Cindy Evanier Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 Just now, Ashlyn Voir said: That’s all I’m asking for is just a friend. Seriously. I hate constantly being outed and it’s just truly hurtful. And I’ve tried EVERYTHING I could to change and I’m STILL being followed around just to prevent me from doing much of anything. Create an alt, keep your main but wander around exploring on an alt. Nobody has to know anything about your main unless you tell them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drake1 Nightfire Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 Going by the OP and the one responding to her, it seems that one has grown up and the other hasn't. Any chance i could have some of that popcorn.. Also.. Bettie Paige Me Pauley Perrette 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zeta Vandyke Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 Don't mind me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Clover Jinx Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 Are we flouncing now? 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted November 7, 2017 Author Share Posted November 7, 2017 No, it’s nothing like that. But, I’m sick of people making a mockery when I just asked for something simple. This thread is getting nowhere so screw it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jameson2001 Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 3 hours ago, Madelaine McMasters said: Michelle Pfeiffer Me Anne Francis What a delicious sandwich you are Madelaine, I had to google Anne Francis but any sandwich with Pfeiffer as the top sounds yummy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted November 7, 2017 Share Posted November 7, 2017 12 minutes ago, Jameson2001 said: What a delicious sandwich you are Madelaine, I had to google Anne Francis but any sandwich with Pfeiffer as the top sounds yummy. I've had a crush on both of them for as long as I can remember. I was first introduced to Anne Francis in "Forbidden Planet". It was't until college that I caught her again in reruns of Honey West. I use her promo shot for the series as my RL profile pic. In-world I sport a mole in the same place as hers. And I can't see a grand piano without imagining Michelle draped across it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Mistwood Posted November 8, 2017 Share Posted November 8, 2017 @Ashlyn Voir you mentioned you were tired of being outted. Have you already made some alts? If so, how are people finding out who you were? Making an alt to start over only works if you start over. That means you do NOT go to the same places, you do NOT contact the same old friends. New alt, New Secondlife. No one knows you or your past mistakes or drama. No one. It may not be as easy to start over as you wish it to be, but someone you are contacting is telling others who you are or were. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted November 8, 2017 Share Posted November 8, 2017 12 minutes ago, Cinnamon Mistwood said: @Ashlyn Voir you mentioned you were tired of being outted. Have you already made some alts? If so, how are people finding out who you were? Making an alt to start over only works if you start over. That means you do NOT go to the same places, you do NOT contact the same old friends. New alt, New Secondlife. No one knows you or your past mistakes or drama. No one. It may not be as easy to start over as you wish it to be, but someone you are contacting is telling others who you are or were. It is by following this advice, religiously, that I've been able to become half of the current SL population without anyone knowing. Now you'll all have to wonder... which half? 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted November 8, 2017 Author Share Posted November 8, 2017 52 minutes ago, Cinnamon Mistwood said: @Ashlyn Voir you mentioned you were tired of being outted. Have you already made some alts? If so, how are people finding out who you were? Making an alt to start over only works if you start over. That means you do NOT go to the same places, you do NOT contact the same old friends. New alt, New Secondlife. No one knows you or your past mistakes or drama. No one. It may not be as easy to start over as you wish it to be, but someone you are contacting is telling others who you are or were. I think this advice is stupid. It only enforces to keep running away instead of just being honest. I’ve spent a lot of money on this account and it’s stupid as hell to just run away because some people don’t want me to make friends on the game. Unlike the most of you, I don’t have money just to throw away to make alts and fix them up. Thats then whole purpose of making the thread was to ‘make friends’/‘find friends’. And so far no one has offered anything except asinine “advice”. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LittleMe Jewell Posted November 8, 2017 Share Posted November 8, 2017 4 minutes ago, Ashlyn Voir said: Thats then whole purpose of making the thread was to ‘make friends’/‘find friends’. And so far no one has offered anything except asinine “advice”. If you spend any time at all reading these forums, you would know that even in the 'Make Friends' sub-forum, there is often much advice given. Advice is easy enough to just ignore. However, I suspect you may have a hard time finding friends from the forum if you keep telling everyone that their advice is "asinine" and "crappy". 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Mistwood Posted November 8, 2017 Share Posted November 8, 2017 So, you're using the same avatar, going to the same places, seeing the same people and you want the same friends. If only there was some way to give all the avatars you know to mass amnesia. I'm all out of stupid advice. You have to want to help yourself because you can't force others to change/forget for your comfort. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 4 hours ago, Madelaine McMasters said: It is by following this advice, religiously, that I've been able to become half of the current SL population without anyone knowing. Now you'll all have to wonder... which half? Well, if half the current SL population is alts of you, and the other half are bots (or are you the bot half?) then which half am I and my (lost count) alts? Or am I an alt of you too two too? (turning into an owl now). 