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Kathlen Onyx

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  1. 7 minutes ago, Silent Mistwalker said:

    I will say that if I had not had a few years experience with a 3d virtual world prior to joining SL, I would never had stayed in SL. The difference in learning curves is huge with SL's curve being the largest/longest/whatever. Much of the SL experience is overly complicated for most people.

    It's the people that make it complicated. I agree that there is a certain learning curve but people come here expecting to know everything and do everything immediately. They want to do it ALL RIGHT NOW. In that sense then they will find it complicated but if they learn as they go and enjoy it then it really is no more complicated to get started than any other game - social platform. 

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  2. 2 hours ago, Nanuk Fyrewik said:

    Thank you all. Yes, I did get a Linden Home. I literally read everything I could get my hands on before I joined just so I wouldn't be clueless.

    I've deleted my account now so no need to keep replying, but I thank you and appreciate that you've replied.

    SL is the most toxic environment it's ever been my misfortune to experience, I'm sorry to say.

    You signed up for SL, got premium AND a linden house, spent $L on your avatar and because you can't get into a few sims you just delete everything on a whim and say THIS is the most toxic environment you have experienced? Do you live in the Emerald City? To be honest...you'd never survive in SL with that attitude cause not being able to get into a couple of sims before you are 30 days old will be the least of your worries.  Perhaps you didn't read enough about SL before you joined.  You are FIVE days old. Surely you can find something to keep busy with while waiting for the 30 days to pass. Go shopping, decorate your linden home...Right now I'm at a club where there is a one day old avatar and he's having a blast. So quit whining, pull up your big girls panties and go find something fun to do.

     

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  3. 2 hours ago, Orwar said:

       An avid gamer would recognise that Second Life is not a high-performance video game, but a virtual world full of extremely poorly optimised assets created by hobbyists. That's also the beauty of SL - if you want something prettier for the water, go make it.

    Yet everyone wants new features and the old features fixed? Do you think that LL is going to fix these things with the customer in mind that lives out in the boondocks, still on dial up who is unwilling to upgrade their computer or internet speed? No, they are going to add new features and fix old features according to the technology that is out today.  I don't think it's a out of reasonable request to see if the water can be optimized to look better. Surely it's possible. and surely this person is a customer just like the person unwilling to upgrade their PC.

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  4. 2 minutes ago, Doris Johnsky said:

    A lot of people can't afford or are unwilling to purchase a gaming platform PC just to run SL. 

    A lot of people can't afford a lot of things. That doesn't mean that technology should be stifled in a game or social platform or whatever you want to call it.  If people are unwilling to keep up with technology perhaps they should be playing other things rather than SL.

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  5. 2 hours ago, Kimmi Zehetbauer said:

    Sometimes that function does cause drama.

    OMG! Does it ever. I was renting a multi scene skybox and the person I was "kinda" seeing at the time rented there as well. I was working on my inventory and unchecked everyone so I'd appear offline. Of course he could see me on the radar and I never even thought about that.  I got a very curt IM stating that "I see you have been online all day yet you are not showing as available. I don't play games like that so goodbye" when he could have just have easily sent me an IM and said "hey you! Whatcha doing?" and I'd have told him.

    LOL! Good riddance. 

  6. 2 minutes ago, Alwin Alcott said:

    many are ... many aren't,... many sometimes.. last two can use the  offline sign to show that.

    Is that what that is for? opps! I IM anyone I'd like to talk to whether they show online or not. Personally I think it's a useless setting. Most people I see have it turned off.

  7. There are HUDS that show if someone is online whether or not they have hidden their status, have you blocked or have turned off "show my friends online" It will also tell you whether or not the person is in the same region as you are.

    2 hours ago, MartinaVaslovik said:

    I was just at Fogbound, where a man IM'd me and his profile was marked Offline. I told him so, he said he was unaware of this, and he claimed mine was too. Well it wasn't when I looked at it, and I've never done that, so is there some kind of bug about this?

    I'm pretty sure he knew he was marked offline but just pretending to be surprised.  You do know that Fogbound is one of the premier places to pick up people right. I get IM'd before my feet even touch the ground.

  8. 2 hours ago, norajulian said:

    Question: Does the dream builder get to live on the region, if their dream is a home?

    I’m asking because this really comes across as a way to fenangle some landscaping out of somebody with relative talent, with no intention of payment. This could be why you’ve not gotten a response. 
     

    What is to say that you won’t just kick them to the curb as soon as they finish? 

    Exactly what I was thinking

  9. On 6/27/2021 at 3:52 PM, pinkshadow1 said:

    yep AND NOTHING I GOT NO JOB AT ALL AND NO MONEY stop asking me this questions

     

     

    5 hours ago, SarahKale said:

    she is already hired by me. i dont why she is looking for a job when she has one

    Maybe she forgot? Hope she shows up for work!

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  10. 12 hours ago, Diana Tyran said:

    who AREN'T my friends that I have regularly seen in other sims? That makes 0 sense.

    This makes 0 sense. Perhaps you'd like to share an image of one of these emails so we can see what it looks like. With all the personal info redacted of course.

    What email address is this coming from? You said from Facebook but what is the email address the are being sent from?

