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2 hours ago, chardonay Babii said:

Block at worst or disassociate with drama prone people as your not meant for each other if they upset you repeatedly.  Your better off spending your energy and time with like minded people.  

Drama-prone people leave me prone!

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2 hours ago, Love Zhaoying said:

When offering friendship, always change the default message from “Would you be my friend?” to something else.

And be creative when doing it, like: "For easy and efficient booty-calls"

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1) Avoid writing passive agressive profiles, those keep people off Unless you are fine with being a loner 

2) Don't beg. 

3) Love yourself and people will love you back.

4) Spend time getting to know others, be a good listener.

5) Have some empathy.

6) Social climbing and using others to get up on your imaginary ladder will not get you far. Most ppl see fakes from miles away.

 

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1) If everyone’s your friend, then no one is. Don’t devalue friendship by giving it or taking it too easily.

2) Don’t go on a “making friends mission”, no one wants to be just a score. The best of these advices are not “how to make more friends”, but “how to avoid too many flubs”.

3) Don’t be pushy, reserved ones can be great friends if you accept them the way they are, instead of “only those like me” or “only the easy ones” –again, don’t cheapen friendship.

4) Don’t judge unnecessarily. You don’t get points by tagging everyone, you’re just being simplistic.

5) Read & listen, then read & listen more. Don’t go handing out “are we compatible?” questionnaires, they’re useless except to make the other feel you’re just picking & processing targets at random, rather than those whose profiles, actions or words truly caught your attention, after hours or even days of observation.

6) Friendship is about giving, not taking. Don’t ask, don’t be clingy –if the other has to end up avoiding you, you’re not a friend, you’re a leech.

7) Don’t get too excited with those who agree with you on everything. You learn nothing from your own echo, and might as well ask if there’s only a brick or stone wall in front of you... with God-only-knows-what behind.

8) Leave your peacock feathers at home. Gold-plated cork leaves a far worse lasting impression than solid iron.

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