xBaeBeex Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 (edited) hi all.. so ive been on SL for a year now.. I have maybe 7 people.. on my friend list, and only 1 I tend to talk to, .. Ive had a bad day as well today, tried to help a friend move from a system av to a mesh av, got this person a bunch of good quality gifts, and was told my attempt was ugly and looked like a dogs arse..so.. Im kinda sitting here licking my wounds, and ive taken to the board to vent a little bit... and maybe this was the final push I needed to reach out to others.. Ive been feeling kinda lonely.., I have a nice meshed out bom (bomb) av, boathouse, I guess the last thing I thought I would even be doing is reaching out.. I am not the up and go personality.. so clubs or meeting lots of people is a no for me. I like one on one, or a small group.. maybe about 4 people would be nice.. I do enjoy looking around some of the editors picks in second life places, ..events are kinda boring to me, i dont like paying full price for stuff, I would much rather the saturday sales or access sale. and I admit, I have a habit of getting jealous when I read peoples profiles and see that they have family, sisters, brothers, muma, ect.. coz I think deep down I kinda want a family sorta thing.. I like the nurtured looked after feeling and having people around ..that.. want me around.. I enjoy beaches.. and I enjoy laying around doing nothing >_< .. but with some nice scenery. likes: - shopping sales - hanging on beaches - skyboxes! - lounging at home - exploring some of second lifes editors picks dislikes: - furry/animal avies - scifi/comic stuff - laggy areas other info: 28 rt yes I do have discord female rt heres just a shot i took of me at home, coz I know some people want to see what the avie looks like Edited April 12, 2020 by xBaeBeex 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckSunflower Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 Hi, We sound very similar. I do have a sister on Sl and we spend quite a bit of time together but she’s also a social butterfly where I’m not. She has met lots of people and I’m a little awkward when it comes to meeting people and keeping in touch. I am making more of an effort to reach out by venturing out on my own when she has a date or something with one of her friends. I would like to have some friends of my own. I’m very reserved and like small groups too. I’ve also grown tired of the party scene. I’m 8 years old so I’ve done most of it. I’ve been looking for more engaging events to no avail... but I like finding cool places to hang and take pics. I’m not inworld at the moment but I would love to chat. Shoot me a message. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 I don't do the discord thing, but I would love to be your friend, I love to explore and shop and have Sl adventures. I also have full mesh avi though i havent yet figure out the BOM thing, which has resulted in me running around Sl without any tattoos for a few months. I keep meaning to figure it out but there is always something more fun to do. If you want to see my avi there are some pictures in the what do you look like today thread. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adamburp Adamczyk Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 Second Life is full of many random places to explore if you're not into what would term "mainstream" 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulXu Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 (edited) 1 hour ago, Adamburp Adamczyk said: Second Life is full of many random places to explore if you're not into what would term "mainstream" what are three random places I should look look for? Edited April 12, 2020 by BeautifulXu Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobani Posted April 12, 2020 Share Posted April 12, 2020 Hi I’m bella! I’m looking for friends too! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeautifulXu Posted April 15, 2020 Share Posted April 15, 2020 Boyfriends, girlfriends, hangout friends! I'll make sure no one hassles you while you while when you don't want to be bothered! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Violani Posted April 16, 2020 Share Posted April 16, 2020 Hi there! I'm 9 years old and have yet to make any real connection with friends. I was off for a couples years and now that I'm back on, everything has changed. I have no idea what the mesh is and struggling how to figure it out. But it's a good excuse to go shopping. I like small groups and kinda feel like the whole party scene is over rated. When I do go out to dance, the lag is atrocious and no one talks. I like exploring and decorating my home. Hanging out at the house, movies on the tv inworld, AO shopping and hair shopping, art galleries, driving and riding motorcycles. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xBaeBeex Posted April 17, 2020 Author Share Posted April 17, 2020 ello everyone ! Violani, your av doesnt look too bad! .. hit me up in a message if you want to talk avs and getting meshed out.. im still burned at what a friend said to me after i helped her, so im a little cautious now helping others.. but you sound nice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PixieGirrrrl Posted April 17, 2020 Share Posted April 17, 2020 Sounds like there's a bunch of us who feel similarly and are looking for the same thing! Friends we can hang out with at times, without pressure to be mega-social and stuff. If it's ok with everyone I'm going to add you all and create a group maybe? Interests: shopping, bargain hunting, events, quizzes, games, RP, discovering news sims, meeting new people, making new friends, learning new things. I come on at irregular times depending on RL commitments, but usually grab an hour or two in the morning and/or evening. 🖤 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
