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Will The New TOS on Child Avatars Ensnare Short Adults?


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1 hour ago, Kathlen Onyx said:

Ok, well totally different shape then the one with the dress. The dress showed that you had hips. This one shows no such thing. So, putting together the face, shape and your height....I'd be worried if I was in an adult venue.

 

when I get home I’ll post that pic in that thread asking if the pic is adult or underage, see what all the forum worthies think 😂

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No this one is easy height alone means nothing. You could be a super tiny full grown man or woman if you want.

Not you @BilliJo Aldrin but I think a lot of people seem to think that private land owners have to follow the same thought process as the Lindens. People are gonna ban you for being short on private or privately owned open to the public land if they want and it's their bought and paid for right.

Even though it's not exactly on this topic I was watching the video of that meeting and some guy was going off that he was kicked from somewhere because he had child avatar in his profile but had shown up as a stick man. Yeah and?  Next please!  The same thing does apply here... you might have more pushback from the community over being short but more than likely it will be same as it ever was. I think for years now there has been a downscaling in size going on and "short" is more acceptable. 

I do think a lot of people base their short perception on the most popular mesh bodies shrunk all the way down. That's what I've done on all of my bodies... Belleza Freya, Legacy, Belleza Gen X, and now Reborn.  I think Maitreya has a similar base height too.. I have it on another avatar but havent worn it in years. I do add a little height with pulling and pushing some body parts .. and heels or perma barbie feet but that's all.  Never a bit of problem about my height. 

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14 minutes ago, Chery Amore said:

No this one is easy height alone means nothing. You could be a super tiny full grown man or woman if you want.

Not you @BilliJo Aldrin but I think a lot of people seem to think that private land owners have to follow the same thought process as the Lindens. People are gonna ban you for being short on private or privately owned open to the public land if they want and it's their bought and paid for right.

Even though it's not exactly on this topic I was watching the video of that meeting and some guy was going off that he was kicked from somewhere because he had child avatar in his profile but had shown up as a stick man. Yeah and?  Next please!  The same thing does apply here... you might have more pushback from the community over being short but more than likely it will be same as it ever was. I think for years now there has been a downscaling in size going on and "short" is more acceptable. 

I do think a lot of people base their short perception on the most popular mesh bodies shrunk all the way down. That's what I've done on all of my bodies... Belleza Freya, Legacy, Belleza Gen X, and now Reborn.  I think Maitreya has a similar base height too.. I have it on another avatar but havent worn it in years. I do add a little height with pulling and pushing some body parts .. and heels or perma barbie feet but that's all.  Never a bit of problem about my height. 

I made my maitreya as short as possible while still keeping proper proportions.

I have zero problem with being banned from any venue, in fact i dont give them the chance. As soon as i get a message from either a person, or some avatar scanner, saying my look is unacceptable for whatever reason, I leave. I never argue, unless i’m in the mood to argue, but i’m not trying to change their minds.

Yes, the realistic height trend is defo growing

 

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9 hours ago, BilliJo Aldrin said:

And the response would be, if you are so worried, make yourself taller.

umm no thanks, I'll take my chances 😂

Why can't you make yourself taller?  You really cannot claim it is because you want "realistic" proportions, so that only leaves someone to wonder why being short is so important to you. 

Though it does give you something to be  a drama queen/attention whore about.

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10 minutes ago, Flower Caerndow said:

Why can't you make yourself taller?  You really cannot claim it is because you want "realistic" proportions, so that only leaves someone to wonder why being short is so important to you. 

Though it does give you something to be  a drama queen/attention whore about.

A lot of people find identity in a lot of things... including height.  Asking someone why they just can't be taller... its no different than only have 1 color of skin and asking everyone why they can't just be that race...

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3 minutes ago, Madi Melodious said:

Because I don't want too.  😎

But you're not claiming to be an adult either doing adult things.  If I were doing adult things, and even though I'm quite fond of my avatar, if someone at LL said I was too short to be considered adult, I'd just change if I wanted to stay.  It's their circus.

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1 hour ago, Flower Caerndow said:

Why can't you make yourself taller?  You really cannot claim it is because you want "realistic" proportions, so that only leaves someone to wonder why being short is so important to you. 

Though it does give you something to be  a drama queen/attention whore about.

why should I change? I like being 5 ft 4.

attention whore…. lol… love me or hate me, just don’t ignore me 😂

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5 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

But you're not claiming to be an adult either doing adult things.  If I were doing adult things, and even though I'm quite fond of my avatar, if someone at LL said I was too short to be considered adult, I'd just change if I wanted to stay.  It's their circus.

oh, my bad.  I've not read the whole thread.  

