Hi Stu,
Getting to know people in SL can be a challenge so I thought you might like to hear about Daydream Island. It's a very friendly sim, it's free and it's beautiful too. We dont rent land or shops, the whole area is dedicated to nature, dancing, music, socialising and romance. We also have a fun, active group with over 1000 members, shown as 'Daydreamer' on their group tags.
Feel free to visit any time and to join the group (look for the group joiner sign at the hangout/avi arrival point). Wander around and explore, there's lots to see and do. Or simply take a seat at the hangout area by the pool. It's a very popular spot and people of all ages and nationalities drop by regularly to have a chat and meet new people. Many friendships have been formed on those old, white benches. With such a large group you're sure to meet several people that you like and who share your interests - you may even be enticed to try some new things!
Hope to see you there, Stu and any others who may be interested
http://slurl.com/secondlife/Daydream%20Island/65/148/24