I am a co-owner of the Hitchin' Post and we have been doing weddings for over a year. What are you able to afford and what sorta of budget are you planning? That is going to be the first thing your wedding venue and coordinator will need to know b/c that will put limits on what you can want and what you can afford. How many people will you have attending the wedding? That will also create limits depending on your location. Homesteads can only have 20 people max so that is something you should be aware of. Also, will the bride, groom, and wedding party need flowers and boutineers? We provide all you ask for except the wedding videos, but I have connections to arrange that if you don't have your own videiographer. If you would like to meet, see samples of our custom made venues, and discuss your options further please feel free to contact me in-world.