Heart Brimmer

Syo Emerald wrote: Please tell me when you discovered one! :smileyhappy: ^^THIS^^ I can never find places that find conversation stimulating and exciting.

Couldbe Yue wrote: I asked this question a few years back but then it was asking if anyone did.. Now I'm asking if there's anyone left who doesn't wear them. Couldbe is still unfashionable and only has them in one pair of shoes but I've seen all manner of naked fake feet and of course there's always mesh shoes and feet these days. So has anyone not succumbed? (I only ask because I've just finished three major bits of animated furniture and as I'm doing my final check I'm wearing shoes and realise just how far poor Couldbe sinks into the ground with them on! Which means I need to readjust them all... or not if people still use the defaut av mesh feet.. yeah, I know, call me optimist!) I ALWAYS wear fake feet, CANNOT stand the default feet, they are ugly! Like someone cut the feet from a paper doll and didn't pay attention to detail. *shudders* When I wear shoes, I always wear N-Core shoes 'cause I love painted toes! LOL.

kfauquher wrote: Hello there, I had heard of this game many times before and figured I would give it a try. Any advise for a new player would be greatly appreciated! I am looking to roleplay, more interested in something "adult themed" but I have literally no idea where or how someone like myself would find other people like minded. So please say hello! Welcome to SL, kfauquher. First let me say that SL is NOT a game, in the sense that it has no points to be earned, no end boss to fight and win the game. This is a Virtual Reality and user content created. Learning that first will help you greatly in finding what you are looking for. Second, What "adult themed" RP did you have in mind? Then go to your search function inworld and search for what interests you the most. Hope this helps. If not, then feel free to IM me inworld and I can see what I can do to help you further. :-)

Kenbro Utu wrote: If you are in-world, don't log out if you need to stay in. Log-ins have been temporarily suspened. I was able to log in, BUT, I was a cloud and my linden amount simply said loading...sigh.....

Dilbert Dilweg wrote: http://status.secondlifegrid.net/2013/01/08/post1856/ Second Life Network is currently experiencing several issues. Heavy packet loss across the grid . scripts failing to communicate and a plethora of other issues concerning inventory and what have ya... Hold on for the ride. It may be a long one lol LOL. I am also experiencing these things and I have to agree with you that it's going to be a VERY long and bumpy ride. :-)

Tex Monday wrote: I may be wrong, but I think you're all missing a couple of things: In SL, you can make your body appear however you want...and the sexuality is VERY VERY loose here. Plus, a lot of the fashions, I think, are designed that way. I don't know of many shops that sell pants and long tops. Most sell really short skins, stockings and low cut tops...again, all my opinion. Also, a good percentage (and I have no numbers only my personal research) of females in SL are played by men. What guy wouldn't want their girl to be dressed all sexy, showing off lots of skin??? So, of course, they dress that way too. Again..just my opinion...:matte-motes-sunglasses-2: I know of several very good shops that DO sell long pants and long tops and I myself own several outfits that DO NOT reveal a lot of skin. I think you must not be looking at the right shops. LOL. Sometimes I DO enjoy dressing sexy but most of the time I dress very conservatively. :-) That's just MY opinion. *grins*

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Hippie Bowman wrote: Hippiestock 3 coming the 19th of Jan! Dont miss it! Peace! I am so excited! This will be my second hippiestock and I totally loved the first one I went too, I didn't even mind the lag! LOL. If you could send a LM that would be great!!

Melita Magic wrote: Aw, Heart! You just made me tear up. The same Irish blessing back to you! And a big hug. <3 awww, don't cry! *hands you a tissue and hugs you tightly*

Melita Magic wrote: Heart you have showed your choice of first name for SL is very apt. Very sorry to hear of your losses and Pamela said it very well. Many in SL do suffer, if the sampling of RL stories I have heard are any indication; but it is what is done with the suffering that makes the transcendant portion in a life story. Thank you Melita. Yes, many DO suffer and believe me I also have heard my share of stories in SL and it breaks my heart BUT, they have chosen to make something wonderful in SL that they could NOT make happen in RL and that, in my opinion is what counts. I know content creators who have disabilities in RL BUT in SL they have made wonderful, incredible things. I marvel at what they are able to do. Some sell what they make and some simply give them to friends because that is who they are. Others, just give of their time and love, neither is more important, it's just different aspects of the diversity of SL, as well as RL. We all have something to share, something to give, if we can just get past the pettiness and let our inner light shine though. Happy New Year, Melita. May you always have sunshine on your face and strong winds at your back. Hugs!

Czari Zenovka wrote: Heart Brimmer wrote: Jumps up and applauds loudly!!! I absolutely agree with everything you said, Tari and I couldn't have said it better. For the record, Amie, this is my first Christmas without my sister who died of pancreatic cancer, and my mother who died of heart failure and had I NOT had SL to come into and be with friends there, this would have been a horrible time for me. I think YOU need to grow up and learn what it's really like to lose someone you loved dearly and then tell me it's sad to do what so many people on SL do. Oh Heart! I am so very sorry to hear this. *HUGS* And yes, I am so thankful there is a SL to come to, make friends, etc. especially when, for any number of reasons, so many people cannot do the same in RL. Hugs Czari, it HAS been hard but SL has been a haven for me and I'm sure many more who choose to keep their RL private. For me, I have no problem sharing parts of my RL with people especially when someone like the aforementioned poster can learn that not everything is black and white, especially in SL. *smiles*

May this new year bring you peace, joy and your heart's content. Happy New Year!

