Lillie Woodells

If by "yes" you mean, yes, then okay. But if by "yes" you mean, yes, then we have a problem. Wait... did i get that right?

Dresden Ceriano wrote: Lillie Woodells wrote: Forum wh... ? What? Who would.. ? Oh, never mind. That just means you're supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. ...Dres Is that good or bad?

Darrius Gothly wrote: You people are SO not right in the haid. (Which would be the primary reason I like hanging out with y'all!) Okies ladies and gents .. time for me to go put more dents in my bed. Just make sure you take away Lillie's can-o-air, hide Sylvia's pink pillow ... and if Ima offers you a Tic Tac, just remember you gotta supply your own toe. You love us and you know it. YOu're not taking my air, Darrius! Oh if I knocked any stiches loose, I brought my needle and thread so I can fix you back up. *grins*

Forum wh... ? What? Who would.. ? Oh, never mind.

/me looks over at the package on her desk. You mean this thing? I thought about letting it off in the office during one of those quiet moments, but they would all know it was me.

Darrius Gothly wrote: Hi Dee! *hugz* Yeah, I'm finally managing to stay vertical for long enough to follow several pages of a good thread. Good to see you ladies are keeping up the Social Scene even while I've been AWOL. (Don't tell Lillie I was checking up on her, but has she been behaving while I was gone?) I saw that! What is your defenition of behaving? Admit it, you missed me! Go on! /me tackle hugs you!

Dresden Ceriano wrote: DQ Darwin wrote: I found an interesting clip Lillie it might be an aid to all on the forums:) Alright, I may be exposing my ignorance but what does "do not sub him" mean? I can't even figure it out from context... "If you sub him he's going to think you're afraid of him"... what? ...Dres *sad cause he missed the barn dance last night* I wondered about that one too Dres. I missed you last night, and I'm sorry I didn't do a good enough job letting everyone know about the BBQ last night. Hugs Dres

DQ Darwin wrote: That's a hoot, like a lot things posted I didn't understand it either. God I have even noticed an echo. I have to get the screen checked too I see a double image, Oh well - hugs:P Remind me to tell you about the book my son bought when he went on vacation with my parents. I will read it some tonight I think.

Cinnamon Mistwood wrote: Good morning Ladies and gents. Thanks for hosting the BBQ again, Lillie. I had fun last night even though I failed at getting that lovely, polite vampire to come down and join us. Oh well. I tried. I am heading to work now, but I hope everyone else has a wonderful day. Cinn Morning Cinn! Hugs!! Thank you so much for coming! You're welcome at my home any time. Maybe he'll come down next time. Some of them are like little timid forrest creatures. We have to gently coax them. Next time he may make it past the tree line. heheh Have an awesome day at work!

Mickey Vandeverre wrote: just trying to explain clearly. you always seem to get your feelings hurt when I chat with you. it's like walking on eggshells. LMAO

Mickey Vandeverre wrote: I wasn't "telling"....was just making a suggestion. and following up to see if they were able to make it. bummer you missed that. might have been fun for them. Mickey, you put far too much emphasis onto the technical meaning of words. Tell when used as a verb can mean communicate, advise, make known, mention, speak, utter, divulge, verbalize. I meant the word to mean advise.

Bonjour Val! I know Cat's breakfast is not for the faint of heart. I hope you enjoy the quiche! It's how I got my son to discover that spinich is edible. BIg big hugs for you lady!

Mickey Vandeverre wrote: you invited me to your party...and I passed.... then gave you a list of people to invite, from the newcomer section of the forum I must have missed the list. I saw one name you mentioned but didn't realize you were telling me to invite them, I thought you were going to suggest it to them. Thanks though.

DQ Darwin wrote: Good Morning Lillie was a great time last night a good turn out as usual. ") Hugs ladies and gents.. A pleasure as always! I especially enjoyed flipping Maddy and Gypsy!

Newcomers? I'm not sure what you're talking about. Mickey Vandeverre wrote: cool! so some of the newcomers made it too?

Morning Mickey, Yes we had a blast at the BBQ! There is almost always someone hanging out at the barn.

Good MornAfterEvening all you lovely people! /me sets out breakfast. Help yourself to the buffett Wildcat I made a special dish for you: And a nice quiche for everyone else, unless, of course, you want to share with Cat

Good MornAfterEvening to all my dear friends! *blows kisses to you all*

Storm Clarence wrote: Lillie Woodells wrote: Mickey Vandeverre wrote: "We" don't have an image except for that which is perceived by people who dislike some of us individually and who have a desire to stir the pot" wouldn't that be an image then? and if it's plural...."people"....maybe I'm not only one that gets that perception? if it doesn't matter to you fine...but is seems to matter. I guess I sincerly do not understand your need to pick apart simple sentences. I guess it is the same as you wrote about my posting to your website. What was fun you considered nasty. /me laughs! If you write at least remember what you write. Storm, I sincerely do not know what you're talking about, unless you mean the barrel thing? I responded to your comments about the barrels with a humerous barrel thread. I don't recall saying you were being nasty when posting to my website. If I'm mistaken I apologize.

Mickey Vandeverre wrote: "We" don't have an image except for that which is perceived by people who dislike some of us individually and who have a desire to stir the pot" wouldn't that be an image then? and if it's plural...."people"....maybe I'm not only one that gets that perception? if it doesn't matter to you fine...but is seems to matter. I guess I sincerly do not understand your need to pick apart simple sentences. To put it quite simply. You (used generally.. so any person singular or plurar) will see what you want to see. It makes no difference what any of us (again used generally not at any specific person) say or do. It feels very much as if you are digging for something, but you won't say what it is you're digging for. Please tell us what you really want to know, it would be easier to answer your questions if we weren't tap dacning. Once more.. if you want to know for yourself instead of resorting to conjecture, come over to the barn. This is a heartfelt invitation. I would love to meet you inworld.

