Oh ok thanks for the advice, one thing I gotta do is be on more. It's hard to be a some places ,when they just stand there and not talk. Some people call them zombies, for me personally I think there in discord or something. I even try saying hi in side and nothing. Not all the places, but I'd give an example when Lust was around, not sure if It came back. But they hardly even talk, the majority of my groups are adult groups, like the x rated lol I don't know how to explain that. I've been to clubs, ill probably check more out.
I am a nice guy and I have patience but on here I need to work on that. I have found a good spot, that has nice music. And always seems packed ,when I get there. Met a few good people there,but I like games as well. Cheesey I think it's called, and some others I like.