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Just now, Caerolle Llewellyn said:8 minutes ago, Kiera Clutterbuck said:
A guy messaged me out of the blue once. We were in different sims, and all he said was "I bought a camera". Apparently we had spoken before, but I didn't remember the conversation. I felt frightened, like "oh no, what am I going to have to deal with, hopefully not another person who has no boundaries whatsoever". But, I simply said "oh"? And he went on to talk about the camera, and come to find out he was autistic. Autistic people often don't know how to 'dance' but this does not mean they want to invade another. So I learned a little lesson that day, not to be quite so alarmed by what felt like a strange IM.
I have gotten into sorta friendships with a few people like that. They have it really hard. I am not sure I really helped them much in the end, though.
Most likely you did help them. Many autistic people have trouble connecting with others because they can seem strange, not knowing how to 'dance', and so being able to actually connect with others is of benefit. As it turned out, my autistic friend became angry with me because I was not technically astute enough regarding this camera
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A guy messaged me out of the blue once. We were in different sims, and all he said was "I bought a camera". Apparently we had spoken before, but I didn't remember the conversation. I felt frightened, like "oh no, what am I going to have to deal with, hopefully not another person who has no boundaries whatsoever". But, I simply said "oh"? And he went on to talk about the camera, and come to find out he was autistic. Autistic people often don't know how to 'dance' but this does not mean they want to invade another. So I learned a little lesson that day, not to be quite so alarmed by what felt like a strange IM.
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Any time two people interact a kind of dance occurs. Some people don't know how to dance very well, and others don't even recognize there needs to be a dance to demonstrate each person is sensitive to the other. I'd say the latter doesn't have appropriate boundaries, and if they don't know how to dance how would they know when they're stepping on your toes, or how would I know if they even cared if they did?
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Sometimes my introversion takes hold
BEACH
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Just a zany zeitgeist yesteryear
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Song Of The Soul
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Love Song
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First lets yell excessive rhetoric
JBAKL
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Always exit in others underwear
TBALP
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I'm glad to find a good ***** discussion this evening.
UHOH CENSORRRRED
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You just can't get a better last name than mine in any world. hehe
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I'm glad u are finding good people. They are out there!
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4 minutes ago, Sylvia Tamalyn said:
Attacked, really? Was anything I've said worse than saying that someone's father is abusive? No, I didn't think so. 🙄
so u can do any old thing u want to her because she said something wrong. okkaaay got it.
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I've got a potato. It's all good.
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Hey there selene you can have all my land!!!!!!! Oh wait, I don't have any. hehe But I would give u some if I could!
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Trying to do a gang-up on people is immature.
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5 minutes ago, Annabell Wandsworth said:17 hours ago, Drake1 Nightfire said:
Really not your place.
If you saw someone bleeding, you would try to help them, or would you say it wasn't your place to interfere?
Maybe he would let them bleed so that he wouldn't be called a white knight if he helped.
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50 minutes ago, Arduenn Schwartzman said:
Unless you have an even more brilliant solution.
You're the one who thinks their solution is brilliant. In fact, apparently it's so brilliant that if the OP doesn't accept it you've decided they must not really want a solution. That's what you told them.
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Peace Out
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53 minutes ago, Arduenn Schwartzman said:5 hours ago, AngstyJellyfish said:6 hours ago, Arduenn Schwartzman said:
1. Sit on something while afk.
2. Mute and derender offensive elements.
Problem solved. You're welcome.
Please explain?
There's not really much more than a few seconds, or none at all, when you have to afk suddenly.
I see you're not really interested in a solution to your 'problem'. Have fun discussing.
I don't want to sit down all the time because an AFK emergency might happen. Your solution isn't so good.
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5 letters game
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Best let everyone ask Kiera
CHARM