Looking for female friends please! ;)

[Arielle Simondsen]

Hi!  Ive been on sl since 2008, not too much here on the forums.  Looking for a friend or two.  I dont need to collect a zombie hoard worth.   

Anyway, Im terrible at making friends, Im not a joiner and large groups just make me want to run the other way. lol

That said, Im a non judgmental person, authentic, in what you see is what you get (I am terrible at being a phony!), have a very weird sense of humor, am creative, quiet, geeky (total trekkie! though ive never been to a rl convention or anything  lol), sensitive, kind, down to earth.  My partner of 8 years likes to describe me as smart and funny.  

So that you can know me a bit better beforehand, INFP is my personality type and is described as (and this is pretty accurate of me)

• Loyal and devoted
• Sensitive to feelings
• Warm, caring and interested in other people
• Strong written communication skills
• Prefers to work alone
• Values close relationships
• Focuses on the "big picture" rather than the details

I share my personality type with JK Rowling, Johnny Depp, Princes Diana, Audrey Hepburn, Sting (a long time favorite of mine!),  JRR Tolkien, John Lennon, Helen Keller, William Shakespeare, Andy Warhol, Vincent Van Gogh, Emma Watson, Julia Roberts, Tim Burton... so Im in pretty damn good company with these folks and I guess you can gather that I am kind of creative and off beat and not like most people.  which can be good and bad.

the only things I ask you to be is understanding about the fact that just because we are both in world we dont have to chat or hang out every. single. time.  I do own a shop and run a center for women so many days I am busy with either of those, and that its absolutely not personal if I am not always talking to you.   or if I dont answer you right away.  many times when sl is on I leave it up and walk away to do other rl things cause I know I am coming back to it in a while so I do go afk often.  that also is not personal.   Also, I am very into eastern spirituality, it is a big part of my life.  Im not judgmental about anyone elses beliefs, I believe everyone has a path and it leads to the same wonderful place if you follow it so please be tolerant of my beliefs too.  I dont do backstabbing, gossip, I dont set out to be vengeful or hurt people (but I will protect someone else who is getting hurt or abused, and will stand up to the person doing it and might get mad that way  lol).  I know a lot of women seem to be proud of being a *****, I am not a *****, but I can *be* a ***** though it is few and far between.   I am however, a wicked kick ass warrior princess!   and a total bohemian geek.

easier to tell you what I dont like to do... I hate going to clubs.  

other than that I love exploring.  my partner is 8 hours ahead of me so I end up exploring on my own when I do it and it would be nice to have a friend where one of us can say "hey lets go check out this or that".  also since I do have a partner whom I met my second week into sl (back in 2008), I am not looking to hook up with anyone, but I will hang out with you if you are trying to meet some one and want company.   Im a huge goofball and am absolutely down if you want to go do really ridiculously silly sl things.  I love taking photos and we can take lots of those too.

Your age, location, not important.  Im on the US east coast and on mostly in the evenings (weekend mornings and afternoons are the times to hang out with my partner so...) I dont care if you are human, furry, vampire, whatever.  martian.  Just females only please.

so now that you have more information than you need   you can decide whether I sound like someone you would like to be friends with.  and my great appreciation to anyone who actually read this far.

Edited May 22, 2017 by Arielle Simondsen

[TatianaNikolay]

Sure, my avi's name is Tatiana Nikolay. 

I get the whole different schedule thing and not having to be with each other all the time. Sometimes we need personal space

[Talligurl]

I am creative to and also busy with a lot of things when in world, and I to have that time I reserve for my partner. We both are on the East Coast of the US, but I typically get on during the day on weekdays, so we might not be on at the same times. If we were though it would be great to be able to check out each other's SL businesses. 

[Arielle Simondsen]

9 hours ago, Talligurl said:

I am creative to and also busy with a lot of things when in world, and I to have that time I reserve for my partner. We both are on the East Coast of the US, but I typically get on during the day on weekdays, so we might not be on at the same times. If we were though it would be great to be able to check out each other's SL businesses. 

nice!  Id like that!

[Arielle Simondsen]

ha ha I just noticed it bleeped out my b word.  funny cause I rarely ever curse and I get bleeped!  LOL