kagudark

Into the way my avie looks? Not at all! In fact, my avatar is of a character that exists in another medium so physically it is very far removed from myself. Yet when it comes to my avies personality then I can say completely that's all me.

No, I haven't. I may in the future to hopefully avoid this conversation, though honestly the initial inquiry doesn't bother me, they're just curious. Its when they won't let it go after my first No, I'm fine the way I am.

I'm an ISFP-T. Yeah...accurate.

I found the forums not long after I joined in June. I just started posting today because I wanted some location recommendations. The forums seem fun as either an alternative when I don't want to login, or maybe even as an addition when I do if I require a little extra to keep my mind whirring.

Earlier today I rewatched this golden movie.

I'll go for my biggest pet peeve, forget my small gripes! My b i g g e s t SL pet peeve might be more of a specific pet peeve, so everyone may not be able to relate to this exact situation, but I'm sure if you think about it you can conjure up something similar. People, who ask me "Why not get a mesh body and bento head?" When I say, Nah I don't want one, they proceed with the question, "Can't you afford it?" or something else that is equally as insulting, seemingly without them realizing it. When I assure them that, Yes I can afford it, but no I still don't want one we begin an ouroboros circle. "But why not?" "SL would be so much more fun with one!" "You should at least look into it!" Sometimes followed by several brand name drops of popular Head and Body makers that I should certainly go visit the stores of! During the short time I've been active I'll say this has happened three, maybe four times and once, humiliatingly enough, with my former landlord. This landlord, after she took my rent, tried to badger me into getting a "normal avatar" and telling me I'd be much happier. I'd like to think I'm a nice, relaxed person so each time I bit my tongue and tried to get them to understand that I'm not interested means just that, and no amount of pestering will change that. I still don't think two of them got it and I left my rental as soon as my time was up. So, I guess in tl;dr format of it is, my pet peeve on SL is when others try to tell you how to live your Second Life and what will enhance your experience as if they know myself better than I do.

I would like it if someone could name some places where an avatar like mine would be welcome, particularly music clubs. I have an anime avatar but its not the normal anime avatar, even. I'm a female anime character, but I'm not using Utilizator or Kemono, or anything like that. I stand out even among anime avies, I admit it, but I also like the way I look and don't want to change it just so I access some places. I've been asked to leave a few times in the past because I don't fit the sim's aesthetic. It was never a hostile or nasty message, just a simple IM asking me to leave and well, their sim = their rules. I'd like to find some spots (that aren't shopping hubs) that would accept my presence without a bat of an eyelid. Please only recommend General to Mature-rated places only, please.