  11. 8 hours ago, pinkshadow1 said:

    yep AND NOTHING I GOT NO JOB AT ALL AND NO MONEY stop asking me this questions

     

    Is that how you are going to answer when they ask you interview questions? I mean they aren't just going to look at you and say "oh you want  a job? You're hired"! So maybe get used to answering the same question over and over and over and over. :)

    You might try answering like this:

    Yes and I have found nothing. I don't have a job or any money. Please stop asking me these questions.

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  12. 5 minutes ago, ClaryDorrit said:

    People laugh , People make silly face that is them that is their own way of understanding they may not  have tried it so let it be can't beat them join them. 

    Hurry and log out of this account and into the other so you can reply.

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  13. 1 hour ago, ClaryDorrit said:

    Do what you want to feel but take it slow let things flow. This your journey only you are in charge of that.

    Educate yourself in ways that you can be independent for yourself and not have to rely on anyone.

    They have many classes in sl discussion with training you can take in sl.

    Learn to build . Making mesh , Tattoo's , Bom things . Classic Clothing , Alpha layers maker .  shape maker , Learn to be landscaper , Photographer , decorator  , Scripter.

    Some role play sims do have babysitting , Supermarket employees. But good to look up some role play sims get to know people get friendly  with the community

    Really it's up to you what you want to do but it's good to advance oneself  Master your Journey do little ground work.  Practice journaling, write down goals of the career path you like to do or pursue , Practice Mindfulness , Self care and self love , Read , Watch videos , Read and learn , Practice makes perfect.  Knowing one's perfect sl is like first life sl so theirs real feelings so do things that are going to make you happy not just because others doing it find your way find your glory that enlighten you. 

    Skill Gaming

    Fishing

    Trivia Questions

    Part time Job in first life

    Live Singer

    Dj

    Host

    Customer Service

    Discussion meetings topics host

    Gacha reseller

    Blogger

    Part time Job in first life

    Take a class in first life or sl advance your education.

    Do some choirs - Mow lawns - Home and garden

    Clean  Residents homes 

    Organization specialist - With inventory - sorting things. 

    Meditation & Yoga instituter in role play

    Self-care  SL Coach

    Fashion Advice Instructor

    Feng Shui Home and Garden Decorator specialist

    Journalism work book class instructor

    Sailing Instructor

    Tour Guide Instructor

    Building  Instructor

    Etiquette Instructor

    SL Gym instructor

    Texture maker instructor

    Tiny Houses Living instructor

    Mindfulness SL Teacher

    Make Goals Teacher.

    Dance instructor

    Singing Coach instructor

    Small Garden instructor

    Video maker instructor

    Intelligent Lifestyle  instructor

    Intelligent Communication  instructor

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    1 hour ago, RiceStevens said:

    Organization specialist meant someone show's someone how and gives advice on how to organize they can show in a video.  Know one should ever give out their log in information it did even say anything of this. Their are people that do give advice on how to organize they just give advice or share on discord in share screen.

    Clary put together very intelligent information that is used in first life also used in second life not talked of but good she shared things things. I don't see that their anything to laugh about seems a bit childish.  Not for everyone nothing being forced this most intelligent I seen someone share in long time. Make fun of someone for being real that is really kindergarten baby stuff. 

     

     

    14 minutes ago, EmzaRose said:

     People judging a book by its cover but not taking time to get to know the person but only pointing fingers before anything. We are all adults here better to love and help someone then try to criticize someone looking for work. Do you act like this in the world really you would be asked to leave with this behavior if was in world.  We should be showing good input and encouragement of love and support as a genuine person.  Being rude will only scare people away .  Judging others and comparing reflection of  own self  insecurities you rather bully someone but not really face the mirror own problems I hope you get help and some counseling and forgive yourself learn to love yourself so you can love others respect is big thing.  Everyone has story why they are here know one's perfect second life place to have fun get away from real but do real things in it also.  Buddhism is a philosophy of life nothing shared or account looks satanic, this only freewill of the universe not everyone is religious for each and your own.  

     

     

     

    What is interesting is that all three of these posts are from new avatars on the forum that have nothing in their profile in-world and are 1-4 months old.  I don't really think that is a coincidence that they were posted within an hour of each other.  Things that make you go hmmmm...or is that another thread?

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  14. No one needs a babysitter for pretend babies. They don't eat, sleep, poop, cry, or hurt themselves.  They don't DO anything. They were created for the owner of the babies to RP with them. When they log off they sit either in their inventory or rezzed out and don't need anyone taking care of them.

    BUT If you'd like to RP babysitting your own babies then you can buy them..yeah, yeah you have no money. 

    You might as well ask people to pay you L's when they are logged off but that is called a sugar daddy. :)

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  15. 2 minutes ago, Storii Darkheart said:

    Ok yeah I get that... but that wasn't all you said in regards to the person in question. From my understanding at least. Or maybe you were referencing someone else in the other 2 paragraphs. If so, disregard. This thread is 17 pages of confusing at this point.

    Were you called in as an extra sheep?

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  16. 2 hours ago, Jordan Whitt said:

    It is also not surprising that your favourite go-to insult is being chucked around again - "the evil clique" who are waging a "hate campaign" against whomever you are white knighting this time.  Do you have any idea just how stupid that sounds?  You do know that individuals are quite capable of reaching opinions that coincide with other individual's opinions.  

    You really should see someone about this "evil clique" persecution complex you seem to have.

    Stop acting clueless. You know there is a herd mentality here and always has been.  Anyone with the ability to read can see it. What I find funny is that it's here in black and white yet is still denied.

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