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  1. CaerolleClaudel
    That whole list from the first page or two seemed pure incel to me.
  2. CaerolleClaudel
    When I was in SL, the very first word in my profile was 'Lesbian' followed by (IIRC) 'not interesting in men,' and yet I would have men propositioning me. I would ask them if they read my profile but of course not. And of course they almost always got really angry at me, as is no one using a female avatar in SL should be allowed to refuse a man.
  3. CaerolleClaudel
    I guess we can have unrealistic expectations too, but once again I am so glad I am a lesbian.
  4. CaerolleClaudel
    As in another area, in this case men can certainly be replaced with a machine: https://www.amazon.com/KUHN-RIKON-Strain-Free-Gripper-Bottles/dp/B000CO256G?source=ps-sl-shoppingads-lpcontext&ref_=fplfs&psc=1&smid=ATVPDKIKX0DER
  5. CaerolleClaudel
    🤷🏻‍♀️ Well, if that works for you, great!! I sometimes liked just using an alt and not having to make conversation or to not have to futilely wait forever for someone to ask me to dance, but in general it felt very lonely and just reinforced that I did not have a special someone to go dancing with. So, I guess I was projecting, sorry! Way OT, but I would have enjoyed partner dancing far more if SL had not been so laggy or whatever and let the two people dancing constantly get out of sync. Having spent 13 years in SL before I finally age up on it, I really doubt it though.
  6. CaerolleClaudel
    #1 is just sad. I used to be in that situation a lot, though, as I had no one to slow dance with most of the time. In that situation though, I just used an alt.
  7. CaerolleClaudel
    Lol, yeah, right. 🙄😆😆
  8. CaerolleClaudel
    Me, I prefer All Hallow’s Eve. But I’m weird that way. And every other way besides.
  9. CaerolleClaudel
    Just now discovered this thread, so love it!! Really my vibe in so many ways! Thanks for the photos! ❤️
  10. CaerolleClaudel
    Yours is far better, but reminds me of one I did a long time ago: I called it Hell. Not as a literal place, but as my mental and emotional state. Though I guess I should not explain anything beyond the title? 🤔
  11. CaerolleClaudel
    Turns out all you can see is her hair and one arm (everything of me though). Not as bad as I thought. Still wrong though.
  12. CaerolleClaudel
    Not that I ever have tried to lay claim to being a decent human being (in fact, I always tell people I have a heart as black as tar and warn them off), but I am guilty of something like that. I cannot remember the details, perhaps it was before I gave in and spent the money to set up a mesh alt, but when I was doing SL photography I had fairly no success in finding models to pair with me on a series I was doing that required two naked people (I also could never find modeling work, either, but that is a different story I suppose). I went to an AFK site and found someone I liked, and used her to model with me. I did not show her face, but I did still use her and defs ATA. I did pay her, of course, and tipped her well, but she did not give permission. I think I did IM her, but never heard from her. However, I for sure did not use that pic for commercial purposes, and probably only 3 people ever even saw it. Morally was still wrong just the same.
  13. CaerolleClaudel
    That’s fair! Sorry if I put you on the spot. I feel that you likely have a much better idea about Forum regulars than you would with someone like me whose participation is extremely episodic, lol.
  14. CaerolleClaudel
    My take is that the question was a sincere one based on a genuine feeling that I will not name, whether I am right or wrong, as the OP did not state the feelings behind the question (IIRC). However, if nothing else I love the take that @Scylla Rhiadra had on the more generalized context (if I understand her correctly) of gender essentialism and how it is expressed, read, and policed. FWIW
  15. CaerolleClaudel
    I meant me, not anyone else, lol. I do not know that I have interacted with you enough for you to have a read, though. But if you do, would love to hear it here or in DM. I am not really emotionally invested in the answer, so don’t worry. Just bemused, lol. And do not feel pressured to answer, of course!! If you would rather not, again, not at all emotionally invested in whether you do or not. Just curious. 🤗
  16. CaerolleClaudel
    Perhaps I should just use a RL photo? Or is that frowned on, or even forbidden??? 🤔
  17. CaerolleClaudel
    When I was actively in-world, I knew a lot of women who claimed they could tell with 99% accuracy when women avis were fronted by men. Once-upon-a-time I would have mostly agreed with them, esp at the places I frequented. The biggest clue: always wanted...hmmm, probably cannot say it here, do not want to get the thread locked on you guys. Anyone who is curious is free to DM me though...
  18. CaerolleClaudel
    Guesses on request? And wow, my photo looks soooo tired compared with the wired ones I see people using now!! 😳
  19. CaerolleClaudel
    Wow, I guess people who do not directly interact with me IRL tend to think of me as a man, lol. I love the crap outta emojis (and emoticons if emojis are not available, boo hiss), and even use them in my emails at work. 😄😄😄 (Oh no, just confirmed I am a DUDE!! *giggles*) NOTE: J-O-K-I-N-G OF COURSE!! I know what you mean, just funny wrt me, to me.
  20. CaerolleClaudel
    I have found that usually I do not want to know much about famous people I admire. Literary and visual artists are mostly horrible people, IME and IMO….
  21. CaerolleClaudel
    Yes, the problem is that the person would probably have to be one of the Forum icons, not some nobody like me with no friends lol. PET PEEVE: I have spent a fair amount of time trying to find Discord servers of interest to me with absolutely zero success. The one server on which I am active belongs to an author I follow. I love it a lot, but out of the billions of servers it is the only one I frequent.
  22. CaerolleClaudel
    PET PEEVE: I do not know what that is like and am too lazy to go look. Would you might just a short summary of what it is like?
  23. CaerolleClaudel
    Sorry for hijacking your other post, I wondered if I was banned and was testing that. Probably getting to the end of this time back on the Forums, lol. I dunno, I do have a lot of places I liked to go in the past, even with introvert friends or even by myself. I just got used to going to see movies by myself (not a fan of Hollywood movies, prefer indie/small/art films) and out to eat at non-Midwestern restaurants (I find ‘ethnic’ to be a bad term, but have never found a better one…). My mental health has just gotten far worse over the last couple years and I have no motivation for much of anything except reading and the internet. Some of the reason I am posting here now is to get a little social interaction, but honestly I far prefer interacting in human space. I can be really extroverted one-on-one. More than two other people is far too much though. I guess I like online discussions because I can have 1:1 with individual people even on a site that has a lot of people (such as here or Discord). However, the biggest reason is that I am finding some sub-threads here quite interesting, and am enjoying the absence of personal attacks. One outcome of whatever LL is doing with the forum now, I suppose, lol.
  24. CaerolleClaudel
    Apparently all my posts are blocked…was just trying to ask for specific book from Scylla’s rec and no matter what I did it would not go through, kept going to hidden. As far as I know there were no bad words or nothing vulgar in it… PET PEEVE: This nonsense is why I left the Forums the last time.
  25. CaerolleClaudel
    Wow, tried to ask which book to start with, and no matter what I do it goes to hidden. My biggest PET PEEVE, the same reason I left the Forums in the past, is that kind of stuff. Ridiculous. I guess I will see if this gets through. Perhaps I am banned…
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