My DOM/husband and I are looking for a serious minded femsub/pet. Must have a working knowledge of polyamourous relationships, must be single in SL and a willingness to learn and please. Must also be bi as my husband and I enjoy playing. Preferably would like the girl to be single in RL, but if not, the partner/S/O/BF MUST have knowledge of what you are doing, so as to not create problems in your RL relationship. For more information please contact me Heart Brimmer inworld or PM me here. We look forward to hearing from that ONE special person. *smiles*

Tari Landar wrote: Amie Kaestner wrote: My RL Christmas. Because I actually got to see my family in the flesh and not through a computer monitor. Sorry, but if you spent Christmas Day on SL exanging polygons with your avatars that's... kinda sad. Like, sadder than those homeless people who had to spend their Christmas in a Salvation Army shelter. What a terrible thing to say to people. Especially this time of year when so very many people either do not have family they can spend physical time with, or are not blessed with the opportunity to do so. The one time of year when people, at the very least, try to promote good will toward man. Or at least, we'd like them to. It's not as if it's a difficult task, though it should be a year round act. I spent time on Skype with some family members I couldn't be in person with. I also spent time on the phone with them as well. I don't find it sad at all. I'm pretty happy we got to connect at all. I know my children are doubly blessed because we have the opportunity to spend time with loved ones we wouldn't be able to without such technologies. What I find sad, is one person boasting about the physical time spent with family and in the same breath putting down anyone else who might not share that blessing. That's actually more than just sad, it's disheartening. Terrible example to set for others as well. Your little insult even seems aimed at people who don't have a home to share time with others in. That was really low. Yeah, they're not the sad ones, I can see that clearly. I, personally, am grateful for any time I get to spend with friends and family. Whether it's in person, on the phone, over the computer, or any other way possible. When so very few in this world have much to be grateful for to begin with, I can see my blessings and be very grateful for them. Rather than putting down others just because they too aren't blessed. I'm sorry you haven't ever had any kind of relationship with someone that put you in a position where spending time physically together wasn't always possible. I am sorry because you'll never understand what it can, and does, mean to those who have. You'll never understand the joy it can bring, either. I am however happy you also never have to experience the pain that some do, when they can't be physically near the ones they love. It can be a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone, at times. Millions of people the world over aren't able to be with the ones they love, whenever they want to, especially this time of year. I am grateful we have a means for them to spend what time they can, together. I am quite sure they don't find it sad. I know I don't. Jumps up and applauds loudly!!! I absolutely agree with everything you said, Tari and I couldn't have said it better. For the record, Amie, this is my first Christmas without my sister who died of pancreatic cancer, and my mother who died of heart failure and had I NOT had SL to come into and be with friends there, this would have been a horrible time for me. I think YOU need to grow up and learn what it's really like to lose someone you loved dearly and then tell me it's sad to do what so many people on SL do. *shakes her head, sadly and hugs Tari. Thank you for your wonderful words.

Persephone Emerald wrote: I was thinking this morning of what my Christmas was like this year & came to the conclusion that I enjoyed aspects of it in SL that I didn't have in RL. In RL, my roommate & I didn't really decorate much or exchange gifts. I didn't get cards or presents from distant relatives. No snow. No church service. My roommate & I took my 90 year old, senile mother to Denny's, then watched Christmas TV shows. Mom & I got each other stuffed dogs that respond to voice. We didn't fight with each other on Christmas day. We enjoyed each other's company. My boyfriend spent the weekend before Christmas with me, but we annoyed each other & weren't really happy most of that time. I gave small gifts to him & to my roommate, but got nothing back in return from them. In SL, I put snow on our land, which my roommate, her boyfriend & our renters enjoyed, as well as snowmen, an ice-skating rink & a snow angel. I put up a Christmas tree in my SL house & a wreath on my SL front door. I gave out a box full of goodies I made to friends & strangers. And I picked up a bunch of Christmas presents I've only begun to start opening. In SL I can have all the fun of dreaming over catalogs, then actually buy the stuff & get it immediately. I can easily decorate a lovely home & spacious land, then just as easily put all my decorations away. In SL I get to experience the joy of finding great bargains from the discount sections of high-end stores. In SL I can afford to give presents to everyone I know. I don't even feel like I need Christmas presents in RL, because I can have all the excitement of opening presents that a child has on Christmas morning when I open my SL Christmas gifts. I think the only thing I miss in SL is eating Christmas treats, but I can do that in RL while I'm at my laptop. I think for me the best Christmas was in SL. I have no family in RL and all my friends are married with children, even though I was invited to their houses for dinner, I declined this year. I actually enjoyed spending the holiday alone and in SL. I had decorated my house in SL and lots of snow everywhere! I was able to give presents to the ones that are close to me and also to my partner in SL, then the two of us spent a quiet evening, cuddling and talking. It was a wonderful Christmas. *smiles* Edit to remove double quoting.

