Is there a way to disable this in Phoenix?

[bee Baroque 160]

that would be the bridge trying to rez and attach to you. either log in on build enabled land or disable the bridge in your prefs.

[bee Baroque 160]

that would be the bridge trying to rez and attach to you. either log in on build enabled land or disable the bridge in your prefs.

[Ansariel Hiller 900]

That is because it is trying to update the LSL Bridge. Login in an area where you can rez so it can import the bridge. After that you won't be bugged again.

[Rolig Loon 22,189]

If it's not doing the same thing with your main av, then maybe it's because that av is a member of the group that owns the parcel you are rezzing on.  Get you alt to join the same group and she'll have the same group privileges as your main av does in that parcel.