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Cali Souther

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  1. valerie Inshan wrote: HI THERE!!! I'M BACK! Oooops, sorry for shouting, lol, I missed you guys! Big big sunny and warm hugs to you all! Vacation is over (:smileysad:) but it feels good to be back with my friends!!! YAY! :smileyhappy: btw, I think I found the house I've always dreamt of... and the view which goes along! It's for sale, should I be thinking about some fund raising? :P WOW ! Can I live with you?!! ;-)
  2. Lia Abbot wrote: Hi Cali. Great pic! Happy weekend everybody! Ty Lia... how quickly Monday rolls back around. Maddy being the only one I know who thinks this is something to dance about. (wink). I jest.. I'm always happy when I wake up above ground... I just like grumbling about Mondays - somehow it makes me feel better.
  3. No worries, understandable. =)
  4. Perrie Juran wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Rosie Eun wrote: Hello Rhonda, welcome to SL. A word of advice to add to all the good suggestions people have given so far: Please be very careful about accepting "free" skins, hair, shapes or whatever from people. I was given a whole pile of stuff when I was new, much of which turned out to be stolen (copybotted is the term used in-world) and it was removed from my inventory by the Linden Labs team. I was sent a message telling me that the content had been removed, and for some time I was worried that I had somehow stolen stuff without intending to! I'd suggest your best bet is to join groups where the store owners and content creators give out free stuff, and there have already been a ton of great suggestions for those. Enjoy your time in SL! Rosie, Great advice! I was warned about that too - and also that you should be careful accepting any files from people you do not know. Can they send you a virus via SL ? ... There are so many freebie places that are legit, it's better to go shopping there, than risk anything. :-) I am going to step on this one. NO,THEY CAN NOT SEND A VIRUS VIA SL. While yes there are things that can be given that can be used to grief or annoy you IN SL, they are not viruses. Yes there are people carrying out phishing schemes in SL. But for this the same basic advise is the same as for anything on the Internet as well as what we've been taught in Real Life: "If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true" Sorry Cali, while practicing good computing habits is smart, scaring new folks with misinformation is not. In my six years here I have yet to see a DOCUMENTED CASE that was not someone falling for a phishing scheme. Sorry for the delayed response, I havent made it in here for a bit ... but let me say, I was NOT trying to scare new people - I would never do that. It was a question. I appreciate the answer. I am still somewhat of a newbie myself, so I am here to learn and grow. No need to get testy. :-)
  5. Rosie Eun wrote: Hello Rhonda, welcome to SL. A word of advice to add to all the good suggestions people have given so far: Please be very careful about accepting "free" skins, hair, shapes or whatever from people. I was given a whole pile of stuff when I was new, much of which turned out to be stolen (copybotted is the term used in-world) and it was removed from my inventory by the Linden Labs team. I was sent a message telling me that the content had been removed, and for some time I was worried that I had somehow stolen stuff without intending to! I'd suggest your best bet is to join groups where the store owners and content creators give out free stuff, and there have already been a ton of great suggestions for those. Enjoy your time in SL! Rosie, Great advice! I was warned about that too - and also that you should be careful accepting any files from people you do not know. Can they send you a virus via SL ? ... There are so many freebie places that are legit, it's better to go shopping there, than risk anything. :-)
  6. valerie Inshan wrote: Good morning Hippie, Cali, Lia, UC, Emmett and all! OK, so my cockroach doesn't seem too popular. How about this? Hugs you all! I have this avatar! It's soooooooooooooooooooo cute! ~~waves Hieee to all~~~ Happy Tuesday!
  7. Ceka Cianci wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Why is this marked HOT? I thought they only did that when people were arguing? I need to check this out at home as well, I can't do sound @ work. Is it 4 o'clock yet? ;-) i think they do that when there is a lot of activity..like if we left it alone for a couple of days it may change from hot.. ahhhh, OK .. well that makes sense! So hot can be good, and hot can be bad. LOL They mark it hot, and close it down if things get toooo hot. ;-)
  8. valerie Inshan wrote: Oh btw I forgot to tell you I think I have found the perfect outfit for our midsummer party! OMG OMG... OH MY GOD!
