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  2. I personally like HB that are in a green location, however those ones are harder to get. Then there is the long parcel or short one. I had to try a few different ones to figure out what I liked best and even this one depends on location. Once you try a few locations you will figure out what is most important to you and what isn't. For example I prefer deeper water with my houseboat because I like an underground garden. Some don't care about that. This is something you will figure out as you go along.
  3. I agree, but its a hard lesson for some people to learn at times. It is not as always as easy done as said for some people. I try not to let things get to me too much emotionally here anymore either; but even I get caught up in things at times and then have to remind myself to step back and not let it ruin my time here. Its hard to do that sometimes.
  4. Being an escort, you are creating a fantasy for the person paying linden. Playing a character
  5. My point exactly so the only way to have a pleasant experience of SL or any other online game/virtual world is not to get carried away in to it.These are pixels, they don't get hurt and no matter what anyone does you should report/block/ignore them and continue with your activities at the safety and coziness of your home.Those agressive people simply don't matter for your real life.The less you interact with them the better.
  6. Do you Ladies have a preference location for a Houseboat. I will be back at the Houseboat hunting soon. Of course finding a spot that isn't too congested with people, etc would be awesome.
  7. Its wired. Mkay i will reboot it after dinner.
  8. Yes. The proper way to handle "gee, I like it rough, what should I do..." is to go visit a region themed for that RP where everyone is there seeking that... not to 'take it out on somebody' who is not a willing party to the kink.
  9. It's an unfortunate and wholly unjustifiable truism of the sex industry that it draws in people who seek the services for the purposes of having an outlet to be abusive to someone else. I'm not sure what can be done about it. When you're in an industry that has no legal protections, and in fact where it to occur 'in real life' has 'negative legal ramifications' as well as 'social villification'... you're kinda left exposed to unsavory thugs... Support your friends, try and get the offender barred from the locations he's using to commit abuse, but otherwise you're stuck with "move on" because the system is purposefully designed to not help you.
  10. hey everyone, about me: liana, 30, creole, likes to dance, chat, and flirt. rp is always an option but not a must. timezone is est (+3 slt) looking for: a few gigs that support my fashion addiction. i am open for hosting, dancing, modeling, escorting (text). adult environments are preferred but not a must if things vibe. also love to take pictures of people but i am by no means a pro but willing to learn.
  11. though you cant be directly physically hurt you can be physically hurt its not just emotional or mental or psychological. the emotional/mental abuse can cause physical symptoms in a person such as anxiety or depression or duress or feelings and beliefs of being worthless or of little value and can cause low self esteem because they dont see their avatar as anything different but an extension of themselves. which can lead a whole host of physical problems for that person. the problem is not everyone can simply disassociate themselves from their avatar like some other people can and do. its not all just a head game to some people. It has very real physical effects on them, lack of sleep, lack of appetite, self isolation because how a person was made to feel and think. can lead to severe depression or even suicidal thoughts. trust me I know.. personally...
  12. Addams - Lingerie in Petite package from Maitreya; Skirt outfit titled 'Philomena' [BB] - Nipple rings sized for Lara Petite (orig; puffy; hard) (on Marketplace) Cynful - Sun Kissed bikini @ C88 Erratic - group gift; crop top titled 'Liz' S&P - June shirt/bottom combo @ C88 -- Moon Amore has an experimental Lara Petite that might work for some @ C88 - it didn't fit me (I was slightly poking through the top).
  13. I understand what you are saying but on the other hand it isn't the same. There's only psychological pressure because people don't treat it for what it is. A game that gives you multiple options to avoid situations like this. If this happened in RL then that guy would now need a cosmetic dental restoration because RL escorts do have a proper guy nearby who takes cares of things like these when needed. It is rather interesting though how people react just to have some pixelsex/whatever.I am certain that guy has many pent up emotions.
  14. Attached through script, yes. There is an invisible button in the hud that hides the attachment. The owners claim they hide and show it and it still stays invisible to the other user.
  15. doesn't matter.. it should not have been done or tried by the other person without first asking if it was ok. no one has the right to be a jerk just because they want to and expect others to just tolerate it or excuse it away or validate that kind of behavior ever. the fact that you are trying to defend it makes me think you would do the same thing to someone and if so that is totally disgusting... people who think its ok to ignore or push or break limits or dont need consent should be banned form sl entirely. such kinds of behavior should not be tolerated or accepted ever. It should not be normalized or made the run of the mill behavior... narcissistic misogynistic abusive behaviors should not be catered too.
  16. That is not always an option for some people. For some people SL is just the same as RL it is not a game or just role play or just fantasy. they can be really hurt or abused and some people like to feed off of people like that. I know from my own personal experience and how I first believed and thought about things here. How I was told to just go with it, to allow it, to just deal with it. That its not real.. you cant be hurt... total bs....That tp'ing out was cheating, that logging out was the sign or being weak and worthless or a coward and that they would tell everyone how untrustworthy you were for doing so. It can be emotionally hurtful to some people. Its takes a while for some to not let their emotions be totally involved all the time and some never can disassociate on that level. that their avatar is and extension of themselves with just a different look and no other differences.
  17. I disagree. She is not so broken up that she is giving the linden back.
  18. True, true. It's just a little frustrating to see so few options for male clothing that isn't abnormally oversexualized or cobbled together from the least-oversexualized feminine clothing you can find. It seems like every time I find a decent androgynous-leaning outfit it lacks mod options.
  19. Reboot your router. I started having the same issues last year. Now I have to reboot mine within or at 5 days. It's kind of a pain to do, but it's remedied the problem.
  20. Here's the thing-it doesn't matter if they were getting paid, it doesn't matter that you can log out, report people, whatever. What matters is that it's not OK to disrespect/mistreat people. Abusive behavior is serious whether it's physical or done via chat. Emotional trauma is just as valid as physical. Both have a detrimental effect on the person being abused. Nobody should wave off how this person treated them in any way, shape or form. As far as the 'maybe they like it rough' comment it's attitudes like that that end up normalizing abusive behavior. The number one thing people should ALWAYS remember when engaging in ANY kind of roleplay with others is that CONSENT IS KEY. Respect for consent should be primary when you're roleplaying or doing anything with others, really but especially anything involving sex.
  21. No excuse for that behavior if she told him no or to stop. No one has the right to be abusive or disrespectful ever, no matter if they try and excuse it off as they like rough sex or its their kink or its their fetish. That does not make it automatically acceptable for them to behave in that manner ever. no consent.. no go.. no do.. anyone that does is just a jerk at that point. and paying for an escort does not mean automatic consent to all behaviors by that other individual ever. consent and limits still have to be respected at all times. no one has any special rights or privileges on how they can treat anyone here ever.
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  23. Yes, SSP2001 etc. were I think first posted about on May 3. https://community.secondlife.com/forums/topic/426577-ssp/page/175/?tab=comments#comment-2108222 They haven't changed one bit, to my eyes. I cannot locate SSP9, 379, etc., though I've clicked around where I think they SHOULD be. They are not findable by typing in their names. I see SSP1, SSP605, and the upper fringe of QA regions, but not those you mention as possibly under blue prims. Can you point out where they are? /me glances around Belli, notes incremental progress to SSPE regions happily, thinks maybe nothing released today, yawns, and goes off to watch Lincoln Project videos.
  24. not my usual set up type picture, but I hadn't seen another miles last name in my 13 yrs of SL till I came across @Orfeu Miles on the forums! Hung out today in-world and had to capture cause I couldn't believe it lol 😋
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