danababy69

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okay, am not talkin about inside, am talkin about outside decor.. they have animesh dolls now, say you wanted to setup lewdly posed animesh dolls? mind you this is also in accordance with Diamonds point, about pornographic art on ground level not havin action taken. where then is the line drawn between what the animesh dolls are doin versus what the avatars are doin.. am sayin the M ratin does not satisfy the needs for everyone, and that as a consumer, of a product, that you pay for, why would you continue to pay for some'n that is not goin to offer you what you want, why should you be forced somewhere else, away from civilisation?? that's awfully antisocial, like bein told 'heathen!! take your lewd and lascivious conduct to a commercial island!!' you're not welcome on the mainland

so you believe AR is entirely 100% free from abuse? the system is perfect?.. no damage can be done? it hasnt been abused before by people who plainly just want to watch the world burn, because they dont care about, other people?? no sense in discussion!! the system is perfect!! ladies and gentlemen, you heard it hear first!!

that's fine and dandy, but what is the point of payin for a service that is not goin to guarantee me, safety, in the dwellin provided for me, by the paid service? if i am to change who i am to suit everyone else, to protect other's delicate sensibilities, why am i not afforded the same protections?.. LL wants to say you are to do this and this in compliance with closed doors, but i wouldnt need closed doors, if i had an adult region. am not askin to run around nekkit, or flaunt me sexual exploits, but what if i choose to decor me land in lewd statues, or grotesque violent scenes? why am i forced into a moderate zone, unable to maximise me freedom of self expression, in area that doesnt allow the full security measures necessary to facilitate the 'closed doors' policy in the first place.. i have to modify who i am, to suit others.. it's censorship.. it's not like i joined an HOA.. am not askin for anythin more than to simply have the freedom to be me, in any way i so choose, in the Linden offered land, they offer in their paid subscriptions.. i want safety, to know that at any point in time, am not gonna be needlessly prosecuted for materials deemed unworthy, of the land ratin, in an area am not able to fully hide me parcel.. which is effectually preventative to any outdoor decor i might want to put up that may be in someway shape or form suggestive in nature, why should i have to fork out the extra quid, to be given land i cannot do with as i wish? why should i be forced into commercial territory? that's pretty much sayin to your adult userbase, 'this town aint big enough for the two of us, and am not goin anywhere' *forceful chest poke* 'buddy'

this is no way, shape, or form, some deep science that needs solvin.. it's plain as day, the sims with the highest traffic per capita, beyond any shadow of any doubt is adult sims.. increased availability would definitely decrease price. a cost/demand scenario is what you're lookin it. availability of Adult regions, are about more than the ability to engage in sex, avoidin nosy neighbours and so on.. it is about the guaranteed protection, and privacy of your area, to do and be anythin without the fear of grey areas you could be held accountable to.. the limit of what you can do with an M sim versus what you can do, with an adult one really is the difference between bein reported for a phallic water fountain outside, and not

this is by far the most rational and logical thing, anyone has said on the topic, if you can disagree with anythin said here, you are advocatin for confusion, chaos, and a world where all that exists is grey areas, that could or could not lead to you bein unjustly prosecuted for adult activity.. this whole 'sterilise the world to suit me, cus i'm so infantile, i cant live in a world, that contains that which makes me uncomfortable, so rules must be put in place that punish the collective, and satisfy only me' issue would be sorted as well, with the adult rated sims and regions, the Adult ratin itself would serve as the warnin, that 'hey, unless you want to see adult material do not venture beyond this point as this is an adult activity protected area'.. the M ratin, is not safe, is not protected, the 'behind closed doors' thing only works in instances where people know how to utilise all the security measures offered, noobs who want to get freaky are not gonna know how to utilise all the security measures necessary to protect themselves against a peeper who reports them for adult activity in an M rated sim. the grey area is too vast, we need clear concise rules, areas dedicated specifically for this and that, so that people who want it, can find it, and people who dont can avoid it.. it's pretty cut and dry.. and simple.. if you want your sterile world, where there is less adult activity visible, then you need the adult regions, dedicated to house the safe and protected adult activity.. M is entirely too much a grey area.. that's all to say that the A ratin doesnt only cover sexual content it covers a vast array of other content that would not be permitted on an M or G rated sim.. the list of potentials, that could get you in trouble start to grow, the more you lookit, what can be done in an A rated sim and what can be done in an M rated sim.. the idea is to grant homes to those who engage in adult activity, so that your entire userbase is represented, and not marginalised, and are able to be themselves, and engage in the thingers that allow them to maximally express who they are in a safe and protected environment free of of the fetters of conviction via this medium.. people come here to live vicariously through an avatars. it is called Second Life, you can live an entire second life here.. it's a safe place to live out fantasies you otherwise would never live out in RL because of the vast dangers such actions and consequences would have in the real world.. if i want to sleep with half the world, i can do so here, and not worry about STD's, UTI's, pregnancy, etc. if i want to be godzilla and destroy a city i can, and never actually harm anyone in the process, if i want to play a bank robber, i can do so without ever actually robbin a bank, it is the perfect hyperbolic existence.. there is nothin you cannot do, or be.. why are we tryin to limit or stifle this, by sterilisin the world of adult regions, that would ultimately make it safer for all it's users anyways