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 2 minutes ago, Marigold Devin said: Well, if half the current SL population is alts of you, and the other half are bots (or are you the bot half?) then which half am I and my (lost count) alts? Or am I an alt of you too two too? (turning into an owl now). Could it be that all of this has been just you and me? 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 1 minute ago, Madelaine McMasters said: Could it be that all of this has been just you and me? Or just me and me - or you and you - or me and .... oh wait now, I'm tied up in knots. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 Just now, Marigold Devin said: .... oh wait now, I'm tied up in knots. ...swoons. ;-). 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Mistwood Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 I thought we were all Maddy's alts. 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 (edited) 1 minute ago, Cinnamon Mistwood said: I thought we were all Maddy's alts. You're just saying that so people will think you/they aren't. Reverse psychology doesn't phase me, Cinn. Edited November 9, 2017 by Madelaine McMasters 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 Just now, Cinnamon Mistwood said: I thought we were all Maddy's alts. Snugs is keeping very quiet. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snugs McMasters Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 1 minute ago, Marigold Devin said: Snugs is keeping very quiet. Sometimes I forget I'm here. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BilliJo Aldrin Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 (edited) Cindy wrote: That’s all I’m asking for is just a friend. Seriously. I hate constantly being outed and it’s just truly hurtful. And I’ve tried EVERYTHING I could to change and I’m STILL being followed around just to prevent me from doing much of anything. --------------------------------------------------- Outed? are you a rl guy? I've had friends in here that are girls but they fell in love with another girl, and decided they just had to tell the truth knowing their love interest will understand and accept them because doncha know its whats inside that really counts. Of course their love interest is devasted and accuses them of horrible things and dumps them The friend is so devasted that she vows it will never happen again, so she puts a declaration on the profile that yes shes a rl guy, and now everyone avoids her and shes always miserable. At this point i would tell them to ditch everyone that ever knew, remove that ridiculous statement from your profile and just be the girl you are in sl. Oh and yes, if you are interested, I'd love to be friends Edited November 9, 2017 by BilliJo Aldrin forgot to quote what i was replying to Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted November 9, 2017 Author Share Posted November 9, 2017 24 minutes ago, BilliJo Aldrin said: Cindy wrote: That’s all I’m asking for is just a friend. Seriously. I hate constantly being outed and it’s just truly hurtful. And I’ve tried EVERYTHING I could to change and I’m STILL being followed around just to prevent me from doing much of anything. --------------------------------------------------- Outed? are you a rl guy? I've had friends in here that are girls but they fell in love with another girl, and decided they just had to tell the truth knowing their love interest will understand and accept them because doncha know its whats inside that really counts. Of course their love interest is devasted and accuses them of horrible things and dumps them The friend is so devasted that she vows it will never happen again, so she puts a declaration on the profile that yes shes a rl guy, and now everyone avoids her and shes always miserable. At this point i would tell them to ditch everyone that ever knew, remove that ridiculous statement from your profile and just be the girl you are in sl. Oh and yes, if you are interested, I'd love to be friends No, the issue I’m having is much different. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BilliJo Aldrin Posted November 9, 2017 Share Posted November 9, 2017 Just now, Ashlyn Voir said: No, the issue I’m having is much different. I googled you too, so I know your secret. I almost got into a big fight with another avatar on the other thread you started about this, but I deleted my last three posts and the thread died. What you are in rl makes no difference to me. We could hang out or be friends if you like. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ashlyn Voir Posted November 9, 2017 Author Share Posted November 9, 2017 42 minutes ago, BilliJo Aldrin said: I googled you too, so I know your secret. I almost got into a big fight with another avatar on the other thread you started about this, but I deleted my last three posts and the thread died. What you are in rl makes no difference to me. We could hang out or be friends if you like. Thank you so much for this. The next time I log in-world, I’ll message you 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aislin Ceawlin Posted November 10, 2017 Share Posted November 10, 2017 On 11/8/2017 at 10:19 PM, BilliJo Aldrin said: I've had friends in here that are girls but they fell in love with another girl, and decided they just had to tell the truth knowing their love interest will understand and accept them because doncha know its whats inside that really counts. You just summed up my favorite SL relationship. My SL boyfriend admitted to me that he was a she in RL, we went on to partner/marry in SL. The marriage lasted over 3 years, we visited in RL, and were nuts about each other. Unfortunately, it didn't last, but we're still very good friends in RL (going on around 8 or 9 years in total) . I still love her to death! (except she's now a he) Without SL, I would have missed this rollercoaster, lol! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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