takissam Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 (edited) There is a person that blames me at any person that i am with (when she see me) She send IM's to the person i am with and blame me with very bad words... What can i do for that? Edited January 28, 2018 by takissam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
3 Pamela Galli Posted February 6, 2018 Share Posted February 6, 2018 1 hour ago, PickleflufferButternut said: What should you do? Form a complete and readable sentence. Start there. Her native language is Greek, for crying out loud. I admire the level of English proficiency she has achieved -- no one but you had any trouble at all understanding her. Who do you think that says more about? 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
1 Dillon Levenque Posted January 29, 2018 Share Posted January 29, 2018 Takis, I took the liberty of looking at your profile. I believe your native tongue is Greek. If you seek Second Life places that share that language your choices are limited. I will recommend the same thing I always have: Ignore. Do not reply. Do not comment. Do not even admit it is happening. You are dealing with a griefer. There is only one way to do that. Pretend they don't exist for you. Ignore the person. You have not been in Second Life long enough for her to know you. Ignore. I hope this translates correctly. If you translated your post here yourself, your English is good enough to get by. Most of us understood. If you used a translator it is accurate enough. Καλή τύχη. That is supposed to be Greek for 'Good Luck'. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Skell Dagger Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 2 hours ago, takissam said: There is a person that blames me at any person that i am with (when she see me) I've highlighted the answer. In short: don't visit the places that you used to visit together. SL is a big place. Find some new hangouts. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Elora Lunasea Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 Mute is your friend here too 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 takissam Posted January 28, 2018 Author Share Posted January 28, 2018 Yes but when she see me with another person,she blame me at my new company.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 LittleMe Jewell Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 12 minutes ago, takissam said: Yes but when she see me with another person,she blame me at my new company.. Then stop going to the places that you normally go to and you won't run into her -- i.e. she will no longer see you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Fluffy Sharkfin Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 1 hour ago, takissam said: Yes but when she see me with another person,she blame me at my new company.. Just ignore her. Anyone who bases their opinion of you on the gossip of strangers rather than taking the time to get to know you and making up their own mind is a sheep and not worth socializing with in the first place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Talligurl Posted January 28, 2018 Share Posted January 28, 2018 Tell anyone you are going to spend time with about her, and have them block her to, That way she can scream all she wants and no one hears her. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 takissam Posted January 28, 2018 Author Share Posted January 28, 2018 (edited) Thank you all my friends for advices.. Edited January 28, 2018 by takissam 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Tex Monday Posted January 29, 2018 Share Posted January 29, 2018 12 hours ago, Elora Lunasea said: Mute is your friend here too 6 hours ago, Fluffy Sharkfin said: Just ignore her. Anyone who bases their opinion of you on the gossip of strangers rather than taking the time to get to know you and making up their own mind is a sheep and not worth socializing with in the first place. Ignoring and muting her won't work in terms of someone that she's with. I agree with Talli that if you happen to see her, warn your friend before this person has a chance to say anything. Or...find a good flamethrower. Yes, that will solve all your problems. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Fluffy Sharkfin Posted January 29, 2018 Share Posted January 29, 2018 2 hours ago, Tex Monday said: Ignoring and muting her won't work in terms of someone that she's with. I agree with Talli that if you happen to see her, warn your friend before this person has a chance to say anything. Or...find a good flamethrower. Yes, that will solve all your problems. I disagree. Attempting to preempt the back-stabbing of others by resorting to the same tactics runs the risk of making you look like a hypocrite and/or the instigator of all the drama. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Orwar Posted January 29, 2018 Share Posted January 29, 2018 This topic is starting to look a little bit like the one about neighbor's walls over at the General forum. I'm surprised no one so far has suggested communication. Try talking to this person, tell them how you feel about the situation - be diplomatic. Or, you know, tell them to go to Hell in seven languages. Whichever you prefer and believe most suitable to the situation. Griefers don't go away on their own accord for as long as their grief has an impact. Deal with it. Besides, as previously pointed out, muting and blacklisting someone doesn't stop them from talking to your friends or partners. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Syo Emerald Posted February 3, 2018 Share Posted February 3, 2018 On 29.1.2018 at 7:39 AM, Orwar said: Try talking to this person, tell them how you feel about the situation - be diplomatic. Terrible advice, if you deal with a drama enthusiast, chances are any form of attention will be fuel to their fire. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Love Zhaoying Posted February 3, 2018 Share Posted February 3, 2018 If she is still on your friend list, select “do not show my location” so she cannot stalk you. If you unfriend and block her, you won’t even see her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
0 Dillon Levenque Posted February 7, 2018 Share Posted February 7, 2018 22 hours ago, Pamela Galli said: Her native language is Greek, for crying out loud. I admire the level of English proficiency she has achieved -- no one but you had any trouble at all understanding her. Who do you think that says more about? Takissam (display name Takis) is actually a male avatar, as it happens. That has absolutely nothing to do with the relevance of your comment; I just thought I'd mention it. I completely agree with your point, of course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-17 PickleflufferButternut Posted February 6, 2018 Share Posted February 6, 2018 What should you do? Form a complete and readable sentence. Start there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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There is a person that blames me at any person that i am with (when she see me)
Edited by takissamShe send IM's to the person i am with and blame me with very bad words...
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