morgannalyn Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 i want a gothic or emo bf who is sensitive and will treat me right and thinks looks dont matter ♥ps and wont play games. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UncommonTruth Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Do looks not matter, or do they need to look gothic or emo? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgannalyn Posted October 11, 2011 Author Share Posted October 11, 2011 its my type the emo or goth does not need to be sexy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kylie Jaxxon Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 I just want a boyfriend, period...:matte-motes-bashful: :matte-motes-tongue: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgannalyn Posted October 11, 2011 Author Share Posted October 11, 2011 i want love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kylie Jaxxon Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 morgannalyn wrote: i want love There's an old country western song..."Looking for love in all the wrong places." I'm not saying you can't find it here, but be very careful. Good luck to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MuffinUnsane1488303563 Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 If you want love, it will take time. Just keep traveling over the grid and see what happens. They may or may not be emo/goth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgannalyn Posted October 11, 2011 Author Share Posted October 11, 2011 ty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amethyst Jetaime Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Be yourself, hang out in places that interest you, have fun, be sociable and try not to act like you are "looking" or desperate as that will chase potential people away. And remember that there is nothing wrong iwth having hight standards. If you find someone interesting to you who is interested in you too , don't rush into things fast. Take your time and get to know them for a while first. The most successful relationships always start out as friends first. I'm convinced that the you find the "best" ones that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valerie Inshan Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 morgannalyn wrote: i want love So do I. :smileytongue: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ren Toxx Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put out of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it. So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you. If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stella Carver Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Ren Toxx wrote: Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put out of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it. So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you. If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy: This is some of the best advice I've ever read. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ariel Vuissent Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 What makes emo/goth guys "your type?" The way they dress, the way they look, the way they act? Remember that just because someone seems/looks emo/goth in SL, doesn't mean they look and act the same way in RL. Are you looking for love with another avatar, or another person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randall Ahren Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Romantic love doesn't last. It's like heroin. Makes you feel great and gets you addicted, but leaves you in great pain when you try to kick it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Stella Carver Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Ariel Vuissent wrote: What makes emo/goth guys "your type?" The way they dress, the way they look, the way they act? Remember that just because someone seems/looks emo/goth in SL, doesn't mean they look and act the same way in RL. Are you looking for love with another avatar, or another person? If you're just looking for someone to look like a cute couple with, you could always make an alt account & be your own emo bf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeHere Absent Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Goth and emo are attitudes and lifestyles as much as they are fashions, right? So why not hang out in goth and emo clubs? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeHere Absent Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 morgannalyn wrote: ♥ps and wont play games. p.s. Some people purposely play games and mess around with people's heads. Some people don't, but get accused of it anyway when a relationship sours. Quite frankly, after those two categories are accounted for, there are not many people left in the third, especially when you narrow the field further to a virtual world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
UncommonTruth Posted October 11, 2011 Share Posted October 11, 2011 Lol. Well put. I'll add that romance is nice, as long as you dont confuse it with love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mayalily Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Ren Toxx wrote: Looks in SL can so easily be changed... not only you can put into whatever appearance with just a click or two... you can also put out of that appearance just as easily, if you're not really comfortable with it. So, when you find a seemingly nice candidate, give him emo/goth skins, emo/goth hairs, emo/goth eyes, emo/goth clothing, emo/goth jewellery, etc., and tell him that he must wear all that stuff whenever he's with you. If he refuses, there you have a potentially good man :smileyhappy: This is somewhat true, but what if you want to role play a certain time era in SL for example, then you do kind of need to look the part even though one or the other partner may not like the particular dress style for the role play, but if they do love each other then doesn't matter what they wear, or they can compromise from time to time. But, the OP may want a role play type of SL and SL is also a MMORPG. So, her asking for what she is looking for doesn't seem out of sorts to me. To the OP, best of luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RudolphUkka Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Contact me inworld and I will send you a * notecard that lets you * know where you are in the * gf queue. *** Rudi The Visigoth *** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Perrie Juran Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 RudolphUkka wrote: Contact me inworld and I will send you a * notecard that lets you * know where you are in the * gf queue. *** Rudi The Visigoth *** It just *** occurred to me that ****** Rudi may ****** well be the ***** most ************** emo personage in this ********* forum ----------------------------------- However, if the OP is into girls also, we might suggest a former poster with the initials D.A. as a possible partner for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ren Toxx Posted October 12, 2011 Share Posted October 12, 2011 Mayalily wrote: “But, the OP may want a role play type of SL...” In which case she'd have specified that she wanted a role play partner, and probably wouldn't have put so much emphasis in his treating her OK, being sensitive, not playing games, etc... stuff usually reserved for people who kinda truly care for the other person and don't treat her as a disposable rp character. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgannalyn Posted October 12, 2011 Author Share Posted October 12, 2011 im looking for something meaningful Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Randall Ahren Posted October 13, 2011 Share Posted October 13, 2011 morgannalyn wrote: im looking for something meaningful Perhaps meaning isn't something you look for and find, but something that you create and make for yourself. Don't look for the perfect love, create the perfect love. Those that long for love are often highly selective. Nobody meets their very high requirements. If you want love, consider being less selective and more loving. In which grain of sand is the Buddha? The Buddha is in every grain of sand. And so it is with love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
morgannalyn Posted October 13, 2011 Author Share Posted October 13, 2011 ok i will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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