Venus Petrov

If you've been to Rez and Ambrosia, you know that management frowns upon and will eject anyone who starts gesturebating. DJ's for AEG must interact with patrons on mic and some are better at doing so than others. I worked for Ambrosia for seven years and it's evolved (e.g., gestures used to be accepted). You sound ambivalent about DJ'ing so I would recommend not doing it now. Find a club or clubs you enjoy. Observe and talk to the DJ (preferably after they finish their set). Check the club website if there is one to see if they are staffed 24/7 or something less than that. Only play music you enjoy. I heard a DJ spinning tracks they hated and they shared their feelings with patrons. People don't go to clubs to hear the DJ complain. Anyway, good luck with whatever you do.

Roche Runo wrote: I agree Though i am a little different I have only one rule listed. We expect you act responsibly. Most people do. Listting a bunch of rules as no bearing on the good people. The people who dont wont listen to the rules anyway. anyone doing the latter i eject immediantly so they know i mean business. If they come back and conintue i ban Of course i make mistakes and as soon as it is brought to my attention. You don't know how many people don't understand that one.

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Can you also please remember to use the spell check function on a post before hitting 'Post'? Thank you in advance.

I think every club should have rules that other staff can use when assessing complaints like this. You cannot be there 24/7 to police everything. Stick to the rules and be fair. Rules should be in the covenant, too, so everyone can see/read them.

Welcome back, Rhonda. Vintage clothes, and hair, skin...well, you get the idea. Just take your time scoping things out. Visit a few of the events (Collabor88, Fameshed, Chapter Four, Shiny Shabby, etc) where you can pick up a wide variety of goods, including hair, skin, etc.

Eat flowers? What kind? And, you don't fit the requirements?

I despair when a new resident joins SL and does not feel inclined to explore (in wonder, amazement and sometimes disgust) the world. You will learn things as you go along. It may take many months to learn some things. For some things, you may need (mostly free) classes offered inworld. Just enjoy the experience. Meet friends if you care to do that, learn to build and/or script or to DJ (as I did). Shop until you drop. Rent and own land. The possibilities are endless.

CheriColette wrote: Roche Runo wrote: As a former male escort myself maybe i can enlighten you The male escorts job is to entertain you. To be there for your every whim without question. You set the fantasy (and sometime where) Want a cop? A fireman? A Cowboy? and best of all no string attached. And it isnt just sex. There is coversation, laughter and some times we are just asked to hold them. Some of the payment goes to club where the escort works. ANd man the tips are usaylly in the 1000's But tipping is option hope i anwered your question I have one question about the tipping... so if its optional, can a guy work and not get paid at all? That seems tough. I think the answer is in the bolded text above.

Muletta wrote: Venus Petrov wrote: Muletta wrote: Venus Petrov wrote: I think the 'service' is negotiable. Perhaps the client wants a bit of small talk in a warm embrace, nothing more. Well, if so, it makes it even more difficult to understand for me, sorry...Because the paying woman can not be ignorant about, that the receiver of her small talk, is only thinking about the money he is earning, while he is only pretending some genuine interest in her welfare and her thoughts... A wise woman is not so foolish to expect that the service provider has a genuine interest in her welfare and thoughts. She is paying him for his time, nothing else. Yes, but still I think it must be a kind of empty feeling for her, to pay a male escort for listening to her, instead of consulting a therapist, a vicar, or to get some real caring friends to talk to....But okay, if the listening is a part of a foreplay to the sexual act, I guess a vicar is a bad idea, after all... 'Warm embrace' does not mean 'sexual act' nor is it necessarily 'foreplay'.

I believe the OP said the hat kills it for them (I assume they mean the hat is attached to the hair as many hats are). I see no separate credit for the hat. Plus they wrote they have the hair in the photo.

Muletta wrote: Venus Petrov wrote: I think the 'service' is negotiable. Perhaps the client wants a bit of small talk in a warm embrace, nothing more. Well, if so, it makes it even more difficult to understand for me, sorry...Because the paying woman can not be ignorant about, that the receiver of her small talk, is only thinking about the money he is earning, while he is only pretending some genuine interest in her welfare and her thoughts... A wise woman is not so foolish to expect that the service provider has a genuine interest in her welfare and thoughts. She is paying him for his time, nothing else.

Luxmai wrote: Hello, I like how this might be one of the few comnuities in the interent where is the age average is somewhat high. Is there any study or some estiamtion about the age average in SL? if there is non what do you think it is from your experince? I haven't visited many other like 'communities'. There are residents who are over 40 and act like they are 12. There are some residents who are under 16 and act like they are 35 (most can be found in adult communities luring unsuspecting RL adults into pixel relationships with minors). As a side note, I wish the spell check here would not highlight all the misspellings in the quoted text.

There *are* Answers Fora in four languages other than English. Admittedly that will not cover all possibilities in SL but it will cover quite a few.

Thanks for that link, Theresa.

You might check Pulse skins for the skin.

Muletta wrote: Curiously enough, I do not understand either, why a woman would pay an SL-male-avatar for only 15 - 30 minutes of "service".... What happened to the generally claim about women needs dinner, romance, sweet words in the ear and trust, before they jump on the poseballs? - I mean, if women only want a quicky, lasting only 15 - 30 minutes, why pay for it? it would be much more easy for me to understand, if they pay for a really great long evening, with an attentive and handsome man, whom they don't need to get involved with, after the meeting….But 15-30 minutes with payment? I still don’t see the point, sorry. I think the 'service' is negotiable. Perhaps the client wants a bit of small talk in a warm embrace, nothing more.

Yes, both male and female escorts exist. If you suggest that someone with a 'free offer' has the same level of wordsmithing ability as an experienced escort, I suggest you may be wrong.

The Forum will help those who first help themselves. If you don't see any energy expended by the questioner despite several attempts at helping, why continue banging your head against a wall?

Perrie, I think that your last five lines may fall on deaf ears (or blind eyes..whichever). I've posted at least a couple of comments in different threads with similar suggestion. Oh...well.

Rufferto wrote: I'm running four avis right now - three because I wanted to save on tier while I was in my "I want to be a real estate mogul" phase, and one for when I wanted to be incognito, but now I find that each seems to have developed different quirks. Maybe I'm just going crazy. There are meds for that :matte-motes-bored:

I don't know of any way to achieve what you seek. Have you asked the inworld Firestorm Support Group? They're available 24/7.

If you use the Firestorm viewer, you don't need a HUD because the viewer comes with an AO built in. All you need to do is load up your sits, stands, etc and go. No notecard necessary! You can use it for dances and poses as well. Using the Firestorm AO also reduces lag since no HUD is involved.

If you move to a private region, make sure you check the covenant with regards to script usage and breedables. I see some regions where breedables are acceptable but they are required to turn off the scripts that make them move about and otherwise cause lag.