Ashlyn Voir

Sure, Theresa. Sure. ??

Interesting this thread I’ve created has been derailed from one topic to something about marketplace sales, childbirth, and mesh bodies/heads. Either way, feel free to continue detailing. My thoughts haven’t changed as this thread proves enough to me. I’ll sit back and continue to watch.

Thanks for the suggestion, Luna, but if I could think seriously for a moment the negative outweigh the positive.

Yes, indeed.??

Oh, most certainly Avaraia. Right on point. ?? Also, Avaraia. To the latter, I suppose I could, but I am not active on the community board as many of you are. My sincere apologies, Avaraia. ?? I had no idea I was complaining about ‘something’ all the time as you put it.

No worries Callum about the ‘be nice’ aspect of things. I assure you I have been. ?? Also, I’ve interpreted text words the very same way as do all. And, I’ve read them as either sarcastic or rude. But, it’s text, right? How can we know?

That’s nice, BilliJo. ?? I don’t know, you tell me. ??

I’d considered SL a game if only because people don’t seem to consider the feelings of others here and are able to be as rude as possible without feeling any sort of guilt about it. As if you’re just some random NPC on a regular video game. I like SL originally because it seemed fun to customize characters (avatars) and take pictures. And, it seems like a fun idea to interact with people who you never thought to otherwise or don’t have the ability to. But then it just got worse and worse overtime and then you have people who tries to sabotage any sort of experience you want to have like someone who commented on this thread just a few minutes ago.

Maybe.

Even on platforms out of Second Life such as Flickr where a large number of Second Life residents share, I haven’t encountered one decent person as many seem fixated on being rude for absolutely no reason. I wouldn’t recommend the game to anyone really. Do you share the same sentiment as I do for this game?

She says she and her partner use the term ‘n*gger d*ick’ and others like it when they speak to each other. She admits to race play, so we see where this is going anyway.

As I know who this thread is about (a shame you didn’t go in-world to say so), I can’t help but put my own two cents in your thread as a black person myself. And, I’m laughing so hard right now, but it’s okay to be ignorant of a race you’re not a part of. Because...one, not every black person uses n*gga (you said n*gger like what black person calls each other that with the hard ‘er’ like bruh...they don’t say that trust me lmao, but it’s okay you’re not one of us so how would you know). Secondly, mentioning your partner’s race in your profile, in my opinion (key word here is opinion), is really unnecessary and makes it seem like his race is more important to you than him as a person. Then again, it’s just my opinion.

Because it’s the thread I started to make friends. Blame the broad who keeps derailing this thread. Not me. Christ.

It’s not me starting the BS or bringing up years old drama to derail the main point of the thread, but whatever.

If you don’t mind my asking, what makes you prefer paler skins over darker?

Thank you so much for this. The next time I log in-world, I’ll message you

No, the issue I’m having is much different.

I think this advice is stupid. It only enforces to keep running away instead of just being honest. I’ve spent a lot of money on this account and it’s stupid as hell to just run away because some people don’t want me to make friends on the game. Unlike the most of you, I don’t have money just to throw away to make alts and fix them up. Thats then whole purpose of making the thread was to ‘make friends’/‘find friends’. And so far no one has offered anything except asinine “advice”.

No, it’s nothing like that. But, I’m sick of people making a mockery when I just asked for something simple. This thread is getting nowhere so screw it.

That’s all I’m asking for is just a friend. Seriously. I hate constantly being outed and it’s just truly hurtful. And I’ve tried EVERYTHING I could to change and I’m STILL being followed around just to prevent me from doing much of anything.

I’m not...I haven’t done anything. All I’m asking for is to just make a friend on the game and I’m so sick and tired of being like the one person always trying to stop that from happening because they keep bringing up my past in order to prevent anyone from getting to ask me about it first or at least get some clarification of anything. And it’s sickening. And every hobby or community I’ve wanted to rejoin or join is ruined by people like this who won’t ecen bother trying to give me a chance.

I’m avoided in SL and SL Flickr. And, I feel outed and alone and it would be nice to have some friends that won’t judge me for any misdeeds I’ve said or done in my past. I’ve had people take pictures with me and delete them because they don’t want to be associated with my avatar or me as an individual. I’m just trying to move on past it and finally make some friends who want to get to know me. I have a lot of interests and I enjoy talking about many things. I promise I can be a good friend.

I've been on SL for years, but have never been able to hold down friendships in-world. I always felt I had to IM people first or spark up a conversation to keep them talking to me. And just recently my feelings were hurt--as silly as it sounds--by a person who I thought really liked me. They won't even IM me at this point even when I try so hard to be friendly to them. I've tried this method of meeting friends before, but it always ended terribly. Yet, I'm out of options and I would like to do things on SL other than shop or take photos. I'm quiet shy and will take time to open up, but once I feel comfortable I am fun to be around. If anyone would like a friendship, I am available.

Mostly just shop or sim hop as SL is often quiet and no one socializes or you get played by people and their significant others, lol.

I'm not sure where to start. I've been on SL for a while. When I had first started, it was...'okay'. Although, making connections with others is very difficult. I guess it's because it's been so long that maybe my avatar scares people. I always make her how I like her to look, but I'm not sure if it's because I don't fit the standards. It took me a while to get used to this whole mesh thing. I'm not very computer savvy, so I don't join any of the SL photo blogs because my computer runs like crap -it's old-. Funny thing is, I'm young, but bad at editing photos, which makes me feel old. :D I guess what I'm trying to say is I want to learn how to meet people on SL. I'm not really into role playing, so I wonder where to start. It's just awkward because I'm not new and then people will speculate that I am. For the most part, the only people who talk to me are newbs and to be honest, I hate feeling like the only thing I do on SL is help newbs. I invested a lot into my avi, so it would be nice to enjoy it. not sure where I'm going with this. ^^' I just need to find some friends.