  9. valerie Inshan wrote: Thank you Cali! Haha, counting days drives me completely nuts! Hugs back at you! HAHAHA!!!!
  10. Hey that is pretty cool ! There was a thread with a bunch of these, but I can't find it,... actually - I think it was in the feeds..... ιllιlı.ıl C lııl a lııl l lııl i lı ıl S lııl o lııl u lııl t lııl h lııl e lııl r lıιllιlı.
  11. Well, I'm not in any kind of relationship right now... but would think, if you lived with someone, shared the bills, (had kids? eeek!)... and were sleeping around - that would be more than fwb's, and could be called "an open relationship"... I find the idea too complicated to imagine... but then, I'm single. LOL If you are married, and your spouse tells you it's okay to have a gf/bf +benefits online, then in a way, that is an open relationship. If you are single in real life, and have an online only relationship but it's OK to have sex with whoever you want, to ME .. and it's just me.. that's nothing more than friends with benefits.
  12. Why is this marked HOT? I thought they only did that when people were arguing? I need to check this out at home as well, I can't do sound @ work. Is it 4 o'clock yet? ;-)
  13. Mike Reaves wrote: Hi, I'm Mike and interested to meet new friends who likes to explore, hang out, chat, build, scripting... etc. I'm gay but not interested in lovers or sex. Just Friendship. I've been in SL for 4 yearsm and I'm 29 years old. My timezone is GMT -5. Hey Mike, I always enjoy meeting new people.. but I must ask, what made you decide to post something like this after 4 years? I would think, you would have established friends, favorite places... something. I'm just being nosey... oh and lazy, cuz I would rather type this than get back to work! :-P Cali
  14. Hi Rhonda & welcome to Second Life! You may feel free to IM me in world anytime, and I will certainly try to help you find stuff. You got a lot of suggestions here, which are great! I hope you enjoy it! PS. Don't let the game / not game debate deter you -- call it whatever you like, and enjoy it! =) /me walks away thinking of Shakespear and his rose....
  15. I am not trying to be rude... but do posts like this actually work?
  16. Val, That is too cute! Enjoy your vacation!!! G'mornin everyone! Hugssssssssssssssssssss
  17. emmettcullen93 wrote: yo Dres and hey Hippie <----- im a new man. id graduated! yay now i can run like hippie can. Congrats!!
  18. Hippie, You are too cool! I would love a Bowman Space Craft! Hugssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
  19. Madelaine McMasters wrote: valerie Inshan wrote: Yay, happy Friday to you all folks! Woot, less than a week before vacations! I've started a diet to fit in my bathing suit. Val, I think I could fit my diet into a bathing suit. It's my body that's the problem. Hi, Kids!!! hahahaha! Just go to a nude beach, Maddy!! :-P Vacation for me week of 6/18... wEeEeEe.... Happy Friday everyone!!
  20. valerie Inshan wrote: Yay, happy Friday to you all folks! Woot, less than a week before vacations! I've started a diet to fit in my bathing suit. awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww , poor thing!!!
  21. Efurou wrote: Cali Souther wrote: haha .. I have to agree... An open relationship is just FWB. :-) Cali, you can make that call for yourself and for your own relationships. But many people live in long term, meaningful, serious, and very loving open relationships. Telling them they are only friends with benefits is offensive. I am not saying an open relationship is for everyone. We all have to figure that out for ourselves. I am also not saying that open relationships are better for everyone. An open relationship is better for me - and you cannot tell me I am just FWB with my long term partner. E. E, You are absolutely correct. I can not, nor do I wish to, Judge or tell anyone else how to live their life. I personally would rather not have a relationship, than to have an open one - which in my opinion, pretty much negates the whole thing anway. However, if it works for you and your partner - I think that is wonderful. So, let me re-state... for me personally, I would rather do the fwb thing, than have something considered an "open relationship". :-)
  22. Madelaine McMasters wrote: Cali Souther wrote: Meanwhile, in Southern California .. you are considered the ultimate pollutant if you smoke a cigarrette.... I always say, there are plenty of things out there just waiting to kill you... (smoking cigs being only one of them). (waits for the flaming to follow) LOL This Milwaukee Journal-Sentinel headline/photo combo gave me a chuckle some years ago... So, does one make up for the other? hmmmmmm
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