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Be yourself, hang out in places that interest you, have fun, be sociable and try not to act like you are "looking" or desperate as that will chase potential people away.   And remember that there is nothing wrong iwth having hight standards.  If you find someone interesting to you who is interested in you too , don't rush into things fast.  Take your time and get to know them for a while first.  The most successful relationships always start out as friends first.

I'm convinced that the you find the "best" ones that way.

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Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put out of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it.

So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you.

 

If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy:

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Ren Toxx wrote:

Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put
out
of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it.

So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you.

 

If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy:

This is some of the best advice I've ever read.

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Ariel Vuissent wrote:

What makes emo/goth guys "your type?" The way they dress, the way they look, the way they act? Remember that just because someone seems/looks emo/goth in SL, doesn't mean they look and act the same way in RL. Are you looking for love with another avatar, or another person?

If you're just looking for someone to look like a cute couple with, you could always make an alt account & be your own emo bf.

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morgannalyn wrote:

 ♥ps and wont play games.

p.s.

Some people purposely play games and mess around with people's heads.  Some people don't, but get accused of it anyway when a relationship sours.  Quite frankly, after those two categories are accounted for, there are not many people left in the third, especially when you narrow the field further to a virtual world.

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Ren Toxx wrote:

Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put
out
of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it.

So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you.

 

If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy:

This is somewhat true, but what if you want to role play a certain time era in SL for example, then you do kind of need to look the part even though one or the other partner may not like the particular dress style for the role play, but  if they do love each other then doesn't matter what they wear, or they can compromise from time to time.   But, the OP may want a role play type of SL and SL is also a MMORPG.  So, her asking for what she is looking for doesn't seem out of sorts to me. 

To the OP, best of luck! 

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However, if the OP is into girls also, we might suggest a former poster with the initials D.A. as a possible partner for you.

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Mayalily wrote: “But, the OP may want a role play type of SL...”

In which case she'd have specified that she wanted a role play partner, and probably wouldn't have put so much emphasis in his treating her OK, being sensitive, not playing games, etc... stuff usually reserved for people who kinda truly care for the other person and don't treat her as a disposable rp character.

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morgannalyn wrote:

im looking for something meaningful

Perhaps meaning isn't something you look for and find, but something that you create and make for yourself. Don't look for the perfect love, create the perfect love. Those that long for love are often highly selective. Nobody meets their very high requirements. If you want love, consider being less selective and more loving. 

In which grain of sand is the Buddha? The Buddha is in every grain of sand. And so it is with love.

 

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