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Cali Souther

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  1. Hippie Bowman wrote: Hi Cali! I think its a spider! Yikes! Peace! Holy creepers, Batman! - That one makes me shudder, even with a smiley face drawn on! LOL Yikes is RIGHT!
  2. LittleMe Jewell wrote: Shameless plug for one of my fav groups & hangouts -- search for me inworld and look at my picks, pop over to The Forum Cartel Hangout. Sometimes the place is empty, but if you hang around for a short bit sometimes folks will pop in. There's almost always folks there in the evenings, especially on the weekends, and they have parties now and then that draw good crowds. The people there are easy going and fun to hang with - and it is not a 'pick-up' joint. I have not been over there in ages, good to hear it's still alive and kicking. My timing must be off, because when I drop by, it's empty. I will swing by more often, or dig out the hud... if that still works. :-)
  3. Sonja Smedley wrote: Hello..I´m here to find some nice friends. No lovers of course, I guess I am a little relationship damaged..but I think it would be nice to have some friends to hang out with sometimes. No matter If male or female, I only feel very lonely after such a long time in SL. And I think I need a little change cause otherwise I go nuts...only surrounded by my animals all the time.:0) This friend can also be a furry or roleplayer...no matter what. If there is someone who feels the same way, let me know here or inworld. Looking forward to hear from you. Thank you You can feel free to IM me when I am in world, I always enjoy meeting new people and chatting. :-)
  4. Tanith Lexenstar wrote: Even the though the problems are said to be resolved, I still cannot send a gift, view my account or delete anything from my basket. Is anyone else having these issues at all ? Forgive me for being Captain obvious, but when isn't there a problem with the stupid marketplace?! Sorry, I couldn't resist.
  5. Dana Hickman wrote: Storm Clarence wrote: Do you ask the same thing of non-ding-a-ling dudes? I ask that in one way or another to everyone who puts the moves on me. If they can't respect me enough to give an honest, straightforward answer, then I probably won't respect them enough to consider saying yes. That's just how I roll. I think it's important if you are going to become intimate, but for online chatting & just hanging out with a group of friends - It doesnt matter to me what gender someone is. That's just the way, I roll.
  6. Madelaine McMasters wrote: emmettcullen93 wrote: valerie Inshan wrote: Good morning to you Hippie and all, thank you for your loving words. Sorry I won't be able to make it for breakfast at Cali's on Sunday as I will be at my parents's to support my Mom and visit my Dad in the hospital. I love you all so much, sending my warmest hugs to you. :heart: o Val i am so sorry. sending up prayers for you today. and good morning to you and Hippie and same to you LIa and Maddy. whenever they get here. I'm hoping for the best for you and yours, Val. I'm here, Emmett, ready for huggin'! Hi, Kids!!! that is the friendliest looking, creepy ass spider I have ever seen!
  7. Lia Abbot wrote: Cali Souther wrote: ~drops by to wave hellooooo~ LOL ... you all do make me laugh. Thank you! This is a great place to make friends... I agree... if you don't mind them being a wee bit on the nuts side. That is obviously, my favorite kind! Who you callin' a nut Cali? hahahaha!!! that's adorable!!!!! ~sings~ Some times you feel like a nut, some times you dont! :-)
  8. valerie Inshan wrote: Good morning to you Hippie and all, thank you for your loving words. Sorry I won't be able to make it for breakfast at Cali's on Sunday as I will be at my parents's to support my Mom and visit my Dad in the hospital. I love you all so much, sending my warmest hugs to you. :heart: Val, biggggest hugs and warmest wishes for you and your family!!!!!
