SandorWren

The one thing in SL I have never experienced in SL is being sexual with a close friend. I've wondered what that would would feel like. Now I have gone adult, but no choice. I would start a thread on that but I would just end up getting attacked again.

I'm not denying I was clueless at all. I still don't fully understand.

OMG, I'm just a bit jealous....

Again I've learned more. It's interesting though how when I chat with you I'm myself. We are our deepest fantasies in SL. So it's even more real than RL in some ways.

But yet we still can't separate our inworld identities from the forums..

Inworld is different because there is always a degree of RP involved. Here there isn't. And that's what's taken me a bit of time to understand.

I'm not disagreeing. I will not simply bow though. And this is the kind of reply that helps me understand what the forums are about. Thank you.

I'm not automatically accepting and OK with things. I need reasons.

I'm still learning. And that has actually been what I've been trying to do.

I don't think I'll ever be a good fit exactly though. I don't wan't to offend people in either case.

Yes. I can.

Inworld, we spend time with our own community and friends. Here there are many different personalities and we all interact. Inworld is the ocean. This is a lake. Inworld we don't interact with each other if we are offended by them, and block them. Here it seems to be the opposite.

And if you'll accept it, I'll happily be your friend!!!

I don't. But like I replied before to Scylla, a few words of advice from a good friends mean more than 1000 pages from anyone else. I didn't reread my exact words, but the meaning remains. This is a very different environment than inworld, and it's taking me time to understand and adjust to it.

Um, excuse me??? I would miss you if you weren't here!!!

You don't. Ignore exists.

You are no pariah!!! You are valued member of this community!!! I would miss you if you left!!!

Yes it does. I have absolutely no desire to create discomfort. I truly am lost on how I could have. I prefer to reply to people's posts that I find positive. I've had to defend myself though because I don't back down. easily. I've felt cornered. I'm learning so much from you, and I very much appreciate it. A few words of advice from a good friend are worth more than 1000 pages from anyone else.

You are of course correct. I've had a couple come. I think Kitty was here for a minute. None of them stayed. Have you met Kitty? I can't remember now. I will be honest though, if someone started attacking one of my close friends...I would find that very offensive.

I take FULL responsibility for my actions and words. I am NOT here in the forums to please or displease anyone. And in case you haven't noticed, I do participate in other topics. My favorite board is our AV pics. I love to see the talent there, and am inspired by some of the incredible talent!!!

None of can say anything about how other people perceive each other. If some of my inworld friends read what you and others post about me, or rather against me, they would find you and the others very offensive.

My posts are not meant for those of you who dislike me. And where have you seen me get involved about what other people's topics are?. I simply wouldn't because I feel they have the right to ask their questions in peace.

I find it somewhat amusing that being as "annoying" as I am, I have over 200 people on my friends list inworld, and can go on a mobile and chat inworld with them for hours with them without actually having inworld interaction. And I don't mean sexual chat with clients lol!!!

You meant that it was a mistaken perception.

What I would have expected is for people to ignore me if they don't like me or my topics. I personally wouldn't waste my energy participating in threads reading people's posts if I disliked them...I simply wouldn't care.