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Just now, Luna Bliss said:

People can be cruel, no doubt.

But you haven't been very friendly so I can't say their reaction to you would be the proof of how they really are to all people.

not to all people perhaps, but it does show the shadow side of their personality that they think they can hide or say doesn't exist.

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Just now, Beth Macbain said:

What's funny is that you keep accusing everyone else of doing exactly what you're doing... 

Luna, where is the DSM-5? We really do need it now.

touche.. shots fired. LOL..

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Just now, Luna Bliss said:

Most people don't talk about this much, if at all. So why is it so important for you to tell everybody this?

its not really, just some people like to think their snarky actions bother me. when really it doesnt. just deflating their thunderclouds is all. its almost sadly amusing to see people act in this manner, it shows the real person of who they are and how they really can be to anyone they know nothing about.

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2 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

You are obsessed on this forum about nobody being able to affect you. This is a big red flag to me..

no one on these forums can hurt me or make me upset or mad. no one controls my emotions but me.

i dont let petty things upset me or get my angry. I used to be that person but I learned it was a waste of time and energy to give that power to someone else.

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Just now, TDD123 said:

Peeve : People who are too ignorant to use an ignore function when it is in everyone' s interest to do so.

people chose not to use ignore because they are not emotionally immature where they cannot take being attempted to be mocked or ridiculed or made fun of because the are so past those childish games its just humorous when others try it.

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Just now, Beth Macbain said:

Aren't you getting tired of being an ass just for the sake of being an ass?

not being an ass being the truth even if people dont want to hear it. its a proven fact that no one can hurt anyone with their words alone unless that person first allows it. which is why nothing anyone has said here or other places affects me in a negative manner. I chose what bothers me or upsets me, not anyone else.

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5 minutes ago, kiramanell said:

 

Straight out of the Poppycock's Self-help Manual for bullies. Meanwhile, back on earth, it's just the ultimate excuse to say whatever you want with impunity, and then blame those you hurt for feeling the pain you inflicted, as icing on the cake.

wrong its the truth and you just dont want to accept it because then you cant use your excuse of being triggered or made angry or upset as an excuse.

you cannot be hurt by words unless YOU chose to let it. its a known fact by those who are old enough to understand that saying and what it implies.

just most people are too emotional immature to be able to take responsibility for their own feelings and actions based upon what someone said to them so seek an excuse to validate their behavior

no one can make anyone mad or happy or upset or angry or hurt by words alone.

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error codes and what they generally mean.

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For those who think im using the laugh as scorn.. nah.. I actually find what you say amusing in my own way. so keep thinking what you are thinking and making it a you problem and not a me problem. because all you are doing is making emotional choices on theories and not facts. if I dont like you, I do have the courage to come out and say it here or at least send a dm/pm stating so. so if you have not gotten, one its all just speculation on your part.

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Just now, Seicher Rae said:

Anti-pet peeve (which is kind of on topic, right?): For every sarcastic/scorn 😄 response I get, I get at least a point toward increasing my forum standing. I don't take stock in the ratings, but some people do, so "thank you." ♥

works the same for others too.

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9 minutes ago, Sylvia Tamalyn said:

JFC people, is there a contest this week to see who can shut down the most threads?

If someone is being a horse's arse, put them on Ignore. If many someones are being horse's arses, put them ALL on Ignore.

Then let it go and enjoy the forums.

even if you put them on ignore they can still see what you say and react to it and you will still see the reaction, plus if anyone quotes them you will see what was said then too.

and even if put on ignore does not mean they wont continue to reply and others will see it anyways. not everyone that replies cares who does or does not see it. they reply just because they can.

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1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

If you're seen as simply a disruptive person nobody will listen to you, so your efforts at 'enlightening' everyone with logic will have little to none effect.

for some but not always for all. its a give and take experience with varied outcomes, which im ok with. i dont try to win everyone over, im not that egotistical..unlike some here can be.

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2 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

You need a smaller spoon, believe me.

or a bigger spoon that knows what to do at times..

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1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

Why do you feel the need to inflict your "logic" way of relating on people who enjoy the emotional component of relating as well?  Doesn't seem like a good fit, unless your motive is to annoy others....???

not to annoy but yes to stir up the pot at times or things get stagnant and stale. which makes for a boring life. why should I let anyone inflict their emotional way of relating to people on me?

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1 minute ago, Beth Macbain said:

First sentence- Aren't those same traits the ones that enticed you to come after me? Do you hate yourself that badly?

Third sentence- Then why are you here in this social forum?

you dont have to be social to be here or have a reason to be here. no I dont hate myself at all. nice try..i know what I am and accept it. I dont hide from it or shame it or be embarrassed by it. nor can I be humiliated or degraded or devalued because of it. no one but me decides my value.