So Whimsy Posted April 17, 2020 Share Posted April 17, 2020 I'm only a furry some of the time. Dinkies Rule. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautifulxu7 Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 i've never been a furry, but we could still hang out long as I'm a human. maybe I'll be a boy or a girl? a kid I mean. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drake1 Nightfire Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 Been in SL for a while now, just over 13 years, i find myself alone most of the time. You will find me either working on clothes, tatts or redecorating my home. Over and over. Its one of the few things i truly enjoy doing. Buy a new house, pick up the old one and decorate. Currently ts a castle, complete with a dungeon and caves. Feel free to shoot me an IM for a tour or just to chat. @Violani if you do get meshed up, hit my store for some freebies and drop me an IM for a free outfit. I'm always willing to help. @PixieGirrrrl I would be interested in joining that group as well. If you would be ok with that. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PixieGirrrrl Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 (edited) Sure thing @Drake1 Nightfire I'm thinking the group is all about being inclusive, with low expectations and high tolerance (for everything except creeps and sleazebags). Will probs set it up today! 🥳 Edited April 18, 2020 by PixieGirrrrl 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adamburp Adamczyk Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 I've been all sorts. Huggy Monster, The Flush, yoda, a cat, a dinkie, a toilet, a car. Love the creativity of SL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
So Whimsy Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 14 minutes ago, Adamburp Adamczyk said: The Flush Say what Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adamburp Adamczyk Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 "what" There y'go, I said it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PixieGirrrrl Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 33 minutes ago, Adamburp Adamczyk said: The Flush The superhero that's faster than a speeding toilet. 🚽 ⚡ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess Falworth Posted April 18, 2020 Share Posted April 18, 2020 On 4/11/2020 at 10:32 PM, xBaeBeex said: hi all.. so ive been on SL for a year now.. I have maybe 7 people.. on my friend list, and only 1 I tend to talk to, .. Ive had a bad day as well today, tried to help a friend move from a system av to a mesh av, got this person a bunch of good quality gifts, and was told my attempt was ugly and looked like a dogs arse..so.. Im kinda sitting here licking my wounds, and ive taken to the board to vent a little bit... and maybe this was the final push I needed to reach out to others.. Ive been feeling kinda lonely.., I have a nice meshed out bom (bomb) av, boathouse, I guess the last thing I thought I would even be doing is reaching out.. I am not the up and go personality.. so clubs or meeting lots of people is a no for me. I like one on one, or a small group.. maybe about 4 people would be nice.. I do enjoy looking around some of the editors picks in second life places, ..events are kinda boring to me, i dont like paying full price for stuff, I would much rather the saturday sales or access sale. and I admit, I have a habit of getting jealous when I read peoples profiles and see that they have family, sisters, brothers, muma, ect.. coz I think deep down I kinda want a family sorta thing.. I like the nurtured looked after feeling and having people around ..that.. want me around.. I enjoy beaches.. and I enjoy laying around doing nothing >_< .. but with some nice scenery. likes: - shopping sales - hanging on beaches - skyboxes! - lounging at home - exploring some of second lifes editors picks dislikes: - furry/animal avies - scifi/comic stuff - laggy areas other info: 28 rt yes I do have discord female rt heres just a shot i took of me at home, coz I know some people want to see what the avie looks like I can't believe that your friend said that about your effort to help her I would be hurt too! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xBaeBeex Posted April 19, 2020 Author Share Posted April 19, 2020 Quote I can't believe that your friend said that about your effort to help her I would be hurt too! yeah hun, it felt like i got kicked in the guts.. so you know what I did? i made a spare account for myself, and everything i picked up for her, i also picked up for myself..and i have a nice looking alt account that I can appreciate, since i didn't get any from her. .. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jordan Whitt Posted April 19, 2020 Share Posted April 19, 2020 3 hours ago, xBaeBeex said: yeah hun, it felt like i got kicked in the guts.. so you know what I did? i made a spare account for myself, and everything i picked up for her, i also picked up for myself..and i have a nice looking alt account that I can appreciate, since i didn't get any from her. .. I think that says more about her than about you. 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess Falworth Posted April 21, 2020 Share Posted April 21, 2020 On 4/18/2020 at 11:14 PM, Jordan Whitt said: I think that says more about her than about you. exactly! It sure does.! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tess Falworth Posted April 21, 2020 Share Posted April 21, 2020 On 4/18/2020 at 8:11 PM, xBaeBeex said: yeah hun, it felt like i got kicked in the guts.. so you know what I did? i made a spare account for myself, and everything i picked up for her, i also picked up for myself..and i have a nice looking alt account that I can appreciate, since i didn't get any from her. .. I am glad you made the best of it.. still tho.. you deserve a hug! *hugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beautifulxu7 Posted April 26, 2020 Share Posted April 26, 2020 On 4/18/2020 at 7:44 AM, Drake1 Nightfire said: Been in SL for a while now, just over 13 years, i find myself alone most of the time. You will find me either working on clothes, tatts or redecorating my home. Over and over. Its one of the few things i truly enjoy doing. Buy a new house, pick up the old one and decorate. Currently ts a castle, complete with a dungeon and caves. Feel free to shoot me an IM for a tour or just to chat. @Violani if you do get meshed up, hit my store for some freebies and drop me an IM for a free outfit. I'm always willing to help. @PixieGirrrrl I would be interested in joining that group as well. If you would be ok with that. don't forget you old friends though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drake1 Nightfire Posted April 26, 2020 Share Posted April 26, 2020 2 hours ago, beautifulxu7 said: don't forget you old friends though! /me looks puzzled.. "I.. wont?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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