I have to fix that!!! Some have found me though, and it was truly nice to meet them!!!
With my friends, we talk about why we are in SL. Our AV's and clothes. Shopping. Places to rent. Furniture. How nice or not nice a particular Sim is. How we are feeling in RL (without giving too much RL info). Our experiences in SL. Just about any RL tor SL topic you could imagine. The list is endless!!!
It does get kinky of course. It depends on what sims someone goes to, and the people they meet. Most people are nice, but not everyone is. I have had to pull my claws out a few times!!!