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    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted

    2 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    Nothing is "on me". I am not responsible for the appalling way you have treated people, and I owe you nothing for it. 


    Now if you're really sorry, please leave me alone. And speak to a professional in RL. 

    Please take care of yourself and enjoy the rest of your day 💜

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

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    3 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    I'd rather have no apology at all than a mealy-mouthed fauxpology designed to attempt to spread the blame for your own actions (you sent death threats???). You know, by claiming you're "not the only one in the wrong" or that I called your avatar ugly when I did no such thing, or that others are at fault if they don't accept said fauxpologies. 

    If you really are sorry then please leave us all alone and go and work on yourself with someone who's qualified to help you. 
     

    If you don’t believe it then that’s on you. I’m not going to keep apologizing if you don’t want it or care about it. I owned up to my actions and that’s that. Hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    1 minute ago, Sassy Kenin said:

    This won't be my most popular posting😁

    My advice is just use the mute features/tools on the forum, only read things when logged in..I've had to mute several who think they run the forums or claim to be linden pets..most people here are not looking to argue and can be very helpful but a handful want to argue with you so you get in trouble...BTW I like your work & pictures🙂

    I think I realize that now unfortunately. My apologies are called phony but I really meant it. Anyway, thank you for being kind and I truly appreciate it.

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    4 minutes ago, Amina Sopwith said:

    I didn't have a bone in it either, as I'd never exchanged a word with her before today. A short while ago, I suggested that if other people were getting more likes than she was on an avatar vanity thread, it might be because their avatars were better. She "defended herself" by swearing at me. She's edited it now, but there's been no apology. She's also now making excuses for sending death threats to someone.

    I don't know, what has anyone been "dishing out" to warrant this kind of "self defence"?
     

    I did apologize, but in case you didn’t see it I’m sorry for swearing at you. It’s taking a lot of balls for me to say that considering you basically called my avatar ugly. But, it’s all good. Like I said, I’m sorry. If you or anyone else chooses not to accept it then that’s fine. I can make ten million apologies and it won’t mean absolutely nothing if those people choose not to accept it. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

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    I can admit when I was wrong. I can admit to letting my anger get the best of me. No, I wasn’t right for being foul to people and I apologize for it. It was a horrible thing to do and I should have been mature about it. And, to Seicher and Beth and whoever else I bad mouthed, I truly apologize. I saw red and was simply out to hurt. I didn’t care and it was childish of me. But, I refuse to make it seem like I’m the only one in the wrong. 
     

    In the end, all I want is just to share my photos and hope others will enjoy it with me. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    20 minutes ago, ClariceRose said:

    She's right, just saying. I don't have a bone in this but I've seen it in the past. People harass Ashlyn and think that's ok, but she's not allowed to defend herself.

    That's my pet peeve for the day. People who can dish out but can't take. 

    Thank you, and those people who are laughing at your posts are the ones who actively start drama all the time. And, mainly because they’re surprised someone actually sees my perspective. I’m not in the right and I can admit to that. I could have reacted differently, but they’re no better than me either. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

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    Just now, AdminGirl said:

    Your av is gorgeous. I rarely browse the threads where all the pics are but I just looked at yours. For what its worth, I'm impressed at what you've produced with your pics when you're using a lower end laptop. So much admiration for that :)

    Well thank you, you seem to be only one of a few who are actually kind here. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

    in General Discussion Forum

    Posted · Edited by Ashlyn Voir

    1 minute ago, AdminGirl said:

    Nothing wrong with wanting likes. But I think competing or comparing with others on the number of likes might not be a good idea for two reasons that I can think of. One, like LittleMe said, these posts have a lot to do with community so the likes are not really a measure of how great the pictures are. So comparing your numbers to others is pointless if you're looking for appreciation for your art. Two, if you're too caught up with comparisons, you might end up feeling down over other people getting 20 likes and forget to even notice that you're actually getting so many likes yourself. We often forget to appreciate good things happening in our own lives when we're too caught up on looking at other people and comparing ourselves to others.

    There's no way to know exactly what drives the number of likes on posts, but my guess is that it's largely to do with friendships that have formed here - friends are always happy to see posts made by each other and so they'll "like". So just keep posting, be patient and be positive, and just have fun with it ❤️

    Yeah, probably. Plus they called my avatar ugly so...they’re just being super rude to me and always have been but it’s fine.

