Yes, gesture spam will get me to TP out of anywhere in SL, and another annoyance is scripted greetings...
When the host says the *exact* same thing to *everyone* who TPs in *instantly* on landing it just shows laziness in my book and is far more spammy than personable.
I went to one to support a DJ who is a friend of a friend and I spent the first half hour blocking scripted chatbots and derendering particle effect spewing lag machines. Your corner of a homestead can't handle Ozzfest, especially not with a few dozen *heavily* scripted dancers AFKing on the tip poles.
Oh, and when I land and see "Chat Extender joined, range *insert ridiculous number*." I'm leaving. I can see 50m, maybe, let people chat in a larger room, but repeating everything everyone says over the whole sim is bad. I've landed at a place who added a club in a skybox and I was getting their gesture spam nearly 4000m below the venue when I landed. Not only did I not go to the club, but I deleted the LM for the sim.
Though, on the other hand, SL people *are* super cheap. I don't own a club, but I do have a quarter region with pretty decent traffic and a build I'm working on (mostly done on the ground, just a few more things to add to the urgent care clinic, mostly working on to the space station now) that gets me compliments in IMs all the time. It costs $67 for just tier there without any L$ being purchased to help improve the location. An average month sees me getting about 300-500 L$ in donations, and I don't do affiliate stuff or ads because I think they degrade the whole region (in aesthetics and performance) to rez that stuff.
Anything you make in SL either needs to be something you're willing to eat all the costs on, or you need a Patreon, because people do *not* tip or donate and the quickest way to drive anyone you might actually *want* on your parcel away is to have them land in an affiliate mall at a forced landing point and need to walk through a lagfest of begging and heavily scripted vendors that manage to slow down the entire region to get to a place.