  9. Hippie Bowman wrote: Cali Souther wrote: ~drops by to wave hellooooo~ LOL ... you all do make me laugh. Thank you! This is a great place to make friends... I agree... if you don't mind them being a wee bit on the nuts side. That is obviously, my favorite kind! OH that is good Cali! Good morning! Peace! Happy Turrrrsday All !!!! uno mas ... Fridayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
  10. Perrie Juran wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Perrie Juran wrote: I'm in an unusually rambunctious mood today. How are you doing? I am glad it's Wednesday... that much closer to Friday. I dropped in here while eating my late lunch, for some laughs! :-) What does a Martian do when he is rambunctious? Just curious. He takes pot shots at things with his ray gun. Usually we just target asteroids so we don't hurt any one. But I better go back and check on that one I knocked out of orbit.......................... . . . . . . . Oh noes............run for the hills. hahaha So, what does a Martian do in the hills? :-P Happy Thursday! one more....
  11. Perrie Juran wrote: I'm in an unusually rambunctious mood today. How are you doing? I am glad it's Wednesday... that much closer to Friday. I dropped in here while eating my late lunch, for some laughs! :-) What does a Martian do when he is rambunctious? Just curious.
  12. ~drops by to wave hellooooo~ LOL ... you all do make me laugh. Thank you! This is a great place to make friends... I agree... if you don't mind them being a wee bit on the nuts side. That is obviously, my favorite kind!
  13. Dillon Levenque wrote: I'm curious to know if your suitor (suitress?) said anything in her profile that would explain the biology. I spend quite a lot of time around transgenders and all the ones I know make that perfectly clear in their profiles—to do otherwise could lead to all sorts of problems. I've even gone on record as doubting that any t-girl in SL would not make her transgenderness clear in a profile. It appears I may have been wrong about that. On the other hand, maybe this person was just sort of an 'all-purpose' avi. Swiss Army Knife sorta thing :smileywink: LMAO~!!! oh, ty Dillon, I needed a good laff today! Swiss Army Knife indeed. Also - I do agree with the honesty part. Absolutely nothing wrong with being who ever you want to be, but this especially, could cause some confusion - drama - problems down the line if not divulged very early on. ETA: IF the relationship is going to become sexual, that is.
  14. Alishen wrote: I was at a club , at timesI like to turn on highlight transparent as some people have cool guns or things on . Well I came across a girl...with a big old transparent male genital on . So I giggle and go about my way and start hanging out and enjoying the music. A few mins later I get a IM...if was the girl with te big ding a ling in alpha... So we chat for a min,I am always nice to any one and judge no one that IMs me. After talking a little bit she invites me to her SL house and I tell her " I enjoy public places but thank you." . She ask me to dance so being nice but not wanting to have a sword fight I said "I be afraid your hidden friend on your pelvis might poke me...." Next thing you know she tells me I have some kind of cheating bad viewer...tells me she going to AR me..So I explain to her how to turn on highlight transparent......there was a pause.....and a poooof she was gone.. Lesson of the story,if you are new..and you "Hide" a prim part of your body we can all see it if we turn on highlight transparent... hahaha... I didnt even realize people could wear a hidden appendage. I only use view trans to find misc prims floating about my house, that I didn't realize were there... *.* Once, I had one in front of my door and couldnt get out of the house! So many blonde moments.... Good advice on how to respond to situations such as these, Dana!
  15. Sonja Smedley wrote: May I ask, what is "D3"? :-) Diablo III ... RPG :-) I get to kill demons & big ugly mean things!