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1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

You are forgetting that some are here to connect with others in a vulnerable way, receive support or friendship. So they don't want to exist as a deranged type of Yogi.

not deranged, just logical to a fault perhaps.

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6 minutes ago, TDD123 said:

@Drakonadrgora Darkfold : " There is no way for anyone to prove it is not real and no way for me to prove it is real. It is just a feeling a gut instinct that feels right to me. Something you cannot really place your finger on yet at the same feels as it is real and has always been so."

Looks familiar ? .. How do you feel now about what you wrote there and how you act here ? 

 

nice try taking that from that page. simply put, it means I dont care if you think im crazy you cant prove it.

but it has been proven that peoples emotions are under their control if they so chose to do so consciously.

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2 minutes ago, Sukubia Scarmon said:

Then I am going to specify that I believe it's not a concious choice, thus most people having little to no controll over it. I mean, I'd say it's the same with those ...uh, shaolin monks (not sure?) who have amazing controll of their bodies. So it's possible, but they trained long and hard to be able to archive that. 

Words can hurt - verbal abuse is a thing.

words can only hurt until you learn they have no power over you but what you give them, beyond that point they can not ever hurt you agian. its a lesson that most people take nearly a lifetime to learn.

it is completely a conscious choice just most people like to claim its not to use that as some excuse or defense for their actions towards others.

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6 minutes ago, Seicher Rae said:

It's really sad and disheartening to watch cliques squabble amongst themselves. 😞

 

take your own advice sometimes perhaps.

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1 minute ago, Luna Bliss said:

I have a feeling there's nobody around you, because you don't consider them in the interaction.  You seem to think only YOU matters, and justify relating that way as indicative of some positive attribute you call "blunt".

i do live alone but that is by personal choice. but I do have family and friends i do interact with and am the same way around them too and they dont try and change me to suit their views of how I should be according to them.

before you say or think that is what im trying to do its not.. im just showing the otherside of the coin that people often forgets exists. why because I chose to, because I can. not because I think its a right or entitlement.

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6 minutes ago, Sukubia Scarmon said:

Emotions can get triggered by events. That has little to do with chosing.

incorrect all emotions are chosen reactions based upon past experiences. no one can trigger or make you have an emotion, you chose to have that emotion based upon your past life experience and how they affected you by the choice you made about how to deal with them. all triggers can be controlled if a person so choses to and be mindful of what they are doing and feeling in the moment they are doing so.

there is an old saying.

sticks and stones may brake my bones but words will never hurt me.

It is a very true saying even if some dont want to accept the validity of it.

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2 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

There are times to be more emotional, and there are times to bring in more theory. I don't think your theories were in the least appreciated. That's what matters -- not whether you were right or wrong with your theories.

You seldom 'read the room'....you just bust in and tell everyone they're wrong.

nah, I dont read the room. as I said before im blunt and brutal. it keeps those away from me that cant deal with it.  which is fine with me. im not a socialite or social butterfly nor do i need or want to be.

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2 hours ago, Octavia888 said:

Hey everyone I am unable to access the adult content portion of the forum. I can see it on my main, but cant access it on this alt. Yes i am over 18 and entered the according bday when creating this account. Am i missing something obvious? Thanks guys!

maybe its blocked to you because its a new account, not sure. give it a few days then try again. if you really put the right date in that proves your 18 or above I think it would be open to you. have you logged in to the viewer and made sure you ticked adult content in that, it might have some effect but I dont really see how or why.. maybe try going to the marketplace and see if you can see any adult items with the account.

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9 minutes ago, Luna Bliss said:

And how is expressing their worries over missing a forum friend, speculating on what might have happened to her,  "forcing their opinion or views or ethics or morals on you or anyone else"?    Your behavior was SO bizarre in that thread I shudder to think of it.   It was NOT a theory thread...it was an emotional one. You really don't get the difference.

there really is no difference between the two. some people like to think there is but there isnt. all emotions are based upon theories and not facts. the only fact is that she has not been on the forums for a time, nothing more. the rest was all emotional theories of what could have happened.

if you get mad it is not because the person made you mad, you chose to get mad. no one can make anyone have a specific feeling about anything.

if you get upset no one made you get upset, you chose to get upset based upon theories and not facts.

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3 minutes ago, TDD123 said:

Surely not. But what you are doing isn' t debating either. It' s counter-effective to any form of genuine discussion.

No one wins anything like this.

I ask you to stop.

never said I was debating, debating means someone wins or looses or is out to changes someones mind. there is no win or loose to me. its just information and a discussion with no right or wrong way to do it. but some like to think their etiquette trumps others when it doesn't.