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7 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

But you're not claiming to be an adult either doing adult things.  If I were doing adult things, and even though I'm quite fond of my avatar, if someone at LL said I was too short to be considered adult, I'd just change if I wanted to stay.  It's their circus.

for them to say I am too short, they would have to state a minimum height to be considered adult, but they wont because they thrive on ambiguity and uncertainty.

Then all the teen avis could go to 1 inch higher, and say, see im an adult, you said so 😂

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It is most unfortunate, but if the creators of adult bodies aren't on board, people who engage in activities which are against the TOS will simply change their profile to say they are 18, make their shape a little taller, and switch to wearing a petite adult avatar to appear "barely legal". And since the skin they would be wearing would be made for adults and thus revealing, it would defeat the whole purpose of what the new TOS is trying to accomplish, which is making it more difficult for people to engage in AP. 

If you look on the Marketplace for clothing that is made for petite addons, you will see images of avatars that appear to be underage wearing the most revealing clothing (some are even listed under childrens apparel). Which is why I believe that this scenario would only serve to exacerbate the very issue that LL is trying to solve with the new TOS.

I am not against such addons and fully support their use by individuals who don't engage in unlawful behavior in SL, but I fear that there is a greater likelihood of them being used for illegal purposes if compliant skins are not created for adult mesh bodies.

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3 minutes ago, Sadvhi said:

It is most unfortunate, but if the creators of adult bodies aren't on board, people who engage in activities which are against the TOS will simply change their profile to say they are 18, make their shape a little taller, and switch to wearing a petite adult avatar to appear "barely legal"

They've always done this.  

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7 minutes ago, Sadvhi said:

It is most unfortunate, but if the creators of adult bodies aren't on board, people who engage in activities which are against the TOS will simply change their profile to say they are 18, make their shape a little taller, and switch to wearing a petite adult avatar to appear "barely legal". And since the skin they would be wearing would be made for adults and thus revealing, it would defeat the whole purpose of what the new TOS is trying to accomplish, which is making it more difficult for people to engage in AP. 

If you look on the Marketplace for clothing that is made for petite addons, you will see images of avatars that appear to be underage wearing the most revealing clothing (some are even listed under childrens apparel). Which is why I believe that this scenario would only serve to exacerbate the very issue that LL is trying to solve with the new TOS.

I am not against such addons and fully support their use by individuals who don't engage in unlawful behavior in SL, but I fear that there is a greater likelihood of them being used for illegal purposes if compliant skins are not created for adult mesh bodies.

in the end there is only one solution, modesty panels for everyone.

I hope they make them in extra large for the eight foot giants 😂

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10 minutes ago, Sadvhi said:

It is most unfortunate, but if the creators of adult bodies aren't on board, people who engage in activities which are against the TOS will simply change their profile to say they are 18, make their shape a little taller, and switch to wearing a petite adult avatar to appear "barely legal".

6 minutes ago, Rowan Amore said:

They've always done this.  

As Rowan says, this is standard procedure for teen-oriented a*eplay. There are some pretty popular places swarming with "teen" girls doing this in fact.

And it has nothing to do with petite add-ons. Some of them are wearing Reborn or even Kupra.

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9 hours ago, BilliJo Aldrin said:

methinks you exagerate, you’ve not been on the forum for years, unless you are that poster with the same posting style that disappeared just before you showed up.

I dont need to seek out giants, they are everywhere 😂

It's actually something I should have done long ago.. It's not safe to post on your account here or other places, as people who disagree WILL cause you problems, aim to destroy you, and even haunt you from platform to platform - all over simple disagreements, ideological differences or some perceived slight. Something to consider if you want to continue on these forums.

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1 hour ago, Scylla Rhiadra said:

As Rowan says, this is standard procedure for teen-oriented a*eplay. There are some pretty popular places swarming with "teen" girls doing this in fact.

And it has nothing to do with petite add-ons. Some of then are wearing Reborn or even Kupra.

I’ve been to placed like that, they are quite disgraceful….. 13 yr olds pole dancing and escorting 


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2 minutes ago, Codex Alpha said:

It's actually something I should have done long ago.. It's not safe to post on your account here or other places, as people who disagree WILL cause you problems, aim to destroy you, and even haunt you from platform to platform - all over simple disagreements, ideological differences or some perceived slight. Something to consider if you want to continue on these forums.

It’s all good, I’m cool. I did trash a guy from sl on my blog last week gawd was he pissed 😂

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The only solution would be for LL to hire a bunch of agents and park them at those places, then have them try and engage people in AP. As messed up as that would be, I feel like that is literally the only way to stop this behavior.

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3 minutes ago, BilliJo Aldrin said:

in the end there is only one solution, modesty panels for everyone.

I hope they make them in extra large for the eight foot giants 😂

Yes, those permanoobs who just log in for a quickie do tend to run taller.  😂

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