steeljane42 wrote: So I actually had a lil break from SL for about a month and after I got back last week and untill now, there's a bug on the world map. Some sims just doesn't display on the world map at all, although there are green dots still and I can tele in just fine and mini map still displays everything. Some are private lands and some are on the mainland. I guess I'll just post a picture of how it looks. Here's the biggest one I found. http://postimage.org/gallery/ouosgly/8d2a8dba/ So I tried 3 different viewers ( 1 of those I didn't even had installed before ), cleared cache etc, still the same. I can't say it bothers me that much, but still would be nice if that bug was fixed. OMG, I THOUGHT you said buy....sighs....time for more coffee. *walks out of the room and shuts the door.

Gryphon Ronas wrote: Me too, I wear Standard Sizing, out of the box. No, it's not LL's standard. Maybe that's a good thing. Think "Ruth". That's LL's standard. If anyone thinks the Standard sizing was created out of thin air, arbitrarily by some creator, my suggestion is, "Less time posting, more time reading." I agree!

Madeline Blackbart wrote: I really haven't had this much of a problem with mesh 9 times outta ten a M fits my shape. Same here, I have never had to change my shape to get mesh clothing to fit. I don't wear anything but mesh anymore.

Pussycat Catnap wrote: Heart Brimmer wrote: Pussycat Catnap wrote: Its generally unwise to hire dancers in a club, and even less wise to visit a place with them. They are nothing but primma-donnas that go AFK on daceballs / dancepoles and then demand to be paid by -BOTH- the venue and the visitors and expect to be treated above the visitors and above the DJ, host, and owner. Worthless predators, the lot of them. And giving one the power to boot people out of your venue... really foolish. I was a dancer for the first 2 years in SL and believe me, I did NOT go AFK, did NOT use pre-made gestures and was definitely NOT a prima donna. I worked hard every shift I had and the tips showed that. The least amount of L's I made during a 2 hours shift was 5000L and the most I've made was close to 15,000L. So please do NOT lump all dancers into one category. Edited to fix a typo. How many of those clubs you worked in made profit as a result of your efforts? That was your only job, did you manage it, or just vampire leech off of them? Your tips only show you as a predator, unless your club made more. I hope I am wrong, and your club did earn from a result of your efforts. But it is not the trendline I am used to observing. Really??? WOW, just WOW! The club that I worked at did indeed make a profit off of me IF you had read what I wrote AFTER this post. As a matter of fact, the club I worked at took not 10% but 20% of my tips, so you do the math on what they raked in from me alone, when I was getting 5000L a night for 2 hours a night AND I worked 5 days a week, so yes they DID in fact make a profit from me. Good lord, prejudice much??????

Metalcoldreaper wrote: And heart would the staff members at that club ever say something like that to a paytron? who just wanted some equal treatment? Voice is enabled at this club and its not like i was demanding to have voice. Voice was not activated at the club I worked at, but I do know that having voice does indeed cause lag and all sorts of odd things happen, especially if the club is full. BUT, if a dancer had talked to a customer hatefully, I can assure you that she would have been called on the carpet and possibly could have been fired. I don't know the club that you were at, but they should NOT have told you in voice to turn it off. Some clubs just do not care about the customers. PERIOD. I am sorry you had that experience and the best advice I can give you is to not go back. Find another place and check to see what exactly was causing the issues with your voice. *smiles*

Metalcoldreaper wrote: I agree with heart, I have met several dancers of alot of types and they are all very nice. And if heart made 5,000$L per day and the clubs percentage rate was 10% the club would have made 500$L for her dancing alone. So there is a profit coming in. Oh believe me, they definitely made a profit off of me! LOL.

Pussycat Catnap wrote: Blaz Neuman wrote: A dancer in a club suddently decided my av was out of the rules (no animals, when my usual av is a man with a wolf's head and tail, not even a real furry)... I answered her "I'm just a man with a wolf mask on... do you ban masks?" She then switched to "your tail is causing lag" I answered "ok I give up, I'm leaving" and said in the local chat "Ok folks I have to go, appears that I can't have a tail " She ejected me before I had the time to tp. Its generally unwise to hire dancers in a club, and even less wise to visit a place with them. They are nothing but primma-donnas that go AFK on daceballs / dancepoles and then demand to be paid by -BOTH- the venue and the visitors and expect to be treated above the visitors and above the DJ, host, and owner. Worthless predators, the lot of them. And giving one the power to boot people out of your venue... really foolish. I was a dancer for the first 2 years in SL and believe me, I did NOT go AFK, did NOT use pre-made gestures and was definitely NOT a prima donna. I worked hard every shift I had and the tips showed that. The least amount of L's I made during a 2 hours shift was 5000L and the most I've made was close to 15,000L. So please do NOT lump all dancers into one category. Edited to fix a typo.

Count me........OUT!

Glad you got it fixed!

Perrie Juran wrote: There are a lot of people who don't like adulterous bisexual furry baptist skunks in SL. and i'm one of them! *winks*