Bagnu

Tried the profile pic thing too. It's fun, but not fantastic.

I didn't remove the alpha artefacts from my hair. It kind of looks nice to me with them. And it's not a serious enough pic to make it worth the time. In my mind, anyways.

To me, that means you feel good about yourself, and confident. WHICH IS JUST GREAT!!!

I'm going to be female again until May 29th. It's just some fun between my SL Wife and myself. Likely, I'll be female again two weeks following that for a while, depending on Caitlin's choices. I updated a lot of my original Pearl AV. It's harder to update than to make a fresh account, in my opinion.

Oh shoot!!! I just noticed this today. May 16th!!!

I looked at your profile. Your pic and your AV look quite polished. How did you manage to accomplish that look in 3 days? It's also quite impressive to have a wishlist of 4 pages in 3 days. How did you manage to work on your AV, meet people, and browse MP in that short amount of time?

Anytime you need help, I will help. I remember what it was like to start. It's a difficult learning curve. So many things to learn. You make from your SL experience what you want it to be. It really is quite amazing. And remember, you're not alone. People will help you, just like you said they did. Just be careful with who you trust.

Feeling a bit weird when Cait went away for a week, and we couldn't keep in contact.

Love your creative thought!!! Did you take the pic?

Cait and I were testing her RLV outfits. It was a good time to take a random pic.

Since "spicy" is being taken in various directions, here is one that is spicy purely through the bdsm implications. I created the mesh of the pillow in 3DSMAX, textured it and uploaded it. It took a fair amount of time. Created for her, and her only. That is spicy in itself, above any other implication.

A pillow I modeled for Cait from scratch, textured it, and uploaded the mesh.

I understand your point, and I will do as you have requested.

A rough approximation is for both parties to instruct each with real life objects. A feather for instance. "..softly caresses your neck with the tip of the feather, running it up, gently tickling XX's earlobe" as an emote, would indicate what the other person should do with the RL feather they have during that play. Preferably closing their eyes for the moment. It can include smells too, or anything viable. Lovense toys are great for this as well.

I'm not arguing your point. I agree with you. I know I'm not explaining my viewpoint correctly. I'm trying to go back to the absolute base of the why we can even feel sexy or not. If sex didn't exist, we could never feel sexy. It would be meaningless. I believe we (most) are so biologically programmed for sex, that we "need" to feel sexy, even if we don't want a mate. This does vary from person to person, but I believe it to be generally true.

One of the points I'm making, is that to feel "pretty and sensual", or in my case "handsome", we have to match what is considered as such by others in the times we live in. That is highly variable, of course, depending on the subgroups we identify with. And that it is simply impossible to feel attractive, without the existence of sexuality. There would be nothing to feel "sexy" about, because there would be nothing and no one to attract.

Agree or disagree with what I said earlier, Scyll? I'm curious.

I have to laugh, really. Full nudity isn't particularly sexy, in my opinion. My RL wife comes out of the shower naked, I'm not turned on. Same with my SL wife's AV. It's what's hidden, and what we want to see that's enticing.

It appears that nudity involves female nipples, and genitals of both sexes. Even a female aerula "edge" is considered nudity. I know from personal experience, having pics removed where I had no idea why, and had to ask friends, and examine closely.

I'm fully aware that not everyone is interested in sex here, but I disagree with the supposition that someone would "look sexy" for themselves, although with a caveat. Sexy is by definition enticing. A pair of sky high stiletto heels would not be enticing to an animal other than Homo Sapiens, and also of similar culture. Or a classy suit on me. Or whatever look we feel would attract. What look we create to feel sexy is defined by what we think others would desire. It ultimately IS a self esteem issue. If we feel that we are attractive enough to reproduce, we feel good about ourselves. Even if one chooses not to engage in reproductive activity. We are still the "Naked Ape", no matter how much we try and convince ourselves otherwise.

A case in point is the Sistine Chapel.

My Alt, Toy. First, with a Master who simultaneously owned Caitlin and myself (as Toy). The second, I can't remember what I was doing, but I'm sure I was up to something "Spicy"!!!

These two are a little "spicy". The first is when Cait suddenly kissed my Alt, Swallow, right before our Wedding and I didn't notice, because I was Using two PC's (she knows Swallow is me, btw). The second is Cait captured at FED. The only two ways for her to get out, were by being released, or turning off RLV. Released was actually not a realistic option!!!

It's Cait not me, but looks spicy to me!!!

I'm Canuck too!!!