ZoeTick Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating.And on who?Or whom? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vandris Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 "without telling your SL partner" Cheating in a replationship is the act of being with someone else without your partners knowledge or consent. So whoever isn't aware is who and on whom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ardvinna Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? I think all people involved in this ménage à trois (or even more, we're in sl, I have to mention this) have to be well informed and consensual with it. Otherwise it is cheating/betrayal, call it what ever you like. Maybe we can say, that no one has the right to judge (I don't agree here, but this thought is "modern/envogue" now), but everyone has the right to chose, wether to paticipate or not, and for this information is needed. ---from the very beginning. Not telling the truth/ not being honest---is cheating. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DejaHo Posted June 3, 2015 Share Posted June 3, 2015 ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL tee time with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? FIFY No. It's cheating when you don't card all your strokes. PS And it is impossible to 'cheat' in SL, imho. PPS I would invite your SL partner and make it a threesome, and you can send me a notecard with an invite.... Awesome! We can make it a foursome! ETA Maybe I can ask Venus to caddy. Just an idea. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zsigmond Alcott Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Is having sex with your alt considered masturbation? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dresden Ceriano Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? Who cares if it's cheating? More importantly, what's deplorable is that you're having sex with your RL wife in VR rather than in person. ...Dres (Unless, of course, she hasn't hit the douche bag in months and desiccating tuna is the cat food catch of the day... in which case, VR and only VR, sweety.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spinwilly Saiman Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? It's only cheating if your SL partner's husband starts playing SL and she has an affair with him without telling you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mimi Collazo Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 How can your RL wife not see that you are partnered again? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Conifer Dada Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Really I think this question is one for the professionals. Have you thought about hiring an SL relationships expert? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Venus Petrov Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 DejaHo wrote: ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL tee time with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? FIFY No. It's cheating when you don't card all your strokes. PS And it is impossible to 'cheat' in SL, imho. PPS I would invite your SL partner and make it a threesome, and you can send me a notecard with an invite.... Awesome! We can make it a foursome! ETA Maybe I can ask Venus to caddy. Just an idea. Foursome plus one? I'm game! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bebejee Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Arent SL partnerships based on real feelings, so if anyone is married they are cheating, and those feelings snowballing is a very real possibility, that can ruin career, marraige and family as well as RL partnerships. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrie Juran Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 Zsigmond Alcott wrote: Is having sex with your alt considered masturbation? There's certainly a lot of mental masturbation going on here. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muletta Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 ZoeTick wrote: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? Depends on the way your partners look at it, in real and in sl... (Oh, dear..did you as the forum-grammar-nerd suddenly stop using commas yourself? - I have to catch my breath again after reading this post..pyyyhhh.... ) :smileyindifferent: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bree Giffen Posted June 4, 2015 Share Posted June 4, 2015 You and your wife need to drink your pina coladas in the rain and leave us out of it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roche Runo Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Cheating is self defined if you think it is then it is 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DejaHo Posted June 9, 2015 Share Posted June 9, 2015 Roche Runo wrote: Cheating is self defined if you think it is then it is If you can justify it ain't then it ain't FIFY PS Isn't that what you really wrote anyway? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissTeriMahn Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Roche Runo wrote: Cheating is self defined if you think it is then it is Au contraire. It is defined by someone else. Teri ((If they think it is, it is, but only from their point of view.)) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheriColette Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Roche Runo wrote: Cheating is self defined if you think it is then it is And so...if you think its not! Does that mean its not? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrie Juran Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cinnamon Mistwood Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Dear Perrie, I cannot unhear those lyrics or unsee that video. I hope you are proud of your self. Ungratefully yours, Cinn :matte-motes-bored: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrie Juran Posted June 10, 2015 Share Posted June 10, 2015 Cinnamon Mistwood wrote: Dear Perrie, I cannot unhear those lyrics or unsee that video. I hope you are proud of your self. Ungratefully yours, Cinn :matte-motes-bored: Perhaps I should have included a disclaimer. It does not reflect my personal values. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CheriColette Posted June 11, 2015 Share Posted June 11, 2015 re Steel Panther/Community Property >>>love it :matte-motes-inlove: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roche Runo Posted June 11, 2015 Share Posted June 11, 2015 06-09-2015 03:33 PM Roche Runo wrote: Cheating is self defined if you think it is then it is If you can justify it ain't then it ain't FIFY PS Isn't that what you really wrote any okay i gues you could say that but you justify everything you do in life What i mean was that other people will think your chearting even if the the people invovbed do not hence its a personal deccison Two sides to every coin i guess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Roche Runo Posted June 11, 2015 Share Posted June 11, 2015 heh i love these philosophical discussions it would depend on the situation. It it cheating when some who has mulitple partners base on the religion cheeting Some would say yes some would say no. If a woman who is being tormented by her husband finds solace in the the arms of another again some would say yes some would say no. Defintions of actions are not carved in storne. They change. As for the first i would say no the second he same. however i personally an not invovled as for my self i agree if you go against what you agreed up at the beginning then yes its cheating If you havent set the ground rules ahead of time its not. Now in SL that a whole different ball a wax Its so easy to cheat the it really becomes moot Al it takes is creating a second avatart. So who is doing the cheating the avatar or the person behind the avater lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amanda Crisp Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 On 6/3/2015 at 1:25 PM, ZoeTick said: If you have a male avatar, and they are partnered with a female avatar who is not your real life wife and your real life wife starts playing sl and you have an SL affair with your real life wife without telling your SL partner is that cheating. And on who? Or whom? This is SL where sexuality is complicated.... Is your primary SL relationship “exclusive”? Is your RL relationship exclusive? Do all your relationships know about each other and approve (Poly) ? You’d have to address those issues before you could call it “cheating” or not..... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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