Hello people

[JasonFiller]

I been playing for a few years, on and off. But I wanna meet some ladie friends. To hang out with and chat. Grew up in a small town. So this is a way to socialize for me. I'm in my mid 30s respectful guy,just looking to meet some ladies and hangout and chat.

[JasonFiller]

Yeah I'm looking for ladie friends to talk to, and hangout with. I grew up in a small town, and this is a way for me to socialize. Sorry if I seem boring, not a lot on this profile. But in my second life game profile, it says I wanna go back to my 20s but I'm 35. Yeah it was kinda weird to say that. Just have a thing for older women. And wanted to play a role of me being younger. But I need to change that part. Cause ot sounds confusing and doesn't make any sense. 

I'm a honest chill guy, prefer to talk on the mic, and I get it not everyone can use the mic. I'm not gonna judge, but I wanna meet some older women on here. 

[JasonFiller]

Well I join mostly adult groups and join adult sims. Usually on the weekends or around 4pm slt

[Katherine Heartsong]

Again, I'll be the one to ask, though your mention of "mic" (voice) might be my answer, and you seem sincere as well, but ... does it matter what the RL gender behind the avatar is?

I ask to clarify only because in addition to mentioning hanging out and chatting, you've mentioned adult sims/groups and also the whole "older woman" thing. There are plenty of groups for that, umm, interest, but tread carefully, not everyone is honest (if that's important for friendship) with who they portray in SL.

Best of luck btw, there are some amazing folks in SL, whoever they are behind the keyboard, that make this place magical.

Edited September 28, 2022 by Katherine Heartsong

[JasonFiller]

Well I'm not here to judge anyone on here, and I know there are plenty of guys that have female avatars.  And I don't judge them, I'm not here to say anything negative. 

Not looking for voice changers either, for me gender does matter. I made guy friends they are chill and cool to talk to. But I get bored and since I have a thing for older women. This is second life, and I grew up in a small town. So this is a way to socialize with them. And I'm just speaking for myself.  

I know there are guys that have female avatars, it doesn't bother me at all. But for me personally, I'm not into or looking for things like that. I'm just trying to say it in the most nicest way, without sounding rude. I'm just posting this, to meet some interesting ladies on here. 

[Katherine Heartsong]

All good and well explained, thanks.

[Carolyn Zapedzki]

On 9/26/2022 at 3:20 AM, Nagumi Yazimoto said:

Haha of course you want "ladie" friends. You seem rather boring frankly. Plus you can't even get your age straight in your profile you're either 25 or 30's, so that's weird... 

You seem rather rude.

[JasonFiller]

On 10/5/2022 at 2:06 PM, Carolyn Zapedzki said:

You seem rather rude.

I know right, my first post ever. Trying to sound as friendly as I can and not rude.(which im not)But damn ,sorry to sound boring to her. I'm just here to make some friends, prefer ladies. Cause that's what I'm into,I only explore adult sims. Cause that's all know about, wouldn't mind learning other things on here either

[Carolyn Zapedzki]

On 10/10/2022 at 6:09 PM, JasonFiller said:

I know right, my first post ever. Trying to sound as friendly as I can and not rude.(which im not)But damn ,sorry to sound boring to her. I'm just here to make some friends, prefer ladies. Cause that's what I'm into,I only explore adult sims. Cause that's all know about, wouldn't mind learning other things on here either

Just put yourself out there and try not to bore the pants off the ladies 😛 

[Cali Souther]

Jason,

You seem like a very nice young man.  Go to clubs that play the kind of music you like,  hang out on a semi-regular basis (it takes time and consistency) and be sure to chat in local.   

Join groups for games,  or whatever you like to do - again,   be patient. 

Hang out in the forums,  ignore the mean people and get to know the good ones!   

I was feeling lonely recently,  and Luna has already shown me 3 places to hang out that are fantastic!       Don't give up. 

 

 

[JasonFiller]

On 10/12/2022 at 1:59 PM, Cali Souther said:

Jason,

You seem like a very nice young man.  Go to clubs that play the kind of music you like,  hang out on a semi-regular basis (it takes time and consistency) and be sure to chat in local.   

Join groups for games,  or whatever you like to do - again,   be patient. 

Hang out in the forums,  ignore the mean people and get to know the good ones!   

I was feeling lonely recently,  and Luna has already shown me 3 places to hang out that are fantastic!       Don't give up. 

 

 

Oh ok thanks for the advice, one thing I gotta do is be on more. It's hard to be a some places ,when they just stand there and not talk. Some people call them zombies, for me personally I think there in discord or something.  I even try saying hi in side and nothing. Not all the places, but I'd give an example when Lust was around, not sure if It came back. But they hardly even talk, the majority of my groups are adult groups, like the x rated lol I don't know how to explain that. I've been to clubs, ill probably check more out.

 

I am a nice guy and I  have patience but on here I need to work on that. I have found a good spot, that has nice music. And always seems packed ,when I get there. Met a few good people there,but I like games as well. Cheesey I think it's called, and some others I like. 

[Cali Souther]

1 hour ago, JasonFiller said:

Oh ok thanks for the advice, one thing I gotta do is be on more. It's hard to be a some places ,when they just stand there and not talk. Some people call them zombies, for me personally I think there in discord or something.  I even try saying hi in side and nothing. Not all the places, but I'd give an example when Lust was around, not sure if It came back. But they hardly even talk, the majority of my groups are adult groups, like the x rated lol I don't know how to explain that. I've been to clubs, ill probably check more out.

 

I am a nice guy and I  have patience but on here I need to work on that. I have found a good spot, that has nice music. And always seems packed ,when I get there. Met a few good people there,but I like games as well. Cheesey I think it's called, and some others I like. 

Search/Look for     ::TNT:: Greedy Greedy Club    - people from all over,  semi active group chat.....      I'm new there, so not much I can say.

You have to try a variety of clubs.  I've found the most popular are not necessarily the most friendly.   

I get the adult thing - but if you want to find a gal,  might have to branch out. 

Best of luck! 

[Lewis Luminos]

I think this...

On 9/28/2022 at 8:15 PM, JasonFiller said:

Well I join mostly adult groups and join adult sims. 

...is what leads to this...

10 hours ago, JasonFiller said:

It's hard to be a some places ,when they just stand there and not talk. Some people call them zombies, for me personally I think there in discord or something.  I even try saying hi in side and nothing.

In adult clubs, everyone is almost certainly "afk" and already chatting one-on-one with someone else in Discord or another platform, or in a private voice chat. Just about everything in most adult clubs is said privately, one-on-one. 

I think you'll have better luck getting conversation in non-adult clubs. And not the really big ones like Muddys or Wet Willies; those are often very impersonal and not very active in local chat. Find a smaller one.  If local chat isn't active, try starting a conversation there.  I find that clubs offering live music are often chattier than ones with a DJ, because people are more likely to be paying attention to SL and less likely to be off in Discord.

Look for actual events, rather than just turning up.  People tend not to hang around in a club "to just chat" - they go for a specific event. These events are often not advertised in the official listings, but usualy the club will have its own notification group, and there's often a group joiner somewhere in the club. You may even get an auto-invite upon arrival.  Join the group and it will tell you when the scheduled events are held.

SL is most active between 4pm and 8pm SLT.

[Nagumi Yazimoto]

My advice is to be more honest about yourself and what you actually want... Once people find out that you're actually radically different than how you present yourself, there can be issues.