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Everything posted by SteffiiSugabum

  1. Lol yes I don't talk about SL in RL either hahaha. It's where I go to when I'm on my own, want some time to chill and hang out with my friends online. I'm a bit of an introvert so I do just like my space, SLs a good opportunity for that lol. Yeah there are things that give SL a bad rep sadly. Bloggers for example though do help give SL a better rep though. Some people are even getting into vlogging in SL too. I think if people shared their positive experiences more it would help a lot.
  2. Not saying disagreement is restriction. It's the aggression, name calling, being judgemental etc that's an attempt to restrict people.
  3. Lol what exactly is wrong about my opinion that Rape RP isn't beneficial in SL? If anybody can't live without Rape RP in SL. Well you do you, but I wouldn't go boosting about it.
  4. As I said earlier. If there wasn't such a need to seek perfectionism. You wouldn't be arguing lol. For some reason your comments shown to me again, maybe I un-ignored but... no don't start your preaching @Selene Gregoire cause you're one of the rudest and selfish in this forum from how you treated me and others. Did nothing wrong to you and you treated us as your enemy drawing attention to yourself with the ignorance of "come back when you had 45 years". I'll have you know with friends of mine and family put together I have more years then you have for yourself, but that's the point really. You can't see past that it's not just you that's effected. So rather then gaslighting ~ even with the classic "your crazy" line that gaslighters use. Take a bit of responsibility for yourself and think about someone else for a change. Re-muted.
  5. Lol yeah course your not making assumptions/stereo typing lol. I haven't once said don't you dare disagree with me or anything lol. I've even said to you you don't have to agree. I'm just suggesting you're less aggressive with this. You don't have to be like. Lol I don't really care if you try talk down to me really, I'm just pointing out if you clearly are getting so mad at responses yourself... try treating others as you wanna be treated yourself. Last response from me. You go ahead and think what you like.
  6. And again, assumptions, patronising, stereo typing. You're not gonna get any point across if you are aggressive. Talk to me when you calm down. Not here to be accused of things nor talked down too by you. I also haven't provided any hate speech. If me stating that rape which effects people for life isn't a good thing and in my opinion would be beneficial to be revised in SL, is hate speech to you. Well that's just your opinion. Didn't state anywhere disagreeing with someone is a personal attack lol. Hence the quote I made "we can agree to disagree".
  7. I'm sorry to see about your experience by the way. Not impressed by that myself either. Guess just from what I know, you could block the people, never go there again. Even worth reporting cause it seems like its just abusive. Not that I'm condoning this RP at all cause I just don't, it disgusts me. However, they've not asked you out of character at the farrr far minimum if you are here to RP that. It kinda comes across to me that they was just being abusive and not RPing when they was talking to you.
  8. Or maybe like most people, she is mature enough to speak out against something that's so wrong. You don't have to agree of course. This has become immature at times though with many assumptions and personal attacks just for someone sharing a concern out of awareness. I'm not really trying to be insulting but the responses at times its like talking to someone who is still finding themselves therefore will have an open mind about "anything" that isn't properly understood, or what an outcome of something could be before happening. You either know something is wrong and wont try to justify your point to anybody who doesn't agree, or you'll just say ok I don't agree. There is such as thing as agreeing to disagree, even trying to understand rather then rage at/patronise people. Lets stop treating this like its a contest or even interrogation... for a start. Stop raging, stop getting annoyed when someone doesn't agree with you, stop with the name calling/stereo typing etc... Doesn't have to get aggressive this matter. It can be talked about without trying to one up anybody.
  9. Then don't try restrict our free-speech of our opinion of whether rape RP is acceptable in SL.
  10. I know what the post was about... I agree that it should be banned even myself. Sorry I didn't meet your standards in my wording lol... Maybe I will try to do all the extreme perfectionism you do yourself. Anyway, with both those "topics" then, yeah SL would be a more positive place without these things. Everybody here is aware of what goes on in RL, SL for many is an escape/for entertainment from RL, so with that said, why should something negative be in SL? I can certainly live without it and I'm sure these people "for rape RP" could aswell, and if they can't, that this rape RP is all their SL revolves around, then I don't think its a healthy way to spend time nor is something to turn a blind eye too.
  11. Ok your point is understood. But the topic in the first place was about rape rp in SL. There's so many topics that could be had about what we think is wrong or right, likely be never ending though. If you feel abortion rp in SL is a problem then thats fine to speak up. Butt doesn't mean to say we can't keep on topic about this issue?
  12. Hoping people did have a nice Christmas, even if you do see me as your enemy which I'm not lol! P.s the selective people doing laugh emojis on mine, Seres, and Bliss's posts, and liking each others stuff doesn't bother me nor make me doubt myself lol. Sorry if I burst your bubble(s) on that one. 😊
  13. Its Christmas... Also why are we still attacking people who are on topic with a thread? I don't care what ever excuses, insults etc are made against me on this. Had my way all this evil rp would be gone. But I am doing what I can. By making suggestion that LL atleast investigates this matter for themselves.
