superpeeve Oh my Gawd! - Totally unOfficial Pet Peeve Thread.

[Rowan Amore]

Not a peeve but more applause for someone using this phrase to describe another person's tirade...nonsense buffet.   So very appropriate.

[Orwar]

2 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

But hey! you can bend over and tie your shoes without running out of breath now!

   Hah. Well, I wasn't having issues with that before. Or any other real 'issues', really, aside from the gall stones - which I no longer had since they nicked my gall bladder the other year. According to my BMI (which is an awfully negligent metric which should never be used) I was off my 'target weight' by a few kilos (but the nurse who weighed me thought it was fine for my weigh-in to be done whilst wearing heavy work boots and a 2-metre long metal chain and a half dozen large padlocks garnishing my belt, so it's not as if it was a particularly precise reading even if BMI was any sort of useful). And strictly speaking, I haven't actually lost very much weight - I've just opted for swapping out some of the spare fat for some muscle instead - and also severely improve my complexion, mental focus, and energy.

   Who knows, one of these days I might even consider starting to actually exercise on occasion! 

[Sammy Huntsman]

Not gonna lie the memes that say, did you like these movies with animals as a kid? Then you are infact a furry. Please don't assume just cause I liked certain movies with either anthropomorphic and sentient animals or non anthro and sentient. That somehow I am a furry. I just found those movies cute and memorable. Not like I am gonna don a fursuit and be like hey guys, I am a furry. Lol 

[Silent Mistwalker]

3 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

Not gonna lie the memes that say, did you like these movies with animals as a kid? Then you are infact a furry. Please don't assume just cause I liked certain movies with either anthropomorphic and sentient animals or non anthro and sentient. That somehow I am a furry. I just found those movies cute and memorable. Not like I am gonna don a fursuit and be like hey guys, I am a furry. Lol 

Wait, wait... you mean because I watched Bambi as a kid in the 60s, I'm a furry? How the hell could anyone possibly make that leap of unadulterated ignorance? 🤔

[Rowan Amore]

So we have squishy thighs and squishy arms.  The latest and greatest add-on?  Camel toe!  I've seriously lost faith in the mental health of SL.

 

[Silent Mistwalker]

Just now, Rowan Amore said:

So we have squishy thighs and squishy arms.  The latest and greatest add-on?  Camel toe!  I've seriously lost faith in the mental health of SL.

 

I'm ahead of you by about 8 years. 😶

[Sammy Huntsman]

1 minute ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

Wait, wait... you mean because I watched Bambi as a kid in the 60s, I'm a furry? How the hell could anyone possibly make that leap of unadulterated ignorance? 🤔

I have no freakin clue. But somehow you liking movies like Bambi or Fox and the Hound. You are somehow a furry. But haven't come out yet. 

[Sammy Huntsman]

2 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

So we have squishy thighs and squishy arms.  The latest and greatest add-on?  Camel toe!  I've seriously lost faith in the mental health of SL.

 

Just a joke, let me preface that. I am just waiting for the Canadian version. Moose Knuckle. Lol 

[Sammy Huntsman]

6 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

So we have squishy thighs and squishy arms.  The latest and greatest add-on?  Camel toe!  I've seriously lost faith in the mental health of SL.

 

But I do think that women are going way too far in the ways to make themselves look more provocative to themselves. I mean I smell a hypocrisy. Other's can't objectify them, but they are free to objectify themselves for themselves. I mean cmon, if you don't like it from someone else. You sure as heck wouldn't like doing it to yourself. 

[LittleMe Jewell]

1 hour ago, Rowan Amore said:

Not a peeve but more applause for someone using this phrase to describe another person's tirade...nonsense buffet.   So very appropriate.

I am going to try really hard to remember that phrase.

[LittleMe Jewell]

1 minute ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

But I do think that women are going way too far in the ways to make themselves look more provocative to themselves. I mean I smell a hypocrisy. Other's can't objectify them, but they are free to objectify themselves for themselves. I mean cmon, if you don't like it from someone else. You sure as heck wouldn't like doing it to yourself. 

It's driving me bat***** crazy

[Sammy Huntsman]

10 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

It's driving me bat***** crazy

Don't get me wrong, if they want to do that it's fine. But please don't be a hypocrite about it. 

