Tama Suki Posted January 26, 2022 Share Posted January 26, 2022 (edited) After years of absence, I returned and reset my SL. Of all the people I had on the friendlist I only remember 8 and those I have kept. Now is time to open myself to the world. - I'm a grown man. - I'm a punk, refined and spartan at the same time. - I am an artist and SL is above all an artistic and philosophical experience for me. - i like to laugh and joke. - basically I have a troll spirit, but in the good sense of the word. - I don't care about sex and politics here. - I don't really like IM chatting, I prefer local chat and gestures. If you like, add me to your friendlist and sometimes we meet. Forget to add: I am a builder, very expert in Blender. Edited January 26, 2022 by Tama Suki 6 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adamburp Adamczyk Posted January 26, 2022 Share Posted January 26, 2022 with the amount of spam posts you make, I'm not that surprised oO 1 2 15 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Heartsong Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 ^ this. 4 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kathlen Onyx Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 In the spirit of hoping this thread doesn't spiral down into a sh$t fest. Good luck to you! 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sid Nagy Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 Oh dear. I wish you the best of luck as well with your mission. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robotshaz Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 (edited) good luck on the friend searching. It is not easy for sure to friend humans sometimes. It can be complicated. I used to be fairly popular myself but now I am in similiar situation myself. Edited January 28, 2022 by Robotshaz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ayeleeon Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 I will friend you, understand we cannot just add each other, we both have to be online for friend requests to work. Also understand that if my girlfriend is on I am not going to be thinking about checking if your on, but there are times when she isn't and one of those times I will check on you. If you are on I will send a request. We can have some philosophical artistic discussions. 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marigold Devin Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 You need to go to the staff canteen and look for the table for people who have no friends. That usually ends up being the most populated. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlueJoy Posted January 29, 2022 Share Posted January 29, 2022 Help others. you will have friends. Most of my friends are people I have helped or people who have helped me. Or people interested in stuff I'm interested in. Usually, over time, it's both. No one cares if you're expert in 'x' or the sharpest knife in the drawer. They care if you can help them with the thing they need help with... or if you listen when they're trying to help you and can hold a conversation. If you are kind, if you're not obnoxious, if you're interested in something they are interested in... if you're funny, but not at other people's expense. If you don't ask them for friendship before you've had a conversation about SOMETHING. If you don't ask for sex or money. If you're not a needy, negative, creepy, stalkery person... The bar in SL is actually relatively low. Don't be a jerk. Bon Chance. 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tama Suki Posted February 2, 2022 Author Share Posted February 2, 2022 On 1/29/2022 at 5:52 AM, DeepBlueJoy said: If you're not a needy, negative, creepy, stalkery person... The bar in SL is actually relatively low. Don't be a jerk. I'm not sure what you mean. Who are the needy, negative, creepy, stalker, jerks? The ones who go around telling people they don't know to don't be needy, negative, creepy, stalker, jerks? 1 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone Emerald Posted February 2, 2022 Share Posted February 2, 2022 Don't be a Jerk is a good general rule on online, in SL or in RL. Figuring out what constitutes being a jerk is a harder, but here are a few clues: 1. Are you doing or saying something that could hurt your feelings if someone else did it or said it to you? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 2. Are you doing or saying something to make yourself feel smarter, cooler, or more important than the other person? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 3. Are you defending someone or some group of people from someone who is putting them down? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 4. Are you trying to give advice or educate someone, not just putting them down or calling out their ignorance to make them look bad? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 5. Are you stating an opinion or belief as an opinion or belief, not as a fact? If yes, then that may or may not be being a jerk. 6. Are you using words and wording that sound intelligent, but are really just BS to make yourself sound intelligent? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 7. Are you trying to be considerate, kind and helpful? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tama Suki Posted February 2, 2022 Author Share Posted February 2, 2022 1 hour ago, Persephone Emerald said: Don't be a Jerk is a good general rule on online, in SL or in RL. Figuring out what constitutes being a jerk is a harder, but here are a few clues: 1. Are you doing or saying something that could hurt your feelings if someone else did it or said it to you? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 2. Are you doing or saying something to make yourself feel smarter, cooler, or more important than the other person? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 3. Are you defending someone or some group of people from someone who is putting them down? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 4. Are you trying to give advice or educate someone, not just putting them down or calling out their ignorance to make them look bad? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 5. Are you stating an opinion or belief as an opinion or belief, not as a fact? If yes, then that may or may not be being a jerk. 6. Are you using words and wording that sound intelligent, but are really just BS to make yourself sound intelligent? If yes, then that's being a jerk. 7. Are you trying to be considerate, kind and helpful? If yes, then that's not being a jerk. 7 points is not enough. Can you add 12 more? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone Emerald Posted February 2, 2022 Share Posted February 2, 2022 Just now, Tama Suki said: 7 points is not enough. Can you add 12 more? No. I got bored after 7 and went to read one of your other threads, the one where you boasted of the millenary history of Italian cuisine. 2 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DeepBlueJoy Posted February 2, 2022 Share Posted February 2, 2022 (edited) I did not call anyone a jerk. I said that not being a jerk was part of the general rule of having friends. sighs. Edited February 2, 2022 by DeepBlueJoy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tama Suki Posted February 2, 2022 Author Share Posted February 2, 2022 3 minutes ago, DeepBlueJoy said: general rule of having friends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StarlanderGoods Posted February 3, 2022 Share Posted February 3, 2022 1 hour ago, Tama Suki said: How could you know, you said you have no friends. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kalegthepsionicist Posted February 3, 2022 Share Posted February 3, 2022 1 hour ago, Tama Suki said: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Katherine Heartsong Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 On 2/2/2022 at 5:46 PM, Tama Suki said: 7 points is not enough. Can you add 12 more? Ooo, bait! I'll bite ... This is why you can't have nice things, like friends. But you know that. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Solo Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 (edited) You never told anyone of your expertise with Blender Tami. And let me tell you, a kind advice giver for mesh is a very good place to be. Offer some general advice, be a helper for noobs? Accept questions? They'd love you forever and instant respect! if you give knowledge generously. I don't offer the same because no-one uses 3ds Max and my work is RL only. Edited February 15, 2022 by Maryanne Solo 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maitimo Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 4 hours ago, Maryanne Solo said: You never told anyone of your expertise with Blender Tami. I don't think you'll get a reply, there's been no activity from Tami since February 3rd. (wonder why... 😁) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Persephone Emerald Posted February 15, 2022 Share Posted February 15, 2022 5 hours ago, Maitimo said: I don't think you'll get a reply, there's been no activity from Tami since February 3rd. (wonder why... 😁) Maybe his probation will be up soon? 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🤖🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Solo Posted February 16, 2022 Share Posted February 16, 2022 9 hours ago, Maitimo said: I don't think you'll get a reply, there's been no activity from Tami since February 3rd. (wonder why... 😁) Darn. He could contribute so much if he really wanted to. 8-/ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted February 16, 2022 Share Posted February 16, 2022 On 2/2/2022 at 11:46 PM, Tama Suki said: 7 points is not enough. Can you add 12 more? That, is being a jerk. Quote I have no friends. That doesn't surprise me at all. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maitimo Posted February 16, 2022 Share Posted February 16, 2022 9 hours ago, Maryanne Solo said: Darn. He could contribute so much if he really wanted to. 8-/ It's pretty obvious by now that he doesn't want to. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tama Suki Posted February 19, 2022 Author Share Posted February 19, 2022 On 2/15/2022 at 10:49 PM, Persephone Emerald said: Maybe his probation will be up soon? 🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽🤖🌽🌽🌽🌽🌽 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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