You are bitter and boring. You think that everyone has to be like you and you think or pretend to know it all. Your experience only affected you not anybody else, so trying to spread your bitterness to the SL world that tell them if you're ignorant in SL you lack as a human in RL.
If people wants to "hide" behind SL, what's the problem with that? Let's make it more clear, its call "Virtual Game" NOT a RL game, and that my friend, give those people rights to hide if they want. Many people know how to separate what's real and what's not. However, let me inform you that games like this, was invented by a RL person that also had a RL. Meaning, that if a game makes someone happy better than going outside and meet other RL people, who the hell are you to judge them? Because of your bad experience? Please...🙄
And you're right.. you are a mess. Its funny that people don't need to see each others faces to feel or to tell whether someone is a mess, bitter, angry or good for nothing just by the style of writing, tone of voice, or body corporate. Your post says it all.
The true is, it kills you how people use their SLs. But the fact is... the people have the right to use SL how they pleased. They are many bad ones, there also many good ones, but that's their damn problem, not yours.
And your own question "Whats your secondlife definition?" What do you NOT understand behind the words "Second Life"? Second Life is just the world that allows you to do "everything" that you can't do in RL (hypothetical or nonfactual way). People love it, so why judging?
You claimed you're leaving this game? Yeah right!🤥 But even if its true, does it matter? Is anyone is going to miss you or remembers you? I doubt it. But you definitely will remember SL🤣