[Sammy Huntsman]

13 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

It's driving me bat***** crazy

Then you have those women who take pictures, where the pantie string is hiked so far up their ***** and butt. That it looks kinda painful to look at. Lol 

[Coffee Pancake]

32 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

But I do think that women are going way too far in the ways to make themselves look more provocative to themselves. I mean I smell a hypocrisy. Other's can't objectify them, but they are free to objectify themselves for themselves. I mean cmon, if you don't like it from someone else. You sure as heck wouldn't like doing it to yourself. 

 

If I do something for me, that's for me, whatever that is .. Not going to hold back doing the thing that I clearly enjoy because I wouldn't be comfortable doing it for someone else, in front of someone else, or having someone else do it to me.

It's not hypocritical as those scenarios are all entirely different things.

[Scylla Rhiadra]

42 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

they are free to objectify themselves for themselves

This exactly.

That's not so hard to understand, is it?

It's not "hypocrisy." It's freedom.

And I really couldn't care less how you or anyone else interprets it.

[Sammy Huntsman]

1 minute ago, Scylla Rhiadra said:

This exactly.

That's not so hard to understand, is it?

It's not "hypocrisy." It's freedom.

And I really couldn't care less how you or anyone else interprets it.

But the whole thing that bugs me, is the fact that you are able to do it to yourselves. But if someone even does it to you. You lose your absolute mind.

[Coffee Pancake]

1 minute ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

But the whole thing that bugs me, is the fact that you are able to do it to yourselves. But if someone even does it to you. You lose your absolute mind.

Masturbation.

*drops the mic*

[Ayashe Ninetails]

I'm not bothered by any of those add-ons. I just think they look way less realistic than they're aiming for. Line up the fabric to the thigh squish properly and I'd stop whining about that. I haven't taken a good look at the arms, so I can't complain about those yet. 😂

I'd never buy them personally, just like I'd never wear stuff that did that to me in RL, but I don't find it hypocritical for women to like them.

 

2 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

But the whole thing that bugs me, is the fact that you are able to do it to yourselves. But if someone even does it to you. You lose your absolute mind.

There's a biiiiiiiiig difference between both of those.

[Katherine Heartsong]

2 minutes ago, Coffee Pancake said:

Masturbation.

*drops the mic*

Before you can love others, you do have to love yourself, after all.

[Sammy Huntsman]

Just now, Ayashe Ninetails said:

I'm not bothered by any of those add-ons. I just think they look way less realistic than they're aiming for. Line up the fabric to the thigh squish properly and I'd stop whining about that. I haven't taken a good look at the arms, so I can't complain about those yet. 😂

I'd never buy them personally, just like I'd never wear stuff that did that to me in RL, but I don't find it hypocritical for women to like them.

Well they do look more like tourniquets than actual things you would wear on a day to day basis. Lol. I mean look at the thigh one's, I mean with that tightness. You could easily amputate a leg at the thigh and lose next to no blood. 

[Sammy Huntsman]

1 minute ago, Katherine Heartsong said:

Before you can love others, you do have to love yourself, after all.

I do love myself very much. But I can't objectify myself for others or even myself. It makes me feel all icky. 

[Love Zhaoying]

30 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

So we have squishy thighs and squishy arms.  The latest and greatest add-on?  Camel toe!  I've seriously lost faith in the mental health of SL.

 

Unf! 
Maybe is for scissors?

[Scylla Rhiadra]

5 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

But the whole thing that bugs me, is the fact that you are able to do it to yourselves. But if someone even does it to you. You lose your absolute mind.

This is such a bizarre inability to understand a basic concept.

There are a kazillion things I can happily do for myself and to myself that it is emphatically not alright for someone else to do for me (without my permission).

Coffee listed just one. Do you need an exhaustive list?

[Coffee Pancake]

2 minutes ago, Ayashe Ninetails said:

I'm not bothered by any of those add-ons. I just think they look way less realistic than they're aiming for

If they went for realism, the difference would likely be too subtle to really show on an avatar.

[Scylla Rhiadra]

2 minutes ago, Sammy Huntsman said:

I do love myself very much. But I can't objectify myself for others or even myself. It makes me feel all icky. 

Then DON'T.

The whole point of this is that it is YOUR CHOICE!