Ricky40 Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 Hey, I have been wondering around sl by my self for a while now and find it very lonely. I go to places where there are lots of people but no one seems talkative, at least not with me. Any suggestions? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SassyOne Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 Hi Ricky, SL can be lonely at first thats for sure. Find something that interests you, then seek out some places where people with the same interest get together. If you like music then find a couple of clubs that play the music you like and pop in regularly, sooner or later people will get to recognise the name and talk to you. If you want to build join some places like Happy Hippo or Builders Brewery where you can meet others and you can learn at the same time. Good Luck and hope SL becomes a little less lonely for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 kudos sassy! that is what i did and now i build stuff (not good yet but working on it) and i work at clubs where i like to just hang out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NinaMi Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 Hey Ricky, how are you? well to meet people is allaways good to visit locations that are just to chill and hang out, like beaches, or clubs, or places with much traffic that people only stands and chat lol make good friends take time but is worth. you can im me in-world^.^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Magdalena Moskalev Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 SL can certainly get that way. Builders Brewery is a GREAT suggestion. If you are newer to game, then New Citizens is not bad either. Take one simple class, you will find it really enjoyable and it gives you nice interaction. Think about the reasons you came in world, the things you enjoy and decide if you fall in to the two categories of players I run into: My avatar is me, I am the same RL or My avatar is my character, I am not the same but I am playing out this fantasy (I.E I am a pirate or in the wild west) Each type will take you different places, and you will make a different set of friends. I have found it easier to make great friends roleplaying in a world that is a complete historical based fantasy. Some of this can drive you into a whole host of incredibly interesting research and even influence your vacation plans Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 i agree. havent checked out new citizens but hey i dont think im new anymore hehe. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Caroline Takeda Posted April 30, 2012 Share Posted April 30, 2012 Hi Ricky I like going to clubs and get the open chat a bit going. I am a talkative person. My mom said, when I die they will have to kill my mouth separetly. Contacy me in-world and we kick some...ahmm...get some life into people together. My Inworld Name: Carolinestravels Caroline Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SassyOne Posted May 1, 2012 Share Posted May 1, 2012 Hiya Emmett, I am not great at building either, its an ongoing learning process, the fun is trying for me, took me a month of googles to find out how they make those mirror reflection ballroom dance floors lol but got it in the end I would also say when you find some clubs you like to original OP as was mentioned keep an eye on local chat , always say hello when you go in, sometimes just joining in on local chat can get people talking to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted May 1, 2012 Share Posted May 1, 2012 woot i guess i dont use google but then again that is why im not that great lol ill get there thou. and hey ty for the tip Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeHere Absent Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Have you been to Lar's Bar yet? How about the Shelter and some of the "Help" locations? How about the many classes offered in SL? How about Cypris Chat Village where people practice their English? How about a Guitar Zane concert? MST3K? Have you joined any chatty groups like "Sapiosexuality"? Have you joined any groups that match your interests? Have you visted the Feeds yet? (https://my.secondlife.com) Have you checked out the third-party forums? (http://wiki.secondlife.com/wiki/Discussion_forums#Third-party_forums) Do you read the SL-related news blogs? Have you filled in your profile with your interests so people have a place from which to start a conversation with you? ETA: http://leeherevw.blogspot.com/2011/02/where-people-are-in-second-life.html Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeHere Absent Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 carolinestravels wrote: My mom said, when I die they will have to kill my mouth separetly. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeeHere Absent Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 You might also try Ambrosia Dance Club. People can be very chatty there. Especially on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays around noon to 3pm SLT/PST. Yes, a friend of mine DJs there, but trust me on this, people are very chatty there. Say hello to Venus and Keli if you see them there. http://ambrosiadanceclub.com/calendar/ Good luck! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vevesoph Posted May 2, 2012 Share Posted May 2, 2012 Hello Lonely... How are you? So, I am new here and I don't know many people... maybe we could talk and know each other... So, hum, say something see you around Sophia Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmettcullen93 Posted May 3, 2012 Share Posted May 3, 2012 hey sophia welcome to the forums and secondlife. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anita Claven Posted June 17, 2012 Share Posted June 17, 2012 I'm in the same boat myself. HI Ricky... feel free to IM me inworld sometime. Anita Claven. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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