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    9 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

    AND, like I said:  That thread is as much about community and encouragement and camaraderie as much as anything else - so yes, in a way, popularity does play into the mix a bit.  Maybe if you start trying to be part of the community - say something nice about a picture now and then, hand out some Likes on other pictures, etc... - rather than only complaining that you didn't get as much attention as you think you deserve, then maybe you'll get more Likes.

    If you truly want feedback based totally on the quality of your pictures, THAT IS NOT THE THREAD FOR THAT.  So expecting the thread to change over to what you want it to be is just not going to happen.

     

     

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    Alright then. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    2 minutes ago, LittleMe Jewell said:

    I've not chimed in yet on your whole picture whining stuff, yet decided to go take a look.  Below are the Likes on the pictures that you posted in the other thread over the last 10 or so days.  I see plenty of Likes on most of them and could not find a single one that didn't have any Likes - though it is possible I missed some and I only went back to the 15th.  Are you truly just pissy because some of the more popular folks are getting more likes?  Given the number of people that I think you have pissed off, I'd say your numbers are pretty darn good.  When I was posting in that thread regularly, I counted it a good enough picture if I got only a couple of Likes.  I didn't compare my Likes to the number of Likes on other pictures.  I don't need my self-confidence boosted that much.  

    Are you so desperate for approval from others that the Likes actually matter that much?  Honestly, if you are wanting TRUE feedback on the QUALITY of your pictures, that thread is not the place to be posting them.  That thread is about community and encouragement and camaraderie as much as anything else.  In reviewing the thread, it doesn't look like you are very generous with handing out the Likes yourself, so I'm not so sure why you think that everyone should be piling them on you.

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    There are people with 15-20 or more. I’ve seen some with 30 or more. 
     

    What’s wrong with wanting likes? But, whatever. It’s all good. 

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    1 hour ago, IvyLarae said:

    I believe we've spent enough time going back and forth here, so please drop it. If you want to continue this petty behavior @Ashlyn Voir then start a thread of your own. This is a pet peeves thread where we respectively talk about the things that annoy us currently in Second Life.

     

    I urge everyone if you want her to go away then stop giving her what she wants because that's the only reason she is coming back, because you all keep replying to the things she says.

     

    And I urge you Ashlyn to spend time doing something productive and stop being so passive aggressive and rude to people, you complain about noone liking you but judging from your responses you don't make it easy. You can't keep insulting people and then turn around, feeling sorry for yourself and acting like the victim when people get upset. You get what you give, remember that, if you give negativity, you're gonna get negativity back.

     

    Giving me what I want? How do you even know what I flipping want? You don’t know me, so don’t make assumptions about what I want either. And, I was doing something productive which was taking pictures and sharing them. But, apparently I’m not allowed to on here. You all have been nothing BUT passive aggressive since the start so don’t pin that BS on me. Y’all insulted me and I gave back that same energy. And, people have been super negative and rude, so whatever. Pot calling the kettle black.

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    What are some of your pet peeves?

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    Posted · Edited by Ashlyn Voir

    6 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said:

    ^^^ Your usual whiney troll-y drama, that sparked pages of comment, on another thread prompted my post here. My post was genuine, on topic and oh... I didn't name ANYone. You chose to run with it.

    And I've been pretty quiet in this thread and will continue to be because I'm just not that into you. 

    And I honestly think you need professional help.

    And I really wish you would be really "over it" whatever "it" is, instead of just whining and whining and saying how much you don't care when you obviously do and how over it you really are and how SL just sucks and no one can take photos that are as good as yours and your avi is so much better... In other words, get a life.

    Thanks for being so in love with me, Seicher. I love you too baby. 
     

    also, you can’t say get a life when we’re all playing freaking SL. Lmao. 😂😂😂

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    General photography.

    in Art, Music and Photography

    Posted

    Just now, Ditto Darkfold said:

     I'm not inworld right now, Ashlyn, but as soon as I log in this evening I'll check for the creator. 

    Ooo okay thank you so much ❤️ As you can see, I really like piercings and tattoos in general both irl and SL, so I make sure my avie always has some in every photo haha

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