punkedyo Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 my question is Why am i so sad in second life? why cant i find my purpose in second life? why do i come here just to grief and piss people off but wont do that in rl? why can't i find something to get into so i can look forward to logging in to sl other than just pissing johnny off from last nite? im just so lost and sad maybe you guys have some ideas for meim not smart so building and scripting isnt for meim into family roleplay and city roleplay but im just an outcast and banned from damn near everywhere i just dont know what to do anymoreplease help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
punkedyo Posted May 24, 2013 Author Share Posted May 24, 2013 ty lady Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Jetaime Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 It sounds like you are your own worst enemy. You will get banned from places if the highlight of your SL is pissing people off. You sure can't find friends let alone love when you act that way. Try to change your attitude. You say you are into family role play. Check out the Lifestyle and Role Play sections of this forum. There are people that post there all the time looking to be part of a family and women looking for men to roleplay having kids with. IM a few to see if you might have a connection. You could IM several interested in being in a family and get together and form your own. Pool your resources together and get some land for your family and set up a nice place for your roleplay. You don't have to be a builder to do this. You might enjoy shopping for just the right prefab to call home and setting it up, punishing it and landscaping around it. Your family could get a large place and everyone live together, or smaller groups can set up smaller separate houses in the same area to form a family compound. Treat your family members as you would your real family and you may find yourself with a group of people that can turn into genuine friends and family and even find love. You could find yourself anxious to log in every day to see them and anticipate all the fun and adventures you will have together. SL is what you make of it. If you only put anger and sadness in, you won't get much out of it. Put other's first, respect them and try to be cheerful and you might get the same in return. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leia36 Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 I hope you actually read this I enjoy socializing and making my friends laugh, its how I relax on SL when my man is offline. Trolling vs Griefing The art of trolling is a subtle thing, The way I do it makes EVERYONE laugh, and its an occasional thing, its mixed in with genuine affection and bonding and most of my close friends do it, Its a lot of fun for EVERYONE. I have no axe to grind and people know it. Griefing is just silly, nobody enjoys it except the griefer and then sometimes not even them. I have a nasty way of dealing with griefers and 90% of the time it works, they leave the sim of their own accord. Don't be a griefer, troll your friends for fun occasionally and you will soon become a popular person on whatever sim you choose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nox Vought Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Ew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ren Toxx Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Intriguing... I'd thought that this (not so new) forum trolling fad of practically asking to be flogged for 'being sooooooo bad' was wearing itself out... oh well. Apparently not. To the OP: you might want to wait a bit more before trying these things again... the last attempts were so recent. And for God's sake, next time try making it just a little bit less obvious, will ya :matte-motes-asleep: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amie Kaestner Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Try real life instead. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tex Monday Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 I am reluctant to answer, as I do not wish to be the next victim of this person's griefing...but, as I put it out there, I've jumped in with both feet so I might as well continue. my question is Why am i so sad in second life? why cant i find my purpose in second life? why do i come here just to grief and piss people off but wont do that in rl? Because if you grief and harass people in RL, you're very likely to get beaten up. why can't i find something to get into so i can look forward to logging in to sl other than just pissing johnny off from last nite? im just so lost and sad You asked the question...you need to find the answer. What is it that causes you to piss off Johnny? Is it the group itself? Nothing to keep your attention? Is Johnny just an a***ole? Think about what is making you this way and change it. maybe you guys have some ideas for me im not smart so building and scripting isnt for me im into family roleplay and city roleplay but im just an outcast and banned from damn near everywhere i just dont know what to do anymore If you're griefing and harrassing, you're actually lucky that banning is all that's happened to you. You could just have easily been reported to LL and have your account suspended. Again, I would suggest sitting down and taking a good, hard look at what is causing this behavior. Is it them or could it possibly be you? Maybe you enjoy the attention? I have no idea..I'm not a psychiatrist, nor do I play one on TV. Maybe you need professional help??? Or am I just a fool who fell into your attention grabbing trap?? I do wish you the best in figuring out your problem. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 punkedyo wrote: my question is Why am i so sad in second life? why cant i find my purpose in second life? why do i come here just to grief and piss people off but wont do that in rl? why can't i find something to get into so i can look forward to logging in to sl other than just pissing johnny off from last nite? im just so lost and sad maybe you guys have some ideas for me im not smart so building and scripting isnt for me im into family roleplay and city roleplay but im just an outcast and banned from damn near everywhere i just dont know what to do anymore please help Tolya, is that you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrie Juran Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Czari Zenovka Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 SL is in many ways a reflection of who you are in RL, even for those people who create a unique avatar and/or primarily come to SL for fantasy pursuits. If you are not happy within yourself, you will not be happy anywhere. Perhaps spending some time looking within to understand the source/s of your unhappiness would be a starting point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deej Kasshiki Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Not sure if serious... :matte-motes-confused: Nah, this smells like a troll to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 Perrie Juran wrote: omg i saw this movie last weekend..it's the cutest movie ever.. lol Honey! Don't look down!!. look up!!look up!! Waiter she's got snails on her plate!! Honey keep looking up!! Meep! now bring us those cheese appetizers you tried to talk me out of!!pronto!! omg that was so funny!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dresden Ceriano Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 I still haven't had anyone pick out a thermos for me. ...Dres Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tex Monday Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 My father and I watched this when it first came out on Video..if anyone is old enough to remember those. One of us will still yell "He Hates those cans!!" when the mood strikes us. (we're kind of weird that way) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sephina Frostbite Posted May 24, 2013 Share Posted May 24, 2013 /me claps for your wonderful and well put response. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tex Monday Posted May 25, 2013 Share Posted May 25, 2013 thank you very much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Isodo Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 Why am i so sad in second life? why cant i find my purpose in second life? Very difficult question that psycholog would return to yourself. * you are sad because you stay alone - You don't accept yourself - you are victim or want to be victim - You want to attract attention but it does not work - You need someone who love you - You need to be appreciated at your real value - Purpose of SL does not exist this is the reason you can't find it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stephanie Misfit Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 33 minutes ago, Gabriel Isodo said: Why am i so sad in second life? why cant i find my purpose in second life? Very difficult question that psycholog would return to yourself. * you are sad because you stay alone - You don't accept yourself - you are victim or want to be victim - You want to attract attention but it does not work - You need someone who love you - You need to be appreciated at your real value - Purpose of SL does not exist this is the reason you can't find it The OP posted over 10 years ago. He has probably long since left SL. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Garnet Psaltery Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 6 minutes ago, Stephanie Misfit said: The OP posted over 10 years ago. He has probably long since left SL. The name doesn't appear in Search so yes, most likely. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arduenn Schwartzman Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 (edited) This is a new record, isn't it? Edited February 10 by Arduenn Schwartzman 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zalificent Corvinus Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 7 minutes ago, Arduenn Schwartzman said: This is a new record, isn't it? Naah, there was a 14 year necro a month or two back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabriel Isodo Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 I reply to this message because such topics can be interested still today. If this is too old why does that still exist. There is a right to be forgetten https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right_to_be_forgotten 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ceka Cianci Posted February 10 Share Posted February 10 22 minutes ago, Gabriel Isodo said: I reply to this message because such topics can be interested still today. If this is too old why does that still exist. There is a right to be forgetten https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Right_to_be_forgotten At the top and bottom of threads that haven't been responded to in a long time, there is a big blue header.. The OP never came back, the thread never went more than half a page.. If it wasn't too interesting for OP back then, then it probably wouldn't be too interesting for them today.. It still exists because it's a forum and if it wasn't locked or removed at the time, it will stay.. Bringing it back up 10 years later and it will more than likely get locked or removed and when they archive the forums it won't get archived.. If you think the topic is important, they suggest making a new thread rather than bumping one that has died off on it's own.. That's why they have those headers there saying, "You are about to reply to a thread that has been inactive for bla bla days. Please take a moment to consider if this thread is worth bumping." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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