  16. Madelaine McMasters wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Examples aside, if I just answered that question - then - As long as people treat me with respect, I don't have a problem with how they choose to live their second life. I am pretty much the Queen of Live & Let Live :-) I require respect to be shown to more than just me. It would be hard to explain to my friends why I bring people into their midst who do not respect them... so I don't. (Well, if I do, would ya tell me?) Maddy, I agree - and being a person that tries to stay neutral can be tricky. Sometimes, I have to stop and really look at the situation, and realize that - as I said (after the reply above) some behavior is simply bad behavior ~ regardless of the situation. My avoidance only goes so far, and I do stand up for my beliefs and for my friends. However, I also try to stay out of things which have a history, and go way beyond my involvement. It is very much in my nature to let things go - so I hope to find an acceptable balance of the two, without alienating my friends in the process. In the end, I can only be who I am. :-)
  17. Lillie Woodells wrote: When someone is treating someone else with contempt the worst thing one could do is stroke their ego and tell them how wonderful they are. It would be far better to gently point out that what they are doing is destructive. I totally agree with this. Bad behavior is bad behavior, regardless of the situation. If you really want to make a positive difference, you must stand up for what is right – even if you choose to continue your association. IF you believe that ANY behavior is acceptable, because this is Second Life, you choose to disregard the human being that is behind every avatar, regardless of how that av "looks".
  18. Keli Kyrie wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Keli Kyrie wrote: I respect Real Lifers for their courage in mixing their Real Lifes with there Second Lives, that is a really hard thing to do, but it is not for everyone. I mean do you really want your mom or your boss to know what you do in here? Some people are in SL to have fun, to game, maybe even to test social limits and push buttons. If we can look at things from the right angle I think we can learn how to react to each other without blowing a gasket. And later… The point of this post is how you react to people that are different then you. There are people in this world of ours that like to test limits, push buttons, play games, even create their own little social experiments to see how people will react. Should all of Second Life look like Disneyland? Where is the sense of adventure, seeking out new worlds, new people, new ideas? If we can not learn how to react to each other in the safety of this virtual world how will we ever be able to in RL? I may have missed, or chose to glaze over some of the intent of this post – which may or may not include things that are none of my business. However, I must say that your example of having your mom or boss know what you do here is a bit extreme. My mother is passed, and my boss could care less. That does not mean, I do not mix my SL and RL. Treating people with respect vs. going out of your way to taunt and irritate (or simply be rude) are two very different things. I do not condone trolls or bullies of any kind, nor do I feel that such behavior falls into “freedom of expression”. I think it’s mean, and it hurts people. If someone wants to push buttons, they should find a willing participant, not someone who is vulnerable, and often unable to defend themselves. I left this forum for a while, because there was way too much trolling going on – and it gets old fast, boring, irritating, not fun! I came back, in hopes of finding some improvement in that area. I cannot leave my feelings aside when I sign into SL, and pretend that I am some thing that does not feels. So, if I am a furry character or a human character, or a cat, or a mouse, or a horse, or a dragon …. I still want to be treated with dignity and respect. :-) Hi Cali, I am not saying I condone trolls or bullies what I am questioning is how we react to people that see things differently from the way we do. The fact is some people see SL as a game and treat “the characters” in it as a game. Do we let these people freak us out on a daily basis, do we let them “ruin” our SL just because they see things differently then the rest of us? If you go to the stove once and grab the cast iron skillet and get burned that is one thing, but if you do it day after day... Come on grab a pot holder, make sure the stove is off, adapt to the situation. Even if someone carries the skillet into your room and says it is safe don't trust it.... those skillets can stay hot for a long time. Test it. We don't have to keep getting hurt over and over again. If you are going to handle bees wear thick gloves don't go in there with your heart on your sleeve. Examples aside, if I just answered that question - then - As long as people treat me with respect, I don't have a problem with how they choose to live their second life. I am pretty much the Queen of Live & Let Live :-)
  19. Hehe ... Very cute, Val ~ :-) Happy Friday & Day off... boy do I wish I wasn't at work today!! ((( hugss )))
  20. If you find someone who does quality custom skin/shapes - let me know, I've been looking to get one made since I came to SL.
  21. My goodness, evenings go so fast! I never even made it in world much this week ... but tomorrow is Friday!!! I got a new game, D3 ... if anyone plays ~ would love some friendly company!! Hope it's okay to post on a SL forum? .. if not, delete ! :-)
  22. OK .. so when in doubt wear Panda or Cat. I got it!
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