Some Off topic:
Actually you remember me a little bit on some ex-residents of the ex-neighbor-country with an oppressive political system, which collapsed in the last century fortunately. These people supported much the idea to control people´s personal lives and to watch them all with a huge secret service agency. I don´t want to live in such an environment, where others are going to tell someone what to think, what to do, what to dream or what fantasies someone should have. For me you appear to me as someone who is trapped in the own ideology and seems to be shifted to someone, who wants to fight for freedom and equality with oppressive methods. Sorry, to tell you this so directly. Nothing personal. It´s just my impression about you when I read your postings.
About the majority thing: Well, I don´t believe much in that. The history of my own country taught me very well, that the majority isn´t always right. About BDSM: In fact it´s not a crime where I live. But some seems to confuse it with crime because they didn´t get the point, that it is a consensual thing. By the way, also the other roleplay ideas are based on consensus. No one can force someone here to take a particular role. Well, some jerks think, they could, but they land usually quickly on a blocklist. Also get over the odd belief that all men has to be dominant and all women has to be submissive. If you plan to shame other for their lifestyle than keep in mind that you are also going to shame males who act on the submissive side and females who wishes to act on the flip side (on also all others, who are acting in between, as trans or gender-fluid or living their fantasies as furries whatever).
About the main topic:
Well, personally it´s hard to believe that women outnumbers men so much. I might have an wrong impression, but in the roleplay areas where I move around sometimes I don´t see really a shortage of men there. In addition I don´t feel like a guy, who is stranded on an isle full of females. Sometimes it appears to me more male-dominated. It bugs me only a little bit sometimes that I often read on other profiles "only females" for instance. As a guy who is an deeply rooted introvert it makes it a little bit more difficult to get engaged. But yeah, that´s just a personal thing and I send very rarely IM´s on my own to others. Often I read only other profiles and I wander only around lately just to see some different places without reaching out really for any possible connections.
More men clothes wouldn´t attract me much, because I am a bit too lazy to invest for the 'right' body which I like and which is popular enough for creators to make some clothes for it. But sim crossing is a thing that could be improved much. But beside of that, I don´t have an idea what´s missing really. You can build, script, create own content, explore, roleplay whatever.