sooo, SJW is not explicitly a pejorative, SJW's were originally self proclaimed SJW's.. it has been used as one because the sort who engage in SJW-like behaviours tend to have a rules for thee and not for me attitude, hence why people turned into pejorative meant to harm... it's all about your frame of reference.. the social justice movement originated in the Atheism plus community, and people called themselves SJW long before, it were a pejorative, it's up to the interpreter to determine whether or not is a pejorative or slur.. to the people who use as a pejorative, it is meant to classify a type of individual, who wants to be a protected class, but calls it equality, again 'rules for thee, not for me', to those who used it long before it were a pejorative, it means those who stand up for social justice.. if you are offended by it, you are part of the problem.. as words are simply words and only have the meanin you assign to them.. Now, that does not give people free pass to act like arseholes, it's just a lesson as old as time, sticks and stones may break me bones, but words will never hurt me.. words have power, only because you believe in the power they have and they gravity they carry, if you stop carin what other people think about you, it all of a sudden doesnt matter what anyone says about you.. you can call me anythin you like, i dont give a good toss one, because words are words, and i dunno you.. who are you to me?? the idea of not offendin someone is about respectin them, but that doesnt mean they should be offended by petty insults especially if it werent even directed at them.. if you recognise that person is tryin to belittle someone, that should immediately detract from their point, and plainly it's okay to disregard their point, since they want to sink to the level of insults.. but to give the insult power, by bein offended means you have surrendered control over your own emotions to someone who doesnt eeven have your emotional interest at heart, and why would you do that unless you wanted to be hurt or offended??

that i can understand, but again it's best to let people have enough rope to hang themselves than it is to hang them before they've even committed a crime, i've amassed many loyal frands on SL, people i would trust with me life.. by not shuttin down conversations, because of how i wanted to be addressed or spoken to.. if you let people be themselves, you will either find out, that they're not who you want with you, and leave them, or you will keep them, and they will love you, for acceptin them as they are, and not askin them to speak, or be a specific way to be with you, and from there, they will be willin to do nearly anythin, that you want. and it's because you dont expect it, dont ask for it, dont hold them to some unrealistic standard.. and they appreciate that immensely, it vastly more social, to let people be them, even if you dont agree with them. me current SL partner and i, cannot agree on one thing politically, other than governments tend to suck, otherwise we are perfect diametric opposites in that regard, however, i dont ask her to be anythin other than her, i don tell her to speak, like she believes what i beleive to interact with me... it is why you, understand goin into the situation that is giant grabbag of wtf, you dunnu who youre talkin to, what they believe, what they think, where they're from, not every 'hey' is the 'lets screw' hey, just like not everyone on SL, despite the vast user base bein horn dogs, is tryin to get in your knickers

am initially from the UK me self, and still perfectly understand that 'Hey' is not inherently rude from it's outset, and as this thing as the world wide web exists, unitin different cultures and understandins, havin been on either it or SL long enough, would give someone ample discernment, between 'hey' as in the rude lad gettin your attention at the pub, and a 'hey' full of affection, and curiosity. me point bein to handwave it entirely as cultural difference, is to remove some accountability from someone, who interacts with different cultures via the SL medium, and since SL doesnt really display your ethnicity nor culture above your head, it is wise to go in with the idea, that you are indeed interactin with a grabbag, and to approach everyone as though, they are in good faith, until they prove otherwise, designatin 'hey' immediately to it's 'rude' connotation, without bein aware of where you are, minglin with other cultures is invitin a world of trouble onto yourself, for bein quick to judge without all teh facts

aye, it's static and stagnant, it's ironically(as it relates to the first person i were respondin to) more anti-social than 'hey' -- and aye.. almost immediate nadu pose in Gorean RP for lasses.. whilst, if that is what you want, that's okay, to rule or be ruled.. but, to get back on topic on a day to day basis, i'd argue more conversation's are started with 'hey' than, not.. and it's again more anti-social to tell people how to interact with you, than to just interact with whomever regardless of whether they say 'hey' or not

right? an almost absolute role play scenario where you are always what you want to be, and are adressed so, then you sit unchallenged.

whilst i agree that words 'hey/oi' can be construed as rude, single syllable grunts, almost primitive, that does not grant us the permissions to enforce any kind of rule that states 'you must only address me, these ways' cus from there, what are you goin to do to enforce it? the expectation alone is self-entitlement at it's worst. people are who they are, why do you get to be an authority, on how they conduct themselves, communicate or otherwise? whilst it may be a ghastly form of communication, it is the right of whomever, to be as ghastly and unsavoury, provided they've not violated any rights, freedoms, laws, contractual obligations, and in SL's case TOS.. sooo, you can hate it all day, but you've no right to expect anyone to greet you a specific way, without yourself, violatin their basic right to speak, as they please.. now you are free to ignore them, and not acknowledge them, if that is as you see fit, you've no obligation to respond to 'hey/oi' but you also dont have the right to tell people they cant use 'hey/oi' it is outside of your control, and people are who they are, and speak how they speak, and you need to either not talk to those people, so you can avoid it, oor accept it, cus it's not goin anywhere any time soon. also, 'hey' is usually someone reachin out, that kinda implies the opposite of anti-social

so earlier, i suggested a sin for salvation type scenario, initially, jsut like if you legalised all drugs, there would be an absolute spike in activity, but once everyone is desenstised, has lived it, been it, done it, or figured out half the women cant be arsed, arent interested, or wont do what they're askin, they will get it out their system and be done with it... am not sayin advertise it, am not sayin shove it down anyone's throats, am just sayin, it wouldnt hurt a thing, to let people know they can be themselves, no matter how freaky nor kinky, it couldnt hurt to let people know you can find intimacy here, it couldnt hurt to let people know that SL is more than just remote workin and event managin site, cus when you lookit the main page for SL that is what they sell it as.. i mean really, why is it so wrong to inform the public that there is a safe place to try out your fantasies with other consentin adults? am not sayin make it the main fearutre, am not sayin post pornographic images, am not sayin sell it as cyber sex or, some debaucherous and depraved porno simulator.. am just sayin, relationships, sex, and so much more make up the better part of SL.. when most people think of SL, they think of the relationships they've established with people, and the money they've sank in, and that's at the non-creator level.. most of the relaitonships that occur in SL, started with a sexual experience, because it is so easy and readily available to have sex here, it's STD and pregnancy risk free, it has the appeal of endless gold on those premises.. yet, the same people who spend all that money in SL on those sex items, at those sex sims, are the same people who are left out, in general SL activity, even though the bulk of SL income is from its sex work, be it the furniture the sims, the BDSM movements, the, the people themselves.. the rentals on land alone make them a killin.. their vast user base is horny people.. you stop appealin to your user base, you lose your user base

then their idea would be based on a faulty assumption. they prejudged me based on their symbolic idea, of what 69 means to them, whilst i recognise, that it carries sexual connotations for some, for me however the meanin is imminently more personal than the symbolic representations of sex.. and really, if some'n as simple as 69 at the end'a me name can trigger that response, and those response occurred in vast numbers would that not still illustrate the ubiquity?

what's me name got to do with it? that's as bad as sayin 'look what youre wearin, you deserve it' ffs.. whilst me groups may have some'n to do with it, that does not however account for the other's it happens to like me SL mum, me SL sisters(who has no adult groups in their profile), me SL partner, some of me own SL kids.. and whilst i am but a small sample of the example of this happenin, i know loads others have the same thinger