Arielle Popstar

One of my pet eye rolls as a virtual submissive, is pseudo submissives who would be more honest if they hide their collars and uncover the chip on their shoulder.

I change according to the theme I am dressed as. Just comes naturally really though I may study up a little to get the finer points of a particular theme. submissive, bimbo, domme, neko, as well as some others I won't mention here.

But then we'd have to find something or some else to get hostile about. It is the hostility that is the common denominator, not it's object.

Sometimes when people get offended, it is for them to deal with themselves. That's part of growing up. Noone needs to be a walking apology because others are not taking responsibility for their own stuff.

Perhaps not but it can be important to know what the destination is.

You misunderstood. The suggestion was for accepting herself.

Quite often the reasons do not become apparent until after the acceptance.

Sometimes it is less about learning than just accepting and being ok with it.

Perhaps people who want front row seats to any slow moving trainwrecks? Think i will watch the preview

I like what @Amina Sopwith said here and am of the opinion that one cannot truly understand what she means unless one has experienced it directly themselves: my question/challenge/observation from the other thread basically asked you to dissociate yourself from your clinical therapist background and share how you feel about doing illeism for yourself. Does that scare you?

Arielle feels Luna still disassociated by projecting what it would imply for other people, not how it feels to do it for Luna herself just within one thread.

Arielle thinks Luna should answer that question herself as she seems to have trouble doing it consistently.

Yah, kinda thought so.

Do you post when alcohol free?

Depends how well the person is known. By your own admission, a drink or two changes certain people's attitude and helps them to be more self confident. That would translate to a difference in such a person's postings.

Actually LL is not currently renting out any regions so the point is moot.

Could have won before they had their first drink though it would mean that they would be wrong on us not being able to tell if they had had a drink yet.

Funny and some good soundtracks The Hitman's Bodyguard

* Everybody hide, Luna arrived!

My initial post agreeing with Silent on how there was bullying going on, to the extent of two posters suggesting that Melodic leave the forum , included no names and was therefore not personal. You made it personal by responding and defending it. In relation to my own pet peeve of fauxpologies, do you think an apology is valid if someone apologizes for something but puts it in such a way that says they would do the same thing all over again if faced with the same set circumstances in the future?

Pet peeve: when I or others are unable to discern between a closure post and a spam one.

One of my faves

Well it is their national sport isn't it?

They can just fuddle duddle!

So pointing to the contradictions of your post, I don't really know how to respond other than to point out that you seem to agree that we should allow Autistics to speak for themselves as to what they find offensive?