Cinnamon Mistwood wrote: Lillie Woodells wrote: Ladies (and assorted non-ladies), come out to the barn for the BBQ around 7pm slt! Maybe a few songs too Yay! Should I bring a side dish? Maybe a nice fruit salad? How about I just stop at a brewery and pick up a keg? I prefer a lovely, flavorful dark beer myself... Just brining yourself is perfect Cinn! But if you want to bring a keg, that would be cool too!

Ladies (and assorted non-ladies), come out to the barn for the BBQ around 7pm slt! Maybe a few songs too

Cinnamon Mistwood wrote: Wait... We have an single individual that represents us? It seems to me that this group is made of many personality types, differing opinions and a lot of laughter. The group is a little different at each gathering - some will come others wait until the next gathering. We live in different time zones and countries. The great thing is that through SL we have a place we can gather to celebrate those differences and all we have in common just being human beings. There is good natured teasing, support, dancing, laughing, jokes and the feel of family. As far as I know, no one has ever been pressured to do anything or behave a certain way. That being said, there is one, who will remain unnamed, who has threatened to cleanse my soul of sin in the burning pits of hell... Bring it on! My sins are safe. Cinn /me stands up and applauds! Beautifully put Cin! Hugs!

Mickey Vandeverre wrote: maybe it's just me.....but it seems confusing. behavior doesn't seem consistent...which is why I asked about roleplaying. I mean....either do it up right, or not at all, with a different mantra.....but half-assed is confusing. maybe that's why you have difficulty with your reputation. if others find the group a blight....then it's not just my perception. even as roleplay....it's not a group I would care to join....as I had to deal with ladies who lunch-type daily in past career....and not really into experiencing that in Utopia....if you get my drift. if it's not roleplay....nor would I be interested in being around behavior that is not only inconsistent, but swings from one end of a spectrum to another within a few hours. never really understood that. even if it were none of the above, and it was a consistently friendly and open-minded group of people ....would not want to have the group title on my profile....just don't care for the message. suppose that's because I've been around similar, and always get the wikipedia 1950's style visual in head. even the modern version....to me...consists of a bunch of cut-throat business women who would knife you in the back in a heartbeat and steal your client along with your husband. and again....just pointing out that's why you might be misunderstood at times. not that it matters...it's your Fun. I can see where played to the max, that it would be a hoot...but that gets treacherous in forum, if people don't get what you're up to...and you do seem to be presenting it as an "effort" in a public forum. several ladies (and gents) from your group have been easy to have an exchange with. several have not...and when one person represents you and your group....sometimes there is an association there...as if that is the preferred conduct of the entire group. but for most part...I generally go by each individual's exchange. others may not. or maybe you could turn the whole image thing around and take that title to promote world peace. who knows. What exactly is it you would like to know? I think you might be stuck on one thing which is your perception of the name and what you personally envision when you hear it. "We" don't have an image except for that which is perceived by people who dislike some of us individually and who have a desire to stir the pot. I have no desire to change my image in SL and I certainly hope none of my friends do either. Here is a fake old saying: "Never shoot your arrows into a buffalo that is falling off the cliff" Kinda has the same meaning as don't beat a dead horse. As this same discussion has been done over and over. I hope that clears up at least my thoughts on it. As I said, if you would like a clearer picture so that you can see for yourself, I am personally welcoming you to join us at the barn (which is on my home property) this evening. Just im me inworld and I'll send you a tp.

Dillon Levenque wrote: Mickey Vandeverre wrote: ok, well the title of the club smacks of pretentiousness. but that may just be my interpretation. not sure if that's what you're going for or not... and not sure if it is roleplaying or not... if it is roleplaying...then probably need to step it up a notch. but that would carry across forum and inworld. and probably already has...based on my own interactions in another thread. there is also an air of exclusivity possibly....which is a bit uncomfortable to see in a making friends forum. caught that when I saw someone I like get peed on when diving into another thread. you might want to be clear on whether it is roleplay or not. Mickey, it is not RP, other than the RP that is inherent in SL (meaning we mostly don't look exactly like our avatars). I suppose the title is pretentious if for no other reason that it reminds you of the kind of ladies who are 'ladies who lunch': vain, self-absorbed, etc. In fact it was just a humorous idea Keli came up with. As for exclusivity, I do think an invitation is required to join the group; if so then I guess there is some exclusivity. Not much—I'm in it, as is Dresden (who would not be a lady even if he was female)—but maybe some. Your reference to what happened in another thread probably is due to some history. For whatever reason at least some individuals find this group a terrible blight on the Forums, if not SL in general. I suppose it has to do with the fact we do little except yak with each other and post pictures. Not exactly world-saving stuff. Because of that there have been a number of relatively negative if not outright nasty comments posted not just in this thread but elsewhere. Most of us (hard look at Dee) are doing our best to ignore all that. We did a rather poor job of that earlier but we're getting better at it. We have, to the best of my knowledge, never sat down to lunch. We do snack from time to time while we're dancing or stomping grapes. Nicely put Dil, Hugs btw. I was going to say the best way to describe us is that we are indescribable. Also, we are not a club. We are in a group. We are bunch of people who became friends through SL and/or the forum and get together on a regular basis for a variety of things. Gatherings with live music, running through sprinklers, jumping on trampolines, sitting in a barn, having a BBQ, stomping grapes, laying around and chatting.. anything really. The best way to see what we're all about is come and visit with us. You don't have to join the group, you don't have to stick around, but I would suggest that over taking someone else's word for who and what we are. We are all individuals with varying backgrounds.