  14. You keep going back and fourth towards sucking up and being against us lol. Even with the lil emoji things lol. But yeaah lets ALL try to have a nice Christmas day! P.s offers there if you are convinced we are alts lol. There is such a thing as close friendship yey.
  15. I don't get where your coming from in your first sentence? I haven't said I landed in a sim. It's the description just in search literally. Even names of places they will keyword aswell... and no I do not look up the word rape etc either. It will come from trying to look for markets, clubs, shops just anything... doesn't even have to have adult unticked at times I've found aswell. As for MP, I didn't know that no. So thank you for informing me of that. However it is banned from MP if you look at the listing guidelines aswell. So yeah I still do think it needs to be looked into. ~ Also, just as an add, there is also the issue of when you're just on the MP home page this stuff coming up aswell in the featured sections etc. Or if you buy something for free, the adverts for other products, this stuff is coming up in there also and its just not at all related to anything I have/would look at.
  16. I'm not trying to do that either I've said about as much as you have about your own trauma, as I have about my own trauma. With the add that it does effect me, and "other people" in SL too. You keep taking what I'm saying out of context though. I'm not gonna try reason with you any longer cause it's not getting anywhere. I'm sorry that you are clearly hurting, but I'm not against you nor have I tried to be. I'm not here for you to emotionally take your anger out on either. So muting you it is. If you wonder why I'm not replying, that's why. I've tried to give you chance to understand what I actually mean because you've misunderstood me. Now you're snapping at me because you feel something and I am trying to raise awareness to an issue. So yeah I'm just not here for you to argue with. Had you been respectful and not tried to pick a fight with me I might have actually supported you.
  17. I get what you're saying about this in part. However, I've also lost count of how many times I have accidentally read graphic descriptions from the search option in SL. Not even been trying to look for it either. In MP aswell, I could be looking for some clothing, furniture and it comes up with rape beds, hot tubs, date-rape pills... Don't even have to be setting it to Moderate/General for that and objects like that on Marketplace are banned which is what I've been saying. So I do think it needs to be looked into more.
  18. I have made judgement towards rape RP in SL. I've suggested that the issue is brought to Linden Lab directly. Pointing out what rules are had but basically saying I think they need to be revised and the objects, places etc that are allowing this in SL should be looked into. I haven't disrespected you or anyone else. I've had all kinds of judgement thrown at me though just for having my view. I haven't said anything directly to you other then "I'm sorry for what you've been through also" and "You have no right to judge me". That's not disrespecting you.
  19. I didn't get chance to mute you yet, so I replied. I haven't twisted anything, you've just randomly judged me (ironically) in defence of thinking what I said was aimed at you which it weren't. Hence why you quoted my comment and replied defensively of your experience. Again, I am sorry to see/have empathy for you, that you have the experience yourself aswell. I have nearly 9 years and I still struggle with it. So rather then being against me, if you let me I'd actually be supportive/compassionate with you about that. You didn't though, you judged me. Also I believe respect is given not earned. You respect people, fair if they blow your trust then they earn it. However that's how you view it and that's fine. Just don't think if you call me out/disrespect me for no reason at all, I will bow down to you either. I wouldn't "need to get over myself" had you not said things about me. We have to take a bit of responsibility for our own actions rather then excuse them. I haven't done anything to you. Don't treat me like I'm your enemy when I'm not trying to be...
  20. What truth exactly? I've just said nothing I said was aimed at you... You came out with saying you think I may not have been through it. You have no right to say that, how would you feel if I said the same about you? It's just something you don't do. Have a bit of respect. Not only did I actually state its happened to me on more then one occasion, I said my friends and family have aswell. So whats your deal? Saying that my friends and family haven't aswell? It was uncalled for, no matter what you thought I was saying directed to you... Seems to be the issue here though. People are only thinking about themselves. What they "think" or "want to think". That's fine, you do that but don't try bring me down with you over taking something I said the wrong way. Had I been in that same situation, I would of never even thought about saying that to you. I'd of just said the part of what you're basically saying to summarise it up "Er excuse me, I have felt this way don't judge me." Not defended and then passed judgement back. It's not a contest.
  21. Telling me to be an adult and basically get over it.. isn't the way to go about that. But fine I accept that. I'm still not gonna be comfortable with this in SL however.
  22. Never said you wasn't however, you have just spent the last 2 comments trying to state I'm not. So that's why I said it.
  23. I didn't even say anything about you not being. I'm sorry for what you've been through. Don't ever accuse me of never experiencing what I have you should know for yourself that's playing on fears all survivors have. Just because you've taken personally against you what I said which wasn't directly aimed at you whats so ever... do not state I haven't experienced because I have and you have NO right to say that. Now I am gonna mute you because I don't need that negativity from you. That was beyond uncalled for. What even makes you think someone would want to state they have if they haven't baffles me.. I'm not proud of it you know...
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