewell 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luna Bliss Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) Well I stopped by S's camper again and she hasn't done a thing except change the model! She wants me to help but I'm not going to do a thing...I'm on the left there, facing in, and I have white privilege! Edited November 2, 2020 by Luna Bliss 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FairreLilette Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) 3 hours ago, Caroline Takeda said: I have yet to see a pic of adult nature in this thread. Where are those? I said pics in other threads and gave one example. In another thread it was a pic to her and another in bed and a see doesn't that feel good kind of thing. It's been her way that I've seen lately and people are merely continuing to impress upon the adult-nature of her postings of the past few weeks or perhaps longer. IDK how long. However, I said my peace about it and need to move on because I am doing stuff. My peace is said about the whole thing in general, not this thread in particular. I also said I don't think Pearl is listening anyways because I don't feel she is for whatever reasons. She has said in another thread she wished all of SL was adult. However, that isn't how this forum works. The Adult General Discussion area can be found if you scroll down to the bottom on the forum page but I don't know if Pearl cares to address General vs Adult. There are two General Discussion areas; one is for Adults only. Edited November 2, 2020 by FairreLilette 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagnu Posted November 2, 2020 Author Share Posted November 2, 2020 5 hours ago, Scylla Rhiadra said: I prefer to think not. Pearl? I definitely am not!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddy Vortex Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 Dang, none of my threads has ever reached 5 pages within a matter of hours. I'm impressed. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagnu Posted November 2, 2020 Author Share Posted November 2, 2020 1 minute ago, Eddy Vortex said: Dang, none of my threads has ever reached 5 pages within a matter of hours. I'm impressed. I would rather it wouldn't have. It's not for the right reason. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 4 minutes ago, Bagnu said: I definitely am not!!!! Yet even though it was explained what it was people disliked, you post this..... 13 hours ago, Bagnu said: Our pet...And now we have to make sure she's properly taken care of.... So tell me, what exactly do you not understand about sexual innuendo and why it's inappropriate in general forums? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagnu Posted November 2, 2020 Author Share Posted November 2, 2020 (edited) 2 minutes ago, RowanMinx said: Yet even though it was explained what it was people disliked, you post this..... So tell me, what exactly do you not understand about sexual innuendo and why it's inappropriate in general forums? I was not the one to start the innuendo. I replied, Edited November 2, 2020 by Bagnu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Hexem Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 Wait. Another picture thread? Really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bagnu Posted November 2, 2020 Author Share Posted November 2, 2020 1 minute ago, Paul Hexem said: Wait. Another picture thread? Really? We can never have too many!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rowan Amore Posted November 2, 2020 Share Posted November 2, 2020 1 minute ago, Bagnu said: I was not the one to start the innuendo. I simply replied, Yet you still posted that last picture with YOUR comment. Scylla may not think your intention is to tell the rest of us to eff off but a good number of your fellow forumites certainly feel that's exactly what you're doing. And has also been pointed out, it's not just this thread but several others. I find it hard to believe you are that naive and just play that card when it suits you. "Golly, I didn't realize..blah blah blah". The shtick is getting old, Pearl. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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