If we think better, the only way to don't be a FAKE it's make a complete REPLICA of your self in RL ...doesn't matter the gender...I mean...REALISTIC REPLICA : age, appearance, everything...in other words, it means WE ALL ARE FAKES...if you change something of your body just a little bit you are faking...kkkk...in this way everyone in SL should be like they are in RL...not much fun, don't you agree? The gender issue is for closed mind people,just avoid them, but it's better don't lie,even more if you start dating someone...you'd better tell it soon... but maybe the "girl " you want to date could be a guy...LOL..both swapping..That's a perfect couple ! SL is about fantasy and creativity, if you can be a cat or dragon, why not swap gender? Enjoy your SL as you want.