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Amanda Crisp

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  1. Most RL relationships fail over money. My Partner and I have always gone 50-50 on property and decorations and that’s seen us for 15+ years total together online. That’s what works for me, but your mileage may differ 🙂
  2. I really want a feature that allows for Community Naming of avatars. ”Social Acclaim” Version You pay nothing, any accumulated Warning Points get wiped away and your Friends get to pick a descriptive last name for you that you must keep for a year. ”Restorative Justice” Version You get all the above as well as an additional bonus “all your vanished inventory is returned to you”. In return, the top three avatars who have filed ARs against you get to pick your last name.
  3. I’ve been in a LONG term SL relationship and I love the other Human very much. But... ”Are SL relationships the same as RL?” Not really, because = Alts I’ve been (counting my Original) in SL since 2005. One recurring theme has been; “I thought everything was good, then I learned about my Lover/Partner/SO’s alt and their whole other life - and I feel betrayed.” Bigamists are a thing in Real Life, but SL makes it a lot easier for those so-inclined. SL can be a great enabler for those who treat their relationships and lovers as Disposable, so my thought is this; if y
  4. 666/Lilith (Kidding) To quote my ex (speaking to me): “What part of Hell did you come from anyway?”
  5. The prevalence of “Insta-Dom” in SL makes it more difficult as you have to weed through the once who don’t really have experience or the gumption to learn. Just my suggestion; probably steer clear of anyone who has “Master” as part of their SL name. If someone projects the charisma for that role, you’ll know it and not all the titles or Display Names in the world can cover for the lack of it. Also be sure you *want* a Dominant. Many people just want a lover to play around with and occasionally venture into Kink. The larger and more established BDSM groups/clubs are a good place
  6. Its a backup when SL is crashtastic or (as happens frequently lately) SL group chat drops messages.
  7. I DJ and also visit a lot of other clubs, so I can speak to how *I* handle tipping. When I go somewhere to hear another DJ; -I tip when I make a song-request, about L200 because this has the DJ taking their eyes off local chat, shuffling a playlist and possibly having to DL a song. -I tip late in the set. Around L200-300 if it was an average night, “400-600” if it was amazing and around L100 if it was “meh”. A “zero-tip” is kind of a statement and I reserve that for DJ’s who are personally obnoxious to their guests. Lately, that seems to mean DJ’s who *push* RL politics during t
  8. “Hold me closer Tony Danza.......”
  9. Wait.....did your Green Lantern look like this? ‘Cause that guy has issues........
  10. Ceka, you cut right to the heart of it 🙂. Beautiful pic BTW!
  11. Coincidentally all my work stuff that accesses the web is down now too. I have no choice but to sit here, read my book and wait for things to return to Abnormal.
  12. OK, I was looking at my Flickr feed and it struck me that “many” of my older SL shots would have an entirely different context nowadays..... Please post-away but *pweese* go for funny and not depressing. RL had enough “depressing” to go around. My first shot; Caption: ”So you’re a talking Cat-Owl who gives stock tips? Big deal buddy....SIX FOOT SPACING, RIGHT NOW!”
  13. This is kind of a ramble on how my tastes/views seem to have changed and how THAT led me to see SL kink more broadly, So all told, I’ve been in SL since 2005 continuously, altho I got stalked into changing my avatar at one point. Like many others, I “matriculated” through Pixel Sex Culture and in SL, much of that is bound into BDSM. Literally, I was here like 5 minutes when someone was in my IMs asking if I’d considered Gor..... (I hadn’t; I’m no-Gor) Personally, I like structured relationships and SL-BDSM-done-responsibly isn’t freaky in my book. People are mostly sexual,
  14. I work sort of an overnight shift, so my experience has a split personality. I make it on for 2 hours un U.S. Prime Time (GMT-6) @ 6pm SL and have people around, then come back after work for a little bit at about 3pm GMT and find a “differently” populated SL 🙂 Maybe if you tailor your venue-search by RL geography? Where possible, look for Euro-run events when Europe is on Prime Time, ditto for the US and the Pacific I *really* like hanging around with Australia (GMT+15) when I can work out the times and not be at work or asleep 🙂
  15. *sigh* and I was excited about posting a pic of me and my Sub.....
  16. There are thousands of people calling themselves “Master” in Sl and about three really good ones.
  17. The great heartache of kissing girls in the club; when only one is pretending 😞
  18. Before he was Daryl and the Dead Walked.....he was a Boondock Saint...... ...OK, full disclosure. When I typed this originally I typoed an “I” Instead of the last “O” in Boondock. I caught it fast, but as you-all might find that hysterical I decided to tell on myself......
  19. IMHO 3+ in a sexual liaison is more of a geometry problem 🙂 Sometimes its nice to get lost in the crowd; unless its in the bedroom ........
  20. Paul, I agree with that statement. That would also cover the ones who are secretive in RL about their sexuality, but can live it openly in SL. They are consistent between RL and SL, just more open in SL.
  21. I’d say you’re right Rolig! Here in SL, I’m married into the Club biz (happily) so that probably defines my experiences.
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