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  1. Musetta Fieschi

    Where are all the black people...

    @MirandBowers of course that counts!
  2. Musetta Fieschi

    I don't understand this game

    Find a person willing to act as your guide and discuss those things with them. In fact, feel free to message me, I'm happy to be your guide during this early stage. Welcome to SL.
  3. Musetta Fieschi

    What do you all get on SL for?

    'Love exciting and new, come aboard, We're expecting you And love, won't hurt anymore' Anyway, Yes I'm here for the love. I love to men here and two friends. Oh yes and the writer's group, I love that. And The BDSM discussion circuit. I'm totally addicted to that. Oh and clothes. I love them. Apart from the former and pretty beaches with good radios and classy dance venues...I can't think...oh wait and cool explory places. i can't think why i keep coming back.
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    What makes you block someone?

    I have a pretty lengthy block list, mostly objects; sometimes the people attached to them...if I couldn't get it to shut up any other way. apart from that, I tend to use block as a way of 'walking away from an argument' with strangers or people I don't know that well, whom I would like to become strangers. I'm not averse to the occasional tussle with an idiot, but once i'm no longer having fun, block is awesome for really saying, 'i'm done with this'; unblocking them after a few hours. The only time I've really had to use block consistently was for an ex who wasn't that into me, but once I stopped dating him decided to annoy me during discussions I facilitated; and his ex who stalked me when she found out he'd started dating me. Apart from that, there are a few annoying people on the BDSM discussion circuit whose voices I have turned all the way down. That's about it.
  5. Musetta Fieschi

    Off Grid Woman Wanted

    Good for you for knowing what you want and need and asking for it!
  6. Musetta Fieschi

    How does your avatar look today ?

    @Alyona Su Gorgeous!
  7. Musetta Fieschi

    How does your avatar look today ?

    Playing cards
  8. Musetta Fieschi

    Just Ignore and let this one die

    God, I saw this and am currently putting off the inevitable poverty. Sigh.
  9. Musetta Fieschi

    Where are all the black people...

    I don't think she said or implied it was racism, just that she wanted a way to get in touch with black people who are in sl. There are plenty of us, some of us have avatars which reflect our skin color and others...Well let's say there are any number of people of various ethnicities in sl who are 'here but hiding' or just choosing to experience it in an avatar whose race is different from their own.
  10. Hmm...Okay. So for you, it's about helping the person see themselves as others may, in hopes they'll make choices you (and by extension, possibly others) find more pleasing. That's interesting. I was right in my post in thinking, it's not a reason I would ever consider. If someone has (to my mind) poor taste, it a) doesn't occur to me that my offering advice on any one particular issue would help them with the taste issue, and 2) doesn't occur to me to care they had bad taste. Thank you for answering! Truly the reasoning was totally passing me by. I appreciate the explanation.
  11. @ThorinII and maybe others. Snarkiness aside, and this is me asking out of genuine curiosity. I've forgotten that I have a slightly higher than normal curiosity threshold when it comes to my fellow beings. But it's in odd places. For instance, if there is a disturbance outside, the likelihood that I won't even glance out the window is high. I am just not interested. On the other hand I'm fascinated by everyday conversations in public places. How people whose lives are interrelated behave with one another and what might that mean, etc. That's probably the writer thing. Car accidents, people being pulled over, people fighting...zero interest. So probably, in this conversation, I've not made enough allowances for how people see things differently. Because honestly, hand on heart, for another avatar's proportions to trigger my interest is a rare thing. Right now, as I sit thinking about why I don't feel the need to comment, I realize it's mostly because I'm just not interested. It's not that I'm a super special nice person. When the curvier avatars first came out, it was note/comment-worthy because it was such change from the super skinny thing that was popular during my early days in SL. I know I must have commented to a friend. But it's impossible for me to fathom circumstances where I'd feel a need to mention it to the person. Again, not holding back, just not interested. But my interest in other people is triggered by quite odd things, probably. Long way around to ask a question out of sincere curiosity. What motivates you to address someone's appearance with them? What are you thinking/feeling/hoping to accomplish? That is if you feel like answering. No judgment. I think we all know where each other stands on the rightness or wrongness of doing so, so I won't be re-hashing that. And not 'the person should expect/be okay with blank if they wear/are thus and so'. But why do you feel a need to comment to them?
  12. I don't think I said that everyone must respect everyone at all times. It isn't something I believe. At some point, you get what you give as far as I'm concerned. And when it comes to the opinions expressed, people can share them as much as they want. My reaction is not guaranteed. Though to be fair, my response was a little cranky. We all have peeves. One of mine is when people roll up in a conversation and attempt to place themselves above the dialogue by saying, 'your feelings are invalid, because my thus and so RL experience proves it'. Given that Waleu conducted a reasonable amount of this as she says, in b*tch mode"; surely she can take it.
  13. Musetta Fieschi

    Where are all my friends? Come on in and lets get comfy by the fire!

    Happy Rezday!!!! Do many celebrate their rezdays with parties and such? What's your best one so far?
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    Small Stable/Riding School RP

    looks like fun! /me hops on Princess Buttercup to come check it out.
  15. /me scrolls up to your previous goodbye. Promise?