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    How to deal with hypersensibility

    in Make Friends

    Posted · Edited by Lunaea Lovely

    On 2/6/2022 at 3:30 AM, Lureo said:

    I must add the last thing.

    Beeing hypersensible is bad and good. Bad because you can get easily hurted and sad. (Isolation is not good for that It is my feeling. It could be worst. Talking and beeing transparent is better)

    Good point hypersensibility can feel you better the game. it is easy to immerse in it. It is really not boring you can feel lot of nice emotions. Do not take this always as negative.

    Human been are behind the kboard. It is not a computer. Feelings, emotions can vary from people to people. But do not forget the good feeling you can receive from others  and for those who is deeling with such person. How happy can your feel when you make someone feeling good with lot of positive emotion because you your interaction.

    Hypersensibility is in both way. And it add higher level to the game.

    It is my last comment and idea to share.

    Being excessively sensitive is not a good thing, which is what hypersensitivity is (which is what I'm assuming you are talking about). Too often people let their emotions get the better of them and make assumptions/are reactionary to what others say/do. I have flamed quite a few of these individuals and I'm learning how to engage with them differently, that or simply ignore/avoid them.

    That being said, if people in general could understand that not everyone has the same beliefs/views and just treat each other with mutual respect, SL and even RL would be a better place. 

    I've been unfriended before and didn't know the reason why, so I simply asked the person and also apologized if I did anything to offend them and we ended up figuring it out. This is how I'd approach any situation where someone wasn't fond of me and I didn't understand why (if I care enough).

    You won't ever know for certain if you've hurt someone if they don't tell you anything, unless they deliberately ignore you or act in hostility towards you. Just be the best version of yourself that you can be. Not everyone is going to like you, and that's okay.

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    How does your avatar look today ?

    in Your Avatar

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    6 hours ago, Jaide Beck said:

    Oh ty. :D i was trying to change my shape to something different. :)) i appreciate it :D

    Sorry, I don't mean to appear vain, I just like my avatar to look nice. :o

     

    jaide.png

    She is very lovely, and her style is different from everyone else that I've seen!

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    How does your avatar look today ?

    in Your Avatar

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    16 minutes ago, Enfysmae said:

    I needed a professional looking pic for an in-game job I got.  I decided to try to tilt it a bit, to fit better. I hope this is okay. 

    Spellbound

     

    Okay okay okay, you remind me of a thicc wood-elf from Morrowind!! It's them eyes I swear... you are lovely though!

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    Second Life Forum Toxicity

    in Forums Feedback

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    4 hours ago, NardweBones said:

    The forum in general feels toxic. The majority of the time I feel misunderstood and unwelcome here. 

    I may have a strong opinion on things but Id also like people to respect each other enough to make constructive comments rather than flame/disrespectful ones.

    Perhaps I myself lack the ability to respect someone else's opinion and thus the directed responses.

    Its not everyone, but a large enough amount of people doing this type of thing explains why the forum is baron. (Users may feel unease posting their thoughts/ideas given the lack of acceptance by the community)

    There probably is no solution to this, other than users like myself leave the forum in-order to better our own health. (Iv been told I am dumb more than once. Ouch.)

    Hugs go out to those who can see through the insanity.

    If anyone else has felt this type of hostility you are not alone <3 your opinions matter too.

    If you have different views on certain topics, you're bound to be misunderstood and labeled as an 'idiot,' which has happened quite a few times to me. I keep my mouth shut most of the time because of this and contribute to certain topics that aren't really opinion-based- like the "how does your avatar look today" thread.

    It is what it is